Curiosity killed the cat...

[Akashla]

but im still curious...

i've read all the advice threads and lots of of others and i love the idea of BDSM and would love to be a sub but... how do you know if you are suited to it?

I think i am, but im not sure that i wouldnt turn around to my Dom/me and tell him/her where to get off!

I guess, what im trying to say is, i think i need a Dom/me that i respect as someone who is fit to dominate me. Is this strange?

Akashla

Excuse my babbling.

 

[NoJo]

Play

The trick is "play." How do you play?
In reality I am a strong, successful energetic guy, used to giving orders. In play I am a weak, lazy guy who needs to be told what to do.
If you find it hard to play, then get a little drunk (if that's your thing). Then just "pretend" to do it. It's like hypnosis -- you feel you're pretending, you think you can just tell the hypnotist where to get off, as you put it, BUT.. you dont. And what do you know, it feels kind of good!