Cumming to fast
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phoenix1224
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You could try masturbating 20-30 minutes before hand.
Or you could try one of those 'stamina' creams that decrease sensitivity... You can get them at just about any adult store.
Or you could just try calming down... If you're getting TOO exited before hand, that could cause it.
And of course, you could always try using your fingers, lips, and tongue a lot more... I've found that effort is ALWAYS well appreciated...
Or you could try one of those 'stamina' creams that decrease sensitivity... You can get them at just about any adult store.
Or you could just try calming down... If you're getting TOO exited before hand, that could cause it.
And of course, you could always try using your fingers, lips, and tongue a lot more... I've found that effort is ALWAYS well appreciated...
Willing and Unsure
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phoenix1224 said:And of course, you could always try using your fingers, lips, and tongue a lot more... I've found that effort is ALWAYS well appreciated...
this is an understatement *smiles*
DevilSyndrom
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Tooquick said:Can anyone give some advice as to what I can do to last longer. A few years ago I had no problem going 10 - 15 minutes. Now if it has been a while 4 or 5 days it is over in a minute.
Any constructive advice would help.
i need to concentrate to cum in 15 mints... normally last on avg a hour [starting to worry -I- have a problem...]
anyway, back... some things that help me last longer is being distracted, i.e. think of the most gross thing ever. or simply changing positions.
And of course, you could always try using your fingers, lips, and tongue a lot more... I've found that effort is ALWAYS well appreciated...
Not always. Too many women are very reluctant to allow a man to make thme cum with his fingers and mouth. If she wouls allow it, she will let you kno=w, I geuss.
Not always. Too many women are very reluctant to allow a man to make thme cum with his fingers and mouth. If she wouls allow it, she will let you kno=w, I geuss.
cryptictravler
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The (academic) literature on sex has a couple of things which might help. Lingham massage is an eastern technique, Masters and Johnston reccommended simply using start stop mechanisms or a sort of hand training that really just combines the two.
special_couple2004
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Re: Cumming too fast
While I wouldn't advocate taking a drug unless prescribed by your doctor I can tell you that since I've been on citalopram I have been able to keep going for over an hour before cuming. Staying hard most of that time too! I asked the doc about it as a side effect and he said he prescribes them for premature-ejaculation as well as for depression.
I also found in the past that being over worried about the problem makes it worse and i came even quicker. Relaxation and discussing it with your lover is a solution. There's more than one way to make sex great for your lover, and she will appreciate the oral attention, I can assure you!
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Tooquick said:Can anyone give some advice as to what I can do to last longer. A few years ago I had no problem going 10 - 15 minutes. Now if it has been a while 4 or 5 days it is over in a minute.
Any constructive advice would help.
While I wouldn't advocate taking a drug unless prescribed by your doctor I can tell you that since I've been on citalopram I have been able to keep going for over an hour before cuming. Staying hard most of that time too!
I asked the doc about it as a side effect and he said he prescribes them for premature-ejaculation as well as for depression.I also found in the past that being over worried about the problem makes it worse and i came even quicker. Relaxation and discussing it with your lover is a solution. There's more than one way to make sex great for your lover, and she will appreciate the oral attention, I can assure you!
J of special_couple2004
