cum!

[wisec715]

My girlfriend is totally afraid of cum, but I love it. I often times taste it when I'm alone.

She doesn't even like it when i cum on her. it's always got to be in a towel or elsewhere.

any ideas on how to make her more accepting?

 

[inwanting]

Oh honey I got nothing for you... I'm a slut when it comes to it lol *Pun not intended...

I get to where I absolutely CRAVE my BF's. I can't for the life of me get why some women don't like it.

Try posting this in the HT thread too. They're very knowledgeable.

 

[Etoile]

Actually, I'll move this to HT, since it really isn't related to GLBT at all.

 

[Anomily]

Do you know why she doesn't like it? I'm guessing that it's not a "fear" but maybe she just thinks it's gross. I remember when I was younger I really didn't like the feeling of it on me, the consistency, anything about it, but that changed as I got a little older. My feeling, thinking back now, is that I still had some of the "sex is wrong" in my head from my upbringing, but as that went away, so did my aversion to cum. Now, like inwanting, I just love it!

 

[AgonySceneGirl]

My girlfriend is totally afraid of cum, but I love it. I often times taste it when I'm alone.

She doesn't even like it when i cum on her. it's always got to be in a towel or elsewhere.

any ideas on how to make her more accepting?

lol
when i was with my ex 3 years ago - i absolutally refused to even give him head much less let him cum in my mouth <i was 19 at the time. was completely disgusted by putting a piss tube in my mouth lol

and now - with my current boyfriend - i actually make him pull out just so i can suck it all in.


my suggestion - give her time. she'll more than likely grow out of it.

best of luck to ya.

ASG

 

[AgonySceneGirl]

ha i see you are also from wisconsin.

BEER BRATTS AND A COORS LIGHT FOR EVERYONE!

 

[CuriousEd]

My girlfriend is totally afraid of cum, but I love it. I often times taste it when I'm alone.

She doesn't even like it when i cum on her. it's always got to be in a towel or elsewhere.

any ideas on how to make her more accepting?

Ummm... tell her that if you get any on/in her, you'll be only too glad to clean it all up?

lol... I guess that wouldn't work. She doesn't sound like the kind to let you have a creampie.

Obviously, it isn't a taste thing, if she doesn't like it on her, so it isn't like you can change your diet. Sounds like she wants you to wear a condom.

(And don't lick your own out of the condom afterwards -- I have a feeling she'd find that a little over the top...)

 

[Ardeche]

Travesty! Cum is nectar!

Does she let you taste her down there? If so, you can pull out the double standard card. I kid. That's a bad idea.

First things first, you may want to take steps to ensure that your cum is as tasteless as possible. Avoid spicy foods, drinks lots of water, that sort of thing.

Second, gently get the message across as many times as you can. Maybe a "I love how you taste...would you like to find out how I taste?" every now and then. Don't pressure or nag her, but be sure to let her know it's something that you are interested in. Over time out of love/care for you, she may be willing to give it a try. At least I hope so for your sake. Good luck!

 

[iluvyou3638]

My girlfriend is totally afraid of cum, but I love it. I often times taste it when I'm alone.

She doesn't even like it when i cum on her. it's always got to be in a towel or elsewhere.

any ideas on how to make her more accepting?

make her work for it like a dirty whore. if you keep it from her long enough it turns into a reward.

 

[emap]

I'm sorta similar, I don't like to be cum on, I only want to be cum in.

I don't want to be cum on for two reasons, I like having it in my mouth or pussy much more than anything else, and it is a bit slimy pretty quickly. Though I get the feeling in yoru girlfriends case she thinks its nasty and doesn't want to come in contact with it. There really is not a way to get her over it.

Besides to simply wait for her to get past it. Perhaps leave stories for her to find about women being cum on and loving it. If that doesn't work, you simply have to wait for her to decide it's nice and not nasty, which may or may not happen. It will not happen if you try and force the issue or just start coming on her all the time.

This is the same as the taste, some women love it and some don't. The ones who love it learned to love it, the ones who hate it have about the same hang up as your girlfriend. They expect it to taste vile and it does, your girlfriend expects it to be slimy and gross and it is.

 

[ayrton]

One of my first girlfriends felt that way. The first thing I had her consider is that cum is not a waste product or something gross. What I finally did was masturbate onto a towel and both of us picked some up and tasted it. She found out it wasn't bad at all and in no time was allowing me to cum in her mouth...she actually started to like it and would lick my cock clean. The only problem she had is that my cum can get pretty thick and she'd have trouble swallowing it.

 

[forbidden_fruit]

Maybe its just her and theres noway you can get her to accept it. If not just make it seem like its not a big deal and she will forget about it. (eventaully)