Cunnilingus

[jadedSHADOW]

I have a question for all you oral-lovin' experts out there. My question is: Do you have a technique when performing oral sex on a woman or do you just use the ole ice-cream-cone-lick method?

If you have a technique, I'm curious as to what it entails. Does it vary according to your partner?

 

[kitedemon]

I have a question for all you oral-lovin' experts out there. My question is: Do you have a technique when performing oral sex on a woman or do you just use the ole ice-cream-cone-lick method?

If you have a technique, I'm curious as to what it entails. Does it vary according to your partner?

I believe it would be the kiss of death to have a single technique. Each woman is unique. Something that is awesome for one woman may be less than awesome for another.
As in all things, practice makes perfect.

 

[pupper]

You must change up.I usually start with light licking of the clit until it is good and hard and the hood pulls back.When she cums the first time and stick my tongue in her spasmic pussy,and pull my tongue up across her uretheral sponge back to the clit with more direct stimulation,then lick her lips, if her ass is clean I go down there and flicker also.She usually goe's through phases where her legs tremble and bucks(or humps)my face.She will usually pull her legs way back.I put my arm's over top of her legs and play with her nipples, sometimes pushing against them some times pinching them until she comes again.I alternate this with intercourse.During the intercourse I get at an angle to stimulate her g-spot, this gets her ready for the ejaculation.sometimes she ejacuates with my tongue, and sometimes with intercourse.One time she begged me to put it in her ass,when I did she ejaculated as soon as my cock head was in her.I love to get my balls over her cunt when she squirts and feel her warm ejaculate on my balls,sometimes she fill's my mouth with her spunk.I love eating her pussy,and she is so responsive even when she has PMS.Usually she will not desire orl when she is 15 days to24 days into her cycle.She is there right now so no constant sex for pupper for another 4 days then she get's hornier than a three dick billy goat.She stays horny until day 15.My cock and tongue are ready to please her at all times.

 

[averageblonde]

wow pupper. you need to post this on websites all over the world.

 

[pupper]

ya think?

 

[usmcordie]

I have a question for all you oral-lovin' experts out there. My question is: Do you have a technique when performing oral sex on a woman or do you just use the ole ice-cream-cone-lick method?

If you have a technique, I'm curious as to what it entails. Does it vary according to your partner?

I have a technique that I will tailor to some degree depending on the physical feedback I get from her. A little experimentation and then I sort of develope a method.... But, never, ever, do I just bore in. I like to also toss it up a bit with some variances here and there.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I have a question for all you oral-lovin' experts out there. My question is: Do you have a technique when performing oral sex on a woman or do you just use the ole ice-cream-cone-lick method?

If you have a technique, I'm curious as to what it entails. Does it vary according to your partner?

It varies dramatically according to partner. Counting back on my last three lovers; with the first, she was pretty simple and I only used 3-4 different techniques on her. The second was challenging and I ended up using not only 4-5 techniques one her, but I usually ended up using a lot of combinations of those techniques. The third, who is also my wife, was also fairly simple, but this time I went ahead and did a lot of experimentation and currently use 7-10 techniques with a lot of combinations for fun.

Mind you, when I look at "cunnilingus" and "techniques" I'm also thinking in terms of my lips, tongue, breath, fingers and maybe some toys, as well as her entire erogenous region between her legs in terms of its individual parts and how they can each be exploited for as much pleasure as possible, alone or with other parts in that area.

While there are several other things that I haven't mentioned, these are all things that true connoisseurs of cunnilingus should know and strive for.

 

[Ljbonobo]

I would say the biggest part of my technique is just reading my partner and being able to know how turned on/close to orgasm she is. THat way you can tease or push them over the edge from paying attention to their body language earlier to see what you were doing that drove them so crazy to begin with. As far as locations if its on her body its fair game for kissing, nibbling, sucking, caressing while i'm down there.

 

[Nickie Smiles]

A thread to make me tingle inside. I like it! Men, keep talking!!

 

[TirelessTongue]

A few techniques of mine..........

#1. I love to softly and slowly tease and lick around her clitoris. Ever once in a while I'd give it a gentle jab with my tongue.

#2. Tracing each letter of the alphabet over her clit.

#3. Licking her clit in a circular motion while fingering her simultaneously.

 

[Pleasureboy2]

The flitter flutter meathod I have found works good.

 

[TBKahuna123]

A variant ont he above. Lick the alphabet, but over her whole pussy. Sounds crazy but it works!

I guess my technique is more existential than detailed. Make love to her with your tongue, explore every part of her using just your tongue and mouth. Don't be afriad to suck ont he various bits. Lick UNDER the clit. Now, some women get really hot when you pull the hood back to reveal the whole clitoris. This exposes extrmeely sensitive parts fo the clit, but some women find this too intense.

Each woman is different. Some women like slow and gentle, others like yo to just lock you lips on their clit and suck like you are trying to pop it off.

Now here's one I have to ask the girls. I heard this rumor that women liked it when you cupped their ass in both hands while going down on them. I've only ever tried this with my wife and she loves it, so I'm wondering if this is a general thing or not. If so, why?

 

[LadyJeanne]

Now here's one I have to ask the girls. I heard this rumor that women liked it when you cupped their ass in both hands while going down on them. I've only ever tried this with my wife and she loves it, so I'm wondering if this is a general thing or not. If so, why?

It's hot.

You're grabbing her ass to pull her deeper into your mouth, or closer so you can get to every bit of her. That's hot.

It's also intimate, closer - you're holding her in your hands as you're licking. Sometimes, a woman can feel disconnected from her lover when he's aaalll the way down there and not touching any other part of her or looking into her eyes.

 

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[TBKahuna123]

It's hot.

You're grabbing her ass to pull her deeper into your mouth, or closer so you can get to every bit of her. That's hot.

It's also intimate, closer - you're holding her in your hands as you're licking. Sometimes, a woman can feel disconnected from her lover when he's aaalll the way down there and not touching any other part of her or looking into her eyes.

Knowledge I could have used 15 years ago!

Seriously though, what you say about disconnection makes sense. Thanks for the explanation.

Once I start focusing solely on her clit (god help me if I go somewhere else), sometimes I'll reach up and cup her breasts with my hands. Other times (depending on sensitivity) I'll rub or squeeze her nipples, both at the same time. If she lets me do this, orgasm is usually almost immediate.

This and Lady Jeanne's response brings up another good point: roaming hands. While you need to keep your mind on your work, don't forget the rest of the gorgeous creature. Caress her thighs, breast, ass, belly, whatever while you're tongue is busy down below. I think the caressing let's her know that she is more to you than just a pretty pussy, that you are intersted in the whole package. I think it also sets all the nerve endings throughout the body on end, enhancing the overall sensation. Could this be a key to what some women call a "full body" orgasm?

 

[jadedSHADOW]

Wow!

I'm enjoying reading about the different techniques here.

My perfect scenario would be this:

First and foremost, I like a strong, forceful tongue. Listless, hesitant lapping does nothing for me, and I find it more frustrating than anything else. I prefer my lover not go straight for the vaginal opening but instead to savor my pussy from the bottom all the way to the top (just below the clit). After several long wet strokes, I love it when the spouse sucks my lips (yes, those) into his mouth. The wetter I get, the more apt I am to beg him to finally put his tongue inside. Again, a firm stroke is most arousing. Finally, the ultimate oral satisfaction would end with one of the spouse's fingers inside my ass and another deep inside the kitty. By the time both of those holes are filled, his tongue would need to be savoring my clit in all ways imaginable - licking, sucking, nibbling. To ensure a climatic finale, the spouse would need to be working his fingers and tongue quite furiously. I like it fast and hard when I'm fully aroused and ready to cum.

Also, I'm not too ticky about any variation in his technique. This one works for me every time, so why mess up a good thing? Is that the same for other women?

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I'm enjoying reading about the different techniques here.

My perfect scenario would be this:

First and foremost, I like a strong, forceful tongue. Listless, hesitant lapping does nothing for me, and I find it more frustrating than anything else. I prefer my lover not go straight for the vaginal opening but instead to savor my pussy from the bottom all the way to the top (just below the clit). After several long wet strokes, I love it when the spouse sucks my lips (yes, those) into his mouth. The wetter I get, the more apt I am to beg him to finally put his tongue inside. Again, a firm stroke is most arousing. Finally, the ultimate oral satisfaction would end with one of the spouse's fingers inside my ass and another deep inside the kitty. By the time both of those holes are filled, his tongue would need to be savoring my clit in all ways imaginable - licking, sucking, nibbling. To ensure a climatic finale, the spouse would need to be working his fingers and tongue quite furiously. I like it fast and hard when I'm fully aroused and ready to cum.

Also, I'm not too ticky about any variation in his technique. This one works for me every time, so why mess up a good thing? Is that the same for other women?

Its always nice to see some reaffirmation that there are women who enjoy the simple pleasures.

I get the feeling that every woman has her favorite preferences. Change is always the spice of life, though.

 

[taolanes]

Giving oral to a woman....possibly the greatest satisfaction in life


Get in her head (the mind is most important organ). Slowly undress her, tell her how hot her pussy looks, lick your lips, run a finger gently across her leg, build the anticipation. Use your imagination and there is no limit.

I really REALLLLLLY want to suck on a gorgeous pussy....yummmmmmmmmmy

 

[Guy23456]

I love doing it!! My favorite thing to do is start of slow and very teasing and then about 5 minutes later lake my tounge hard and just attack her clit (not too hard tho ). I really love doing that. And my girlfriend has the best pussy ever. Sometimes I lay awake at night craving her taste.

 

[usmcordie]

I would say the biggest part of my technique is just reading my partner and being able to know how turned on/close to orgasm she is. THat way you can tease or push them over the edge from paying attention to their body language earlier to see what you were doing that drove them so crazy to begin with. As far as locations if its on her body its fair game for kissing, nibbling, sucking, caressing while i'm down there.

Well said! I am completely on board with your comments. You never know what results will come from a tender loiter about the fair game areas....

 

[usmcordie]

I'm enjoying reading about the different techniques here.

My perfect scenario would be this:

First and foremost, I like a strong, forceful tongue. Listless, hesitant lapping does nothing for me, and I find it more frustrating than anything else. I prefer my lover not go straight for the vaginal opening but instead to savor my pussy from the bottom all the way to the top (just below the clit). After several long wet strokes, I love it when the spouse sucks my lips (yes, those) into his mouth. The wetter I get, the more apt I am to beg him to finally put his tongue inside. Again, a firm stroke is most arousing. Finally, the ultimate oral satisfaction would end with one of the spouse's fingers inside my ass and another deep inside the kitty. By the time both of those holes are filled, his tongue would need to be savoring my clit in all ways imaginable - licking, sucking, nibbling. To ensure a climatic finale, the spouse would need to be working his fingers and tongue quite furiously. I like it fast and hard when I'm fully aroused and ready to cum.

Also, I'm not too ticky about any variation in his technique. This one works for me every time, so why mess up a good thing? Is that the same for other women?

Proof that those areas 'fair game' can prove to be wonderful to explore.... I have also used some variations of this from time to time and when the signals are right, this method brings the ol' lady over the top with some intense force from within her body.