Woman's feelings on having nude photos seen by all your bosses, coworkers and customers.

[dandd06]

Wife and I have known this girl for a long time. Back about 20 years ago she was working as a bank teller. She had some nude photos that she and her boyfriend put online and some r rated video clips. Girl goes on vacation and while gone all of her coworkers, bosses, customers, etc hear about her photos. Photos are distributed via email, 3.5" disks and color printouts. All of her bosses and coworkers saw her nude photos and a large amount of customers. Came back from vacation and get pulled into a meeting first thing with Boss, HR and boss's wife. She still doesn't know anything is up until boss starts producing printouts of her nude photos to be observed by the whole room. Boss goes through many photos in front of girl and others at meeting. Girl is sent home and obviously fired.

I don't know if I can describe the humiliation accurately and it will just sound generic. What would be the most humiliating part? A certain photo? A certain pose? A certain person seeing the photos? Anyone especially a female have experience or thoughts?

 

[Greytruck]

Worked with a very pretty girl, 15 years my junior.
She and I had opposing desks.
My key opened my desk and hers.
One week she’s away and I snoop in her desk.
Find packets of photographs. One of her topless in a bubble bath.
Unbelievable, she was so proper at work.
Well I took the negatives.. had prints made for me
Never showed them to anyone else

 

[Nicola1970]

Worked with a very pretty girl, 15 years my junior.
She and I had opposing desks.
My key opened my desk and hers.
One week she’s away and I snoop in her desk.
Find packets of photographs. One of her topless in a bubble bath.
Unbelievable, she was so proper at work.
Well I took the negatives.. had prints made for me
Never showed them to anyone else

That's vile

 

[hidden_star]

I thought it would be a fun, sexy thing until it actually happened. Without my permission. This is why I don't share pics or cam anymore, it's hard to trust people with them now. The flip side is that it's made me appreciate the in person experiences even more

 

[dandd06]

I thought it would be a fun, sexy thing until it actually happened. Without my permission. This is why I don't share pics or cam anymore, it's hard to trust people with them now. The flip side is that it's made me appreciate the in person experiences even more

If you would be willing I'd like to hear more about your experience. I'm making progress with my story, but I don't have the experience to accurately describe the different feelings that occur when your nude photos are exposed. I'd love to share some of what I have completed and get your opinion if possible?

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

That's why I'm so careful

 

[Bigboobbabe]

At 59, I don't really care any longer.

2020 my ex came out to the world as crossdresser/non-binary and eventually settled in MtoF transgender.

All that destroyed my sense of self esteem and made me feel inadequate.

If men (and women) want to look at my naked pictures or pictures of me sucking cock, good for them.

If they want to shame me for being proud of my body and my sexuality, shame on them.
We celebrate transgender for being authentic.
I am also authentic.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

"Came back from vacation and get pulled into a meeting first thing with Boss, HR and boss's wife."

It's very interesting that there was a Company meeting that included the "boss's wife". How was she involved in this? To me, it seems that the boss's wife was, perhaps, interested in "getting (in)to the bottom" of what was going on.

 

[cowboyup6977]

I thought it would be a fun, sexy thing until it actually happened. Without my permission. This is why I don't share pics or cam anymore, it's hard to trust people with them now. The flip side is that it's made me appreciate the in person experiences even more

Same thing happened to me

 

[Kolejdayz]

Sometimes wondered what the world would be like if one could talk about sexual behavior and show suggestive photos at job interviews

 

[dandd06]

"Came back from vacation and get pulled into a meeting first thing with Boss, HR and boss's wife."

It's very interesting that there was a Company meeting that included the "boss's wife". How was she involved in this? To me, it seems that the boss's wife was, perhaps, interested in "getting (in)to the bottom" of what was going on.

"Boss's wife" was a part time employee of the bank. I'm not sure of her official title, but it was clerical and she only went into the bank one or two days weekly and worked half days. I know part of the reason she was in the meeting was they needed a female witness. I found out through the grapevine that the boss and his wife were strict disciplinarians and weren't opposed to using humiliation. Jess was just about the same age as their oldest daughter. I know boss's wife wanted to witness Jess's humiliation.

 

[Scotchlander]

A couple I knew split up. The guy thought he would humiliate her by showing her nude pictures in the bar. The locals did not take too kindly to him doing this. They beat him up and destroyed the pictures.

 

[LusciousLili]

I would be mortified.

 

[flameinsidesoul]

Wife and I have known this girl for a long time. Back about 20 years ago she was working as a bank teller. She had some nude photos that she and her boyfriend put online and some r rated video clips. Girl goes on vacation and while gone all of her coworkers, bosses, customers, etc hear about her photos. Photos are distributed via email, 3.5" disks and color printouts. All of her bosses and coworkers saw her nude photos and a large amount of customers. Came back from vacation and get pulled into a meeting first thing with Boss, HR and boss's wife. She still doesn't know anything is up until boss starts producing printouts of her nude photos to be observed by the whole room. Boss goes through many photos in front of girl and others at meeting. Girl is sent home and obviously fired.

I don't know if I can describe the humiliation accurately and it will just sound generic. What would be the most humiliating part? A certain photo? A certain pose? A certain person seeing the photos? Anyone especially a female have experience or thoughts?

Reading this honestly made my chest tighten a little. I can’t imagine what it must have felt like to walk into what should have been a normal day only to realize everyone around you had seen your private moments. Not admired, not celebrated… but exposed. It’s not just the nudity it’s the betrayal, the judgment, the whispers. Knowing people who once smiled at you now replay your most vulnerable expressions in their heads. That your body once shared with trust is now a spectacle. It’s easy to say “be strong” or “own it,” but sometimes you don’t want to own something that was weaponized against you.

How did she take up after this?

 

[LusciousLili]

Wife and I have known this girl for a long time. Back about 20 years ago she was working as a bank teller. She had some nude photos that she and her boyfriend put online and some r rated video clips. Girl goes on vacation and while gone all of her coworkers, bosses, customers, etc hear about her photos. Photos are distributed via email, 3.5" disks and color printouts. All of her bosses and coworkers saw her nude photos and a large amount of customers. Came back from vacation and get pulled into a meeting first thing with Boss, HR and boss's wife. She still doesn't know anything is up until boss starts producing printouts of her nude photos to be observed by the whole room. Boss goes through many photos in front of girl and others at meeting. Girl is sent home and obviously fired.

I don't know if I can describe the humiliation accurately and it will just sound generic. What would be the most humiliating part? A certain photo? A certain pose? A certain person seeing the photos? Anyone especially a female have experience or thoughts?

Why is her boss and HR producing nude photos in a professional workplace? And she is the one who gets fired? Sorry, it doesn't make sense!