Cuckoldry and humiliation: a thread for women as well as men

[liqueur]

There seems to be a very lively interest in many threads about cuckoldry & cheating, and all their various ass-pects. So I thought I'd post my own question. I’d love to hear from both women with step out on their own, and the men who love them for it.

My question is about humiliation. I myself have had a lifelong kink for humiliation, and I think the humiliation that I've experienced in cuckold-type situations is what first turned me on to it. There are other things about it that also turn me on, but humiliation is by far the biggest factor. How about you?
Does humiliating him, or being humiliated by her, turn you on?
Or is it just the general sexiness and freedom from constraints that does it for you? Or something else?

 

[Dearelliot]

Yes, with eye contact, she is watching. Not by myself, nor with guys...a woman has to be part of it.

 

[magicalmoments]

Any suggestion of humiliation would have killed it for me. I just love watching live sex. My wife was the only woman who would let me watch her fucking without calling the cops. So I encouraged her to have sex with other men while I watched, or joined in. Absolutely no humiliation.

 

[Craighalbert]

Any suggestion of humiliation would have killed it for me. I just love watching live sex. My wife was the only woman who would let me watch her fucking without calling the cops. So I encouraged her to have sex with other men while I watched, or joined in. Absolutely no humiliation.

I had a similar situation. I used to think I was into this, and then I realized I just wanted to see my girlfriend "in action" so to speak, so with her permission I recorded us fucking and we watched it together. Seeing her from a third person perspective like that - even if it was with me - scratched my itch. Frankly being humiliated in front of her or by her sounds like my worst nightmare.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Yes, I am like "magical moments" and "Craighalbert". I think we would be into a Stag/Vixen" relationship, where we'd enjoy watching our wives getting fucked by another man without any aspect of humiliation - therefore not being cuckolded.

 

[NapierBone]

Very much in it for the humiliation. Another man being with my wife is inherently humiliating. And while I’ve never had the courage to make it overt, it’s the moments when she’s most submissive and most abandoned to him that I crave. One of my chief fantasies is her humiliating me in front of him - facesitting me, pegging me - before submitting to him.

 

[RoanMtn]

Maybe I'm the exception, but I wouldn't find it humiliating being a sissy cuckold.

 

[Cabeza]

Maybe I'm the exception, but I wouldn't find it humiliating being a sissy cuckold.

Why should it be? I mean it’s fine if people get off on the humiliation but I get off on the sissy cuckold part.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

There seems to be a very lively interest in many threads about cuckoldry & cheating, and all their various ass-pects. So I thought I'd post my own question. I’d love to hear from both women with step out on their own, and the men who love them for it.

My question is about humiliation. I myself have had a lifelong kink for humiliation, and I think the humiliation that I've experienced in cuckold-type situations is what first turned me on to it. There are other things about it that also turn me on, but humiliation is by far the biggest factor. How about you?
Does humiliating him, or being humiliated by her, turn you on?
Or is it just the general sexiness and freedom from constraints that does it for you? Or something else?

I’m not into humiliation. But if you dig it enjoy brother!! Cheers

 

[MamaBitte]

I've always wondered where my greatest desire actually comes from? Humiliation? Perhaps. But I think it's more the desire to be defeated. Completely defeated, "crushingly beaten." You could also say "to be allowed to lose."
Unfortunately, my wife never granted my greatest wish...

 

[Jcam1980s]

I fantasise about watching a guy knock my wife up. Every so often she tells me she prefers his cock etc. But he's really giving it to her....like she's moaning at every single slow, hard deep thrust. This after the guy has made me get naked, lubed up a huge dildo and made me sit on it while i watch them. After he's cum inside her, he strokes me off, dildo still in me. I eventually tell him im close, as i look at my wife laid there, his load so deep there's no sign of it. He points my cock to my face, and i can't stop it, a huge load all over my face.

 

[Ramone45]

I am a cuckold because I am unable to satisfy my wife due to premature ejaculation. It is inherently humiliating that my wife needs another man for sexual gratification even though she loves me and wants me to be her life partner. The humiliation is passive in the sense that my wife acts like it's a given that I'm humiliated. Even merely asking if I'm OK is humiliating.

 

[pixie07]

If been a cuckold for most of my relationship with my wife and I wouldn’t have it any other way but it’s the humiliation that I love and need . I’m lucky that my wife and her boyfriend definitely know and enjoy humiliating me we all get off on it . Even my parents take part in it as my mom introduced my wife to he current boyfriend

 

[liqueur]

Even my parents take part in it as my mom introduced my wife to he current boyfriend

Wow!
My ex shared with her sister and her adult daughter how great the sex was and how big is cock was. I freely admit that I was turned on by that.

But my parents? I couldn't even imagine that. Of course my parents never once in my entire life talked about sex to me or in my presence.

 

[liqueur]

Maybe I'm the exception, but I wouldn't find it humiliating being a sissy cuckold.

From the responses so far, it doesn't appear that you are the exception at all.

 

[Markafterdark]

Does humiliating him, or being humiliated by her, turn you on?
Or is it just the general sexiness and freedom from constraints that does it for you? Or something else?

Humiliating him and her humiliation

 

[lc69hunter]

Humiliation is a fetish thing, both giving and receiving, Cuckolding is just the vehicle used. I spent seven years in the lifestyle, and almost all of my interactions were with couples in a loving consensual cuckold relationship. The closest to humiliation I saw was gentle teasing by the wife, even when she had him clean my cock and do cleanup on her.

Humiliation is internal. You can't be humiliated unless you choose to be. Just my thoughts

 

[Markafterdark]

Humiliation is internal. You can't be humiliated unless you choose to be. Just my thoughts

That is just plain stupid. Humiliation is not a choice and something most sane people would rather not happen to them

 

[lc69hunter]

That is just plain stupid. Humiliation is not a choice and something most sane people would rather not happen to them

Have to disagree on this one. If you want to be humiliated or feel humiliation, that is a fetish, and that is your choice. It has nothing to do with any external activities.

 

[Markafterdark]

"You can't be humiliated unless you choose to be" ....

People are humiliated in many ways every day. They neither seek it nor choose it. Humiliation is not a fetish. Humiliation leading to sexual arousal is a fetish.

 

[RoanMtn]

Have to disagree on this one. If you want to be humiliated or feel humiliation, that is a fetish, and that is your choice. It has nothing to do with any external activities.

I agree. I wouldn't feel any humiliation being a sissy cuckold.

 

[MerWilh]

Humiliating him and her humiliation

In what way are both of them humiliated?

 

[Markafterdark]

In what way are both of them humiliated?

I guess it would depend on the circumstances

 

[liqueur]

That is just plain stupid. Humiliation is not a choice and something most sane people would rather not happen to them

I don't know if you've noticed or not, but we're talking within and about the fetish world. Within the fetish world, there are plenty of people who are quite sane and love the experience of humiliation.

I think you're looking at your own feelings about humiliation and assuming that other people feel the same.

 

[Markafterdark]

Wrong. What you accuse me of is exactly what you are doing.
Humiliation involves the lowering of esteem and status. Pretending or pretending not to be humiliated does not make it a choice, within or outside the fetish world.