Curious & Experiences

[indeterminateneed]

So.....apparently I'm very similar to lots of other married curious guys on this site. But it also seems like a lot / most of us have trouble moving from hot chat / fantasy into reality....even though we seem to all want the same thing. Another curious (married or not) guy to chat with and hopefully finally meet up with. Bit at least for me it hasnt happened....I feel like one or both parties either gets cold feet and doesnt come back to the site and/or things change and we don't have the opportunity to do so meaning any possible connections are probably lost.

I hope all get what we're after....and also...always looking for connections to share stories/fantasies/hot porn links/dirty chat. And can make this commitment .....even if one or both parties aren't able for whatever reason to connect for a bit.....it's been enough years that I know I'll always be on here when able... so say hello!

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

So.....apparently I'm very similar to lots of other married curious guys on this site. But it also seems like a lot / most of us have trouble moving from hot chat / fantasy into reality....even though we seem to all want the same thing. Another curious (married or not) guy to chat with and hopefully finally meet up with. Bit at least for me it hasnt happened....I feel like one or both parties either gets cold feet and doesnt come back to the site and/or things change and we don't have the opportunity to do so meaning any possible connections are probably lost.

I hope all get what we're after....and also...always looking for connections to share stories/fantasies/hot porn links/dirty chat. And can make this commitment .....even if one or both parties aren't able for whatever reason to connect for a bit.....it's been enough years that I know I'll always be on here when able... so say hello!

It does appear to be a huge step from chatting to actually meeting. chatting on line to get to know each other seems to a great idea to break the ice, that is if both are close enough distance wise. The thing is that most are here who are living out a fantasy and far from reality, if it seems they may be getting close to actually taking the next step to meeting they will disappear. That being said, there's no reason not to continue a chat with one another about those fantasies...

 

[Scrh2017]

This may have already been done before, but if I don't ask...

I'm interested in chatting with other guys who are curious and wanting to take the plunge, and those who already have had some experiences and especially how they finally took that step.

I'm curious myself but haven't done anything, a little nerves and a little waiting to to find a regular buddy (safe and discrete) for some JO and perhaps later some oral.

I’m in the same boat. I would love to chat.

 

[Scrh2017]

Bathhouse experience

Bathernaked,

your story sounds a little like mine. I am married, to a woman, and wondered what the other side looked like. Some of my Detroit bathhouse experiences have been outstanding, others have been embarrassing. I have found that it depends on many factors. What time of day, what your expectations are, what the group at the time is like. My favorite bathhouse was in Columbus. If anyone would like to hear some of my experiences there, just ask!

Yes please. I would love to hear. I’m in Detroit so I’m very interested.

 

[indeterminateneed]

It does appear to be a huge step from chatting to actually meeting. chatting on line to get to know each other seems to a great idea to break the ice, that is if both are close enough distance wise. The thing is that most are here who are living out a fantasy and far from reality, if it seems they may be getting close to actually taking the next step to meeting they will disappear. That being said, there's no reason not to continue a chat with one another about those fantasies...

Yes indeed...and that's well said. And I'll admit....some attempts for me I've let die on the vine...once things got close. But also...I think we all know that sometimes happens...and/or life where can''t find the alone time to be on here and wherever else. But...at least for me I know that even if its been a bit...Ill always come back here. Hopefully will find someone thats the same...and can have that longer term online chat / fantasy sharing....until itd almost be like no choice but to meet.

 

[Tayloroc]

Yes indeed...and that's well said. And I'll admit....some attempts for me I've let die on the vine...once things got close. But also...I think we all know that sometimes happens...and/or life where can''t find the alone time to be on here and wherever else. But...at least for me I know that even if its been a bit...Ill always come back here. Hopefully will find someone thats the same...and can have that longer term online chat / fantasy sharing....until itd almost be like no choice but to meet.

That’s very well said and captures my thoughts as well!

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Yes indeed...and that's well said. And I'll admit....some attempts for me I've let die on the vine...once things got close. But also...I think we all know that sometimes happens...and/or life where can''t find the alone time to be on here and wherever else. But...at least for me I know that even if its been a bit...Ill always come back here. Hopefully will find someone thats the same...and can have that longer term online chat / fantasy sharing....until itd almost be like no choice but to meet.

There are times you just have to go by your instincts, and there are other times that , as you rightfully said, you just can't hang out here with out gaps in time. Things need to be sorted in the real word. It takes time but, there will be an opportunity to find someone and the conversation exchanges come steady, comfortably, and easy. Even if the location is prohibitive to meeting, message exchanges can really go a long want and at the least, making an on line friend.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Hope you had help with the wood

Not the kind I had hoped for...

 

[wishywashy1956]

Yes please. I would love to hear. I’m in Detroit so I’m very interested.

I like to hear about Columbus Bathhouse very much so

 

[wishywashy1956]

Nightly thoughts got me..

Love to suck it

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Be nice to meet someone with common interests and become FWBS so we could enjoy the summer together.

I'd venture to say that is a commonality for almost every interested guy here

 

[Dreamer110]

I'd venture to say that is a commonality for almost every interested guy here

I'd have to agree.

 

[bobbyinhouston]

I am not curious, I am also not a bed jumping slut. I am just an ordinary married guy who likes other guys. I can loan a shoulder to lean on and a ear to listen.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I am not curious, I am also not a bed jumping slut. I am just an ordinary married guy who likes other guys. I can loan a shoulder to lean on and a ear to listen.

Thank you....That's keeping it real...

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

one of My absolute favourite sights

Nice!

 

[So_GA]

So.....apparently I'm very similar to lots of other married curious guys on this site. But it also seems like a lot / most of us have trouble moving from hot chat / fantasy into reality....even though we seem to all want the same thing. Another curious (married or not) guy to chat with and hopefully finally meet up with. Bit at least for me it hasnt happened....I feel like one or both parties either gets cold feet and doesnt come back to the site and/or things change and we don't have the opportunity to do so meaning any possible connections are probably lost.

I hope all get what we're after....and also...always looking for connections to share stories/fantasies/hot porn links/dirty chat. And can make this commitment .....even if one or both parties aren't able for whatever reason to connect for a bit.....it's been enough years that I know I'll always be on here when able... so say hello!

This, 100% this.

As others have stated, I have chatted with some folks here but meeting never happened. Life just gets in the way. In a perfect situation, you would be able to meet someone local to you that you could hang with in a normal social setting AS WELL AS have some fun with, but that just does not seem to happen

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

This, 100% this.

As others have stated, I have chatted with some folks here but meeting never happened. Life just gets in the way. In a perfect situation, you would be able to meet someone local to you that you could hang with in a normal social setting AS WELL AS have some fun with, but that just does not seem to happen

Sometimes because distances or circumstances meetings aren't possible and chatting is all that could be hoped for. It's easier to meet someone on here than anyone locally and exchange thoughts and feelings, but the ones here seems to be from all four corners. Still one can hope.

 

[Rich145]

Sometimes because distances or circumstances meetings aren't possible and chatting is all that could be hoped for. It's easier to meet someone on here than anyone locally and exchange thoughts and feelings, but the ones here seems to be from all four corners. Still one can hope.

Still hoping

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Still hoping

keep hoping and persevere...

 

[MolecularDiver]

My curiousity has developed into a confidence of wanting to explore

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

My curiosity has developed into a confidence of wanting to explore

That confidence seems to grow the more you realize there are other guys out there in the same situation as you

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Morning all, Hows everyone doing?

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I think you were writing to me

there seems to be more than enough of us in the same boat

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Good morning folks

 

[stargame]

Hard not to be horny

I love your tucked look, you are a pussy.