Cunninglus

[RawHumor]

I don't blame you for doing so. In my opinion, every woman is entitled to be licked as often as she desires it, and if hubby is too selfish to service you in that way, he shouldn't be surprised when you seek satisfaction elsewhere.

Really? So if a guy's wife doesn't drop to her knees every time he snaps his fingers, he gets to cheat, too? Or does it only work one way?

 

[subwhore60]

Really? So if a guy's wife doesn't drop to her knees every time he snaps his fingers, he gets to cheat, too? Or does it only work one way?

really you are right - what's good for one is good for the other - BUT I will tell you this week alone I have sucked cock 7 times - my pussy, got one Sat night (1st time in 2 months) for about 20 mins & about 5 mins tues morn. And yet, I have NOT done anything in real life to take care of that need.

 

[RawHumor]

really you are right - what's good for one is good for the other - BUT I will tell you this week alone I have sucked cock 7 times - my pussy, got one Sat night (1st time in 2 months) for about 20 mins & about 5 mins tues morn. And yet, I have NOT done anything in real life to take care of that need.

I'm all for going down on a lover... in fact, my last girlfriend didn't want it (due to issues with an abusive ex) and I very badly wanted to do that for her.

One difference between women and men - many men don't have a problem asking for it and it seems like many women don't ask.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

My girl is the first girl I've ever wanted to eat out. I very much enjoy it and I think she does too.

 

[5watcher]

I admit I love 2 have my pussy licked & sucked BUT I have a problem - hub says he loves 2 but he doesn't do it nearly often enough & then complains it's me that won't let him (hhmmm....usually after I've stated the obvious THEN he wants 2).
My online dom claims he loves 2 eat pussy & tells me all the ways he will - which sounds a hell of alot better than the little bit of licking I get about once every 6 to 8 weeks.

I guess it's like sucking/eating cock - I love 2 but I suppose there r women that don't. My dom tells me I have 2 ask 4 it as men need 2 know - your opinion: ladies do u have 2 ask? men do u wait 2 b asked?

I love to eat pussy. I dont have to ask, I just do. Spend about 20+ minutes at least. I want to make sure she has the big O

 

[Aphro]

really you are right - what's good for one is good for the other - BUT I will tell you this week alone I have sucked cock 7 times - my pussy, got one Sat night (1st time in 2 months) for about 20 mins & about 5 mins tues morn. And yet, I have NOT done anything in real life to take care of that need.

Don't you ask? Like, let's say you are sucking his cock and then you stop and lay back, spread your legs and moan "Baby, eat me...please"...is he gonna say no?

 

[GoddessTink]

I feel the lack of oral pain. I love giving head, and will gladly do it. But my partner suddenly isn't a fan of oral after the last year. I've had it maybe 2 times in the last 4 months. He would get a blow job every day if he wanted it. He never askes for it, I just give. When I ask, in the most sexy way I can, he has an excuse.

I need my pet to come lick me when I need it. It took me a long time to relax and honestly enjoy, and now I know my lover isn't super excited about it, so I can't enjoy. I always just try and cum quickly so we can have sex, which I know he will enjoy.

What's bad is I have 2 former lovers who I mentioned this to, and they both offered to come lick me. Saying I taste fantastic and had one of their favorite pussies. I'm being a good girl and saying no though.


For now.....

 

[Navarreflorida]

Communication is always key.....

But part of communication is listening or picking up on subtle cues. If a partne is not doing something that had been asked for verbally or non/verbally, then for some reason they just don't want to do it. Maybe he has an online Mistress telling him not to do it. There are many reasons to stop, although for the life of me I wouldn't understand them!

 

[NaughtyNicoleUK]

I might be in the minority but I hated that. An ex always suggested it. I said no way Jose. I don't need slobbering like an overly horny St. Bernard puppy.

 

[subwhore60]

no, i don't normally ask - maybe if he gave me any indication he enjoyed it - maybe i would but i want him to just do it - I KNOW I KNOW he can't read my mind....but we have had many conversations about it & hell he tells me often how he knows i love it when he does...hell, i have a lesbian friend tell me she'd show him how to do it...lol

I'm dealing with it and I'm trying to accept that I get it, when I get it *shrugs* - thanks, all!

 

[irishpadraig]

I'm like a lot of the other lads. I enjoy giving oral more than intercourse itself a lot of the time. I feel like I can play a pussy like an instrument with a combination of mouth and hands. I simply love clits and g spots. I will give oral in any position I can reach and love to have a woman straddle my face and let her dictate her pace to change things up.

 

[irishpadraig]

And a partner that loves 69ing and really getting in to an oral fuckfest is awesome

 

[hilton1958]

Really? So if a guy's wife doesn't drop to her knees every time he snaps his fingers, he gets to cheat, too? Or does it only work one way?

Point taken, what I really was trying to say is guys, this is a legitimate desire of a woman, and you should be meeting her needs, not meaning that if it wasn't happening quite as often as she would like, that she should slip out for some extra. At the same time, guys and girls should both be finding out what their partner likes and wants, and to be doing their best to keep them happy.

 

[r508908]

going down

I dated a girl who didn't like me going down on her! After the third time she said 'you don't have to do that for me.' I replied 'I'm doing it for me!'. She never went down on me either....we didn't last.

 

[r508908]

And a partner that loves 69ing and really getting in to an oral fuckfest is awesome

YES!!!

 

[subwhore60]

I dated a girl who didn't like me going down on her! After the third time she said 'you don't have to do that for me.' I replied 'I'm doing it for me!'. She never went down on me either....we didn't last.

i admit in my early years I would tell guys that, but NONE of them ever said "I'm doing it for me!" - thinking about it now - I think I might have cum on that statement

 

[bigwarwood]

I've eaten a little pussy in my day, and got it force fed to me plenty too.

 

[subwhore60]

I agree with most here, if he really enjoyed eating your pussy you would have to kick him away to catch your breath. Don't know if you can change his outlook, consider finding someone that lives for it perhaps. Maybe another woman, that would get him thinking.

have a friend (lesbian) that told me she would teach him...lol

 

[Tio_Narratore]

Cunnilingus? Oh Yes!!

The sight of those folds of flesh unfolding like the petals of a flower, opening to show the soft pink within and the glistening pearl nestled beneath the flesh. The scent as one draws closer, musky and arousing, more nuanced than any parfume Fragonard can hope to create. The touch, of hands on inner thighs, of lips to labia, of tongue to furrow, soft and wet, yielding and resisting, and the tautened globe of the clitoris. The taste, sublimely shading from a mild acridity to a full bodied alkaline, more nuanced than an oak-aged single malt. And the sound! Oh! The Sound! An ethereal chorus of crescendo and decrescendo, arpeggio and glissando, peals of pleasure at staccato tonguing, reverberating in a climax of stringsbrasswindpwercussion cascading into rhythmic aftertones...
Cunnilingus? Oh yes! For me. For her. For us...

 

[robsilver]

I always make it clear that I LOVE cunnilingus. I am attracted to women that like it. Depends on the woman and the situation as to whether I ask or just go for it. A woman that I dated for a while recently lived to be licked, but only RIGHT after taking a shower. She was a little self-conscious otherwise. I am ok with that, as I would not want someone to go down on me right after I came in from a bicycle ride or being involved in something where I was dirty or sweaty.

 

[Sunarri]

Oh, I weep for the ladies who want cunnilingus and not getting it! Hugs to you all. I fall into that category as well. I feel your pain ladies.

I'm recently back in the dating scene *shiver*, and I must say the couple of men I've tried to date missed out on A LOT of untapped -powerful- energy by having a hang up about going down. Their loss I suppose. I was perplexed because I often had to ask for a break with my previous partner.

*shrug*

 

[subwhore60]

a male friend & I were talking & the topic came up - he says he hates it but does it SOMETIMES for his wife. Says it's nasty - I of course questioned blow jobs - he says "that's different" - WTF!!!

 

[lynn-23]

a male friend & I were talking & the topic came up - he says he hates it but does it SOMETIMES for his wife. Says it's nasty - I of course questioned blow jobs - he says "that's different" - WTF!!!

I am lucky to have a husband that LOVES to eat me out. He would spend all day down there if i let him! lol.
I dont know why anyone would think cunnilingus is any different that fellatio.

 

[CorridorBoy]

Asked?

If you have to ask me to eat you, I am not doing my job! I love performing oral, and spend lots of time doing it...

 

[iansearchof]

Unfortunately a great many woman have had such unsatisfying experiences with cunnilingus that they either have developed distaste for it or great reluctance. Many of these women have written of this here over the years I've been around. I have no idea what is wrong with the men--if you won't put your mouth on it, why would you put your cock in it?

A woman once told me that in her experience most men would lick her but that it was more as down payment, reciprocity or to satisfy expectations. She said that it was abundantly clear that they did not care for it making her exceedingly uncomfortable. (I shouldn't but...she also said, "obviously you reeeeaaaally looove it!" I treasure that still.)