Curious & Experiences

[CuriousGuyVa]

Agreed, but how do you keep your private life from becoming public?

I am confident I can find partners, but I can't find the security or place to play without it disrupting or threatening my "real" life.

BTW, how did your meet up go?

How do you meet another guy? I imagine a bookstore is one place, but would seem to be a one time thing. And not all places have one relatively close by. So how does a regular guy going about his regular life meet someone to turn in a regular thing?

 

[Terrylipstick]

How do you meet another guy? I imagine a bookstore is one place, but would seem to be a one time thing. And not all places have one relatively close by. So how does a regular guy going about his regular life meet someone to turn in a regular thing?

I’ve had some success (and a lot of disappointments) with sniffles and adam4adam. I’ve met a few guys that I’ve hooked up with regularly, for a couple of years. Give those sites a try. Good luck.

 

[write_or_wrong]

I’ve had some success (and a lot of disappointments) with sniffles and adam4adam. I’ve met a few guys that I’ve hooked up with regularly, for a couple of years. Give those sites a try. Good luck.

I just looked at the Sniffies website and read a review of it and thought it looked hopeful. Any others here had some experience with it that would like to share with the rest of us?

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I just looked at the Sniffies website and read a review of it and thought it looked hopeful. Any others here had some experience with it that would like to share with the rest of us?

I've only kept to this site.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

So wanting to get past curious stage and be an experienced bi man and pass my knowledge to curious guys ! So hard to find a fwb close by I think most are undercover or fake promises like women you might get some teasing I thought men weren’t like that! More honest and tell you what they want no games

Taking that next step would be a huge one and would take time, depending how high you set your bar. I think you have to keep in mind that most probably are just living out a fantasy or two they may have, and most likely won't go as far as that.

 

[Bi_Guy50]

So wanting to get past curious stage and be an experienced bi man and pass my knowledge to curious guys ! So hard to find a fwb close by I think most are undercover or fake promises like women you might get some teasing I thought men weren’t like that! More honest and tell you what they want no games

Just wondering why you thought "men weren't like that"?
It's difficult to find a guy with the same interests because men usually tend not to put themselves out there and are a bit more suspicious when it comes to meeting. Also IMO, when on line, most are just living out their fantasies anonymously. That being said, like the lottery you have to play to win.

 

[PG564E]

My curiosity made me cum harder when I imagined sucking another guys cock. It led me to taste my own semen. I really liked it. That led me to cock lust so much stronger than me. Which found me on my knees sucking a strangers dick, swallowing cum for the 1rst time that wasn't my own. After giving lots of head, I heard myself moaning as a hung man fucked me in a hotel room. I loved that too.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

My curiosity made me cum harder when I imagined sucking another guys cock. It led me to taste my own semen. I really liked it. That led me to cock lust so much stronger than me. Which found me on my knees sucking a strangers dick, swallowing cum for the 1rst time that wasn't my own. After giving lots of head, I heard myself moaning as a hung man fucked me in a hotel room. I loved that too.

A succinct account of your evolution, or should I say a step-by-step "play book" on how to get from Curious to Experienced?

 

[Dreamer110]

I've only kept to this site.

Same as I have.

 

[PG564E]

A succinct account of your evolution, or should I say a step-by-step "play book" on how to get from Curious to Experienced?

Hello my friend, my descent into total homosexuality is accurate, and true.

 

[Bi_Guy50]

My curiosity made me cum harder when I imagined sucking another guys cock. It led me to taste my own semen. I really liked it. That led me to cock lust so much stronger than me. Which found me on my knees sucking a strangers dick, swallowing cum for the 1rst time that wasn't my own. After giving lots of head, I heard myself moaning as a hung man fucked me in a hotel room. I loved that too.

That's quite a step by step journey from curious to experience... or, in your words, from straight to homosexuality...

 

[Jacktrew]

Just wondering why you thought "men weren't like that"?
It's difficult to find a guy with the same interests because men usually tend not to put themselves out there and are a bit more suspicious when it comes to meeting. Also IMO, when on line, most are just living out their fantasies anonymously. That being said, like the lottery you have to play to win.

Do you play?

 

[Bi_Guy50]

Do you play?

What do you mean?

 

[Jacktrew]

You literally said "you have to play to win". I was asking you if you actually played or hooked up with guys.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

You literally said "you have to play to win". I was asking you if you actually played or hooked up with guys.

Still curious

 

[Dreamer110]

Still curious

And frustrated?

 

[Bi_Guy50]

You literally said "you have to play to win". I was asking you if you actually played or hooked up with guys.

I had one regular buddy... So I guess you can say I'm not hooking up, but do hope to find another regular.

 

[AvgGuy01]

I'm on the curious side, and trying to keep up on the posts here because many responses seem to be similar to my line of thinking.
With that being said...

What do you think it was that had you beginning to have an interest in cock/guys?
Did you feel curious when you were younger or later on in life?
How did you finally go to the experience side?

For me it curiosity definitely has a connection with not getting enough sex (divorced)
It was later in life for me, and more as I got older
Still on the curious side

 

[curiousguy80]

I finally got to experience sucking cock in late January. He and I had been chatting for over a week before we met in person. He had some experiences, I had zero. He was in town for work again, and was staying at a hotel local to where I live. While we had chatted about what both of us wanted to do, when I met him in his hotel room the intention was to just do a meet and greet. Since I was new, I felt meeting in person, leaving, and arranging another meetup the next time he was in town, would be a safe approach. Who knows, after meeting in person I may have realized it wasn't something I really wanted to do. Since he lives far away from me, I'd most likely never see him again if it was something I decided not to go through with.

But from the second he opened the door, he was chill. He noticed I was super nervous (I told him I was as well), and he reassured me everything was ok, he wasn't going to ask or force me to do anything, I can leave when ready. Talking lead to sitting on the same bed next to each other, he had porn on so we were watching that. I asked if I could see his cock, he took his pants off and started to stroke himself. I asked if I could touch it, he gave me the ok. Then I asked if I could feel him in my mouth, he said if I felt comfortable, I could try that.

When I took him into my mouth he was still soft. It didn't take long until he was fully erect in my mouth. While I didn't have a lot of time to spend with him, I really enjoyed the brief time I had sucking him.

I went through everything that everyone posted here before finally going through with it. I made many posts on sites, I responded to many. Fear of getting caught, getting an STD, getting robbed, me losing interest in meeting, him losing interest in meeting, etc. Finding this guy and this situation took forever, but I'm happy it worked out. He and I have stayed in touch since, he's going to be back at the hotel by me later this week. This time I'll have more time to spend with him.

For those who are still waiting, I recommend being patient. Don't rush into the wrong situation, take the time to find the right guy and the right situation. I honestly thought I had given up on ever trying. One random day, I was going through posts on double list and found his. I can say this, at least for me, it was worth the wait.

 

[michaelinteas]

I finally got to experience sucking cock in late January. He and I had been chatting for over a week before we met in person. He had some experiences, I had zero. He was in town for work again, and was staying at a hotel local to where I live. While we had chatted about what both of us wanted to do, when I met him in his hotel room the intention was to just do a meet and greet. Since I was new, I felt meeting in person, leaving, and arranging another meetup the next time he was in town, would be a safe approach. Who knows, after meeting in person I may have realized it wasn't something I really wanted to do. Since he lives far away from me, I'd most likely never see him again if it was something I decided not to go through with.

But from the second he opened the door, he was chill. He noticed I was super nervous (I told him I was as well), and he reassured me everything was ok, he wasn't going to ask or force me to do anything, I can leave when ready. Talking lead to sitting on the same bed next to each other, he had porn on so we were watching that. I asked if I could see his cock, he took his pants off and started to stroke himself. I asked if I could touch it, he gave me the ok. Then I asked if I could feel him in my mouth, he said if I felt comfortable, I could try that.

When I took him into my mouth he was still soft. It didn't take long until he was fully erect in my mouth. While I didn't have a lot of time to spend with him, I really enjoyed the brief time I had sucking him.

I went through everything that everyone posted here before finally going through with it. I made many posts on sites, I responded to many. Fear of getting caught, getting an STD, getting robbed, me losing interest in meeting, him losing interest in meeting, etc. Finding this guy and this situation took forever, but I'm happy it worked out. He and I have stayed in touch since, he's going to be back at the hotel by me later this week. This time I'll have more time to spend with him.

For those who are still waiting, I recommend being patient. Don't rush into the wrong situation, take the time to find the right guy and the right situation. I honestly thought I had given up on ever trying. One random day, I was going through posts on double list and found his. I can say this, at least for me, it was worth the wait.

What a great experience. Thank you for sharing it.

 

[Bi_Guy50]

I finally got to experience sucking cock in late January. He and I had been chatting for over a week before we met in person. He had some experiences, I had zero. He was in town for work again, and was staying at a hotel local to where I live. While we had chatted about what both of us wanted to do, when I met him in his hotel room the intention was to just do a meet and greet. Since I was new, I felt meeting in person, leaving, and arranging another meetup the next time he was in town, would be a safe approach. Who knows, after meeting in person I may have realized it wasn't something I really wanted to do. Since he lives far away from me, I'd most likely never see him again if it was something I decided not to go through with.

But from the second he opened the door, he was chill. He noticed I was super nervous (I told him I was as well), and he reassured me everything was ok, he wasn't going to ask or force me to do anything, I can leave when ready. Talking lead to sitting on the same bed next to each other, he had porn on so we were watching that. I asked if I could see his cock, he took his pants off and started to stroke himself. I asked if I could touch it, he gave me the ok. Then I asked if I could feel him in my mouth, he said if I felt comfortable, I could try that.

When I took him into my mouth he was still soft. It didn't take long until he was fully erect in my mouth. While I didn't have a lot of time to spend with him, I really enjoyed the brief time I had sucking him.

I went through everything that everyone posted here before finally going through with it. I made many posts on sites, I responded to many. Fear of getting caught, getting an STD, getting robbed, me losing interest in meeting, him losing interest in meeting, etc. Finding this guy and this situation took forever, but I'm happy it worked out. He and I have stayed in touch since, he's going to be back at the hotel by me later this week. This time I'll have more time to spend with him.

For those who are still waiting, I recommend being patient. Don't rush into the wrong situation, take the time to find the right guy and the right situation. I honestly thought I had given up on ever trying. One random day, I was going through posts on double list and found his. I can say this, at least for me, it was worth the wait.

Good read, sounds like you had a bit of fate involved. I agree with the don't rush in, taking your time, and finding the right guy.

 

[Bi_Guy50]

I'm on the curious side, and trying to keep up on the posts here because many responses seem to be similar to my line of thinking.
With that being said...

What do you think it was that had you beginning to have an interest in cock/guys?
Did you feel curious when you were younger or later on in life?
How did you finally go to the experience side?

For me it curiosity definitely has a connection with not getting enough sex (divorced)
It was later in life for me, and more as I got older
Still on the curious side

I'm with you about the not enough sex part, and maybe having an interest in something to make sex more interesting.

There seemed to have been a curiosity throughout my life and I just didn't face it until I got older.

It was with a buddy I knew socially

 

[Gator50]

I started by cruising chat rooms - which are not so common these days. But the point is that I first made contact online. So try Grindr or the like or Doublelist and start by chatting and video. In my case then and now on Grindr, I moved on to video mutual pics and stroking. At some point talk about getting together. Eventually that will work out. The most difficult is to find someone who can host. In my case, I’ve found gay men who were not scared off by a married man, probably because they were sure that they were just going to be taken advantage of and then just dropped like a bad habit. Good luck to you.

 

[james2346]

i have always been curious and then found this site. reading stories of people like me really was exciting. i ended up chatting with a lot of people and sharing what we wanted to do. i finally meet someone who was nice and after a few weeks of chatting, ended up meeting. he wasn't with many and we felt really comfortable together. he had is own place so easy to met. The first time that we had sex was incredible and we keep meeting once a week for a few months. i really want to meet someone again and have the same experience.

 

[write_or_wrong]

i have always been curious and then found this site. reading stories of people like me really was exciting. i ended up chatting with a lot of people and sharing what we wanted to do. i finally meet someone who was nice and after a few weeks of chatting, ended up meeting. he wasn't with many and we felt really comfortable together. he had is own place so easy to met. The first time that we had sex was incredible and we keep meeting once a week for a few months. i really want to meet someone again and have the same experience.

Very happy that your first encounter was great. Hope you have many more. If you find another guy who seems compatible (with you AND the other guy you're having fun with) I would encourage you to try getting all three of you into the same bed. I have found that increasing the participation by 50% increases the excitement by 100% (or more).

Good luck!