Cuckolding

[iamoutofafrica]

Hi, can all the great members of lit help me out, have got into a cuck relationship witha couple, not to sure on the does and donts, role playing etc. Please help me out.:

 

[silverwhisper]

if you're asking the question, that suggests this is a relatively new relationship. is that a fair statement?

as a rule, i believe that traditionally, the couple sets the tone: whether you have sex with the wife when the husband isn't there, or strictly when he is; whether he laps up sloppy seconds or not; how active a role you take in the unfavorable size comparisons that it always seem are de rigeur in such exchanges.

this may be a stupid question, but is there a reason you're reluctant to get some clarification from the couple? or have you already done so and they don't quite know for themselves what they want out of this?

ed

 

[VelvetDarkness]

You might have more success asking this in the BDSM section as cuckholding is seen as a form of powerplay and you'll encounter more people with experience of this there. To be honest though, you'll need to give a bit more background info if you want specific advice. This is anonymous forum so it's fine to go into detail and say what you think. If you refrain from using names, there's really no breach of trust.

Sorry I can't be of more help

 

[pussy_liquor]

Whatever the wife wants is fine with me.

 

[iamoutofafrica]

Hi Guys, meeting for the second time tonight, she has a kidnap/rape fantasy so, going to try this out, what do you suggest I make the cuck do, as she is also a sub.
Thanks
B

 

[EasyDoesIt]

There are all kinds of cuck relationships so asking the couple would be a good place to start. Good for this conversation to occur with all three of you present so everyone is on the same page. Might start by letting them know you enjoy whats going on and you want to learn from them how they would like your participation.

Cuck desires are often difficult to discuss and admit. Respect the people and try to keep communications open. Go slow and be gentle until you understand more about the role they want from you in their relationship.

Good luck....be safe out there.

 

[SweetErika]

Hi Guys, meeting for the second time tonight, she has a kidnap/rape fantasy so, going to try this out, what do you suggest I make the cuck do, as she is also a sub.
Thanks
B

It's a female-female couple?

Have you discussed safewords/signals, limits, safety, etc.?

I completely agree with discussing the details with the couple. Cuckolding, and especially kidnap/rape scenarios, can be very tricky and downright dangerous (physically and emotionally), so lots of detailed communication and planning are paramount.

Some people feel like talking and planning hurt the fantasy, but the reality is that there's always going to be some spontaneity and surprise, and the preparations just help to avoid bad outcomes. Going over the details and 'what ifs?' ahead of time allow more fun and relaxation during the scene because there's less anxiety over boundaries, safety and goals/desires.

Therefore, I'd strongly encourage you to initiate conversations about this stuff, even if your partners are concerned planning will 'ruin the fantasy,' because when it all goes down, your ass is really on the line (you don't want a kidnap/rape fantasy to turn into a kidnap/rape reality or harm anyone, I'm sure) and your partner's safety is largely in your hands. You owe it to yourself and your partners to provide as much protection against things going wrong as possible.

There's absolutely no way for us to know what your playmates want, where they draw their lines, what rules they have or how they'd like your time together to go, so it's up to you to ask plenty of good questions and listen to their answers carefully. Perhaps you can do some additional research on cuckolding, kidnap and rape scenes and general safety to come up with your questions.

Good luck!