I'm with you there. There seems to be a more comfortable feeling having a regular buddy, and to be able to build on a connection with each other. For me, that's the best way to goi have always been curious and then found this site. reading stories of people like me really was exciting. i ended up chatting with a lot of people and sharing what we wanted to do. i finally meet someone who was nice and after a few weeks of chatting, ended up meeting. he wasn't with many and we felt really comfortable together. he had is own place so easy to met. The first time that we had sex was incredible and we keep meeting once a week for a few months. i really want to meet someone again and have the same experience.