Cuckolding--Turn on? or not?

Not sure what I want, the older I get the more confused I am about my what I want in real life. Going from fantasy to real is two different worlds. Cuckolding is the most confusing of all things sexual to me, yet some parts of it turn me on. Lit has made me rethink all the things that turned me on and off in my life, and I like that !! I like it a LOT.
 
It is a complete turn on. It has lived in my fantasy life for decades, and I have never had a relationship where I could bring the fantasy into reality. Now, I am single wanting to find a woman who would be interested in this lifestyle. I would want her to have sexual freedom and make me her cuckold (even let me participate at her direction). It is difficult to find such a woman capable of a loving intimate relationship with me and also desiring of sexual experiences with men. It makes me rock hard thinking of the possibility.
 
We had tried letting a young man massage my pretty wife the first night on our vacation and that was kinda naughty and exciting.he was young,in his twenties and we were in our forties,very polite and nice. We all kinda learned together and he made us feel at ease. We let him come over the third day again and was it was a lot less nervous and we all did some shots this time. He didn’t drink as much as my wife and I during the time he was there. The guys agreed to get in their underwear if she would just wear a towel over her,and she did. The towel would side and give us a peek of her which led to us both getting very obvious erections. He as very obvious because of the size of his penis, very large and thick that couldn’t be hid by his boxers so he just took them off,along with the towel off of my wife. Then we started getting more adventurous,starting to rub oil on my wife’s various areas using his large member. While rubbing along the inside of her thighs, he started rubbing it between her lips,and eventually entered her after we talked about how a large one may feel to her. After that she was so aroused that he pumped her in several positions while I watched for almost an hour. We were somewhat embarassed and had mixed emotions about doing it, the next day,and after we hardly talk about it.
 
OMG that is hot!!
We had tried letting a young man massage my pretty wife the first night on our vacation and that was kinda naughty and exciting.he was young,in his twenties and we were in our forties,very polite and nice. We all kinda learned together and he made us feel at ease. We let him come over the third day again and was it was a lot less nervous and we all did some shots this time. He didn’t drink as much as my wife and I during the time he was there. The guys agreed to get in their underwear if she would just wear a towel over her,and she did. The towel would side and give us a peek of her which led to us both getting very obvious erections. He as very obvious because of the size of his penis, very large and thick that couldn’t be hid by his boxers so he just took them off,along with the towel off of my wife. Then we started getting more adventurous,starting to rub oil on my wife’s various areas using his large member. While rubbing along the inside of her thighs, he started rubbing it between her lips,and eventually entered her after we talked about how a large one may feel to her. After that she was so aroused that he pumped her in several positions while I watched for almost an hour. We were somewhat embarassed and had mixed emotions about doing it, the next day,and after we hardly talk about it.
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We had tried letting a young man massage my pretty wife the first night on our vacation and that was kinda naughty and exciting.he was young,in his twenties and we were in our forties,very polite and nice. We all kinda learned together and he made us feel at ease. We let him come over the third day again and was it was a lot less nervous and we all did some shots this time. He didn’t drink as much as my wife and I during the time he was there. The guys agreed to get in their underwear if she would just wear a towel over her,and she did. The towel would side and give us a peek of her which led to us both getting very obvious erections. He as very obvious because of the size of his penis, very large and thick that couldn’t be hid by his boxers so he just took them off,along with the towel off of my wife. Then we started getting more adventurous,starting to rub oil on my wife’s various areas using his large member. While rubbing along the inside of her thighs, he started rubbing it between her lips,and eventually entered her after we talked about how a large one may feel to her. After that she was so aroused that he pumped her in several positions while I watched for almost an hour. We were somewhat embarassed and had mixed emotions about doing it, the next day,and after we hardly talk about it.
That sounds like an amazing experience. I am curious about the mixed emotions following because it does not sound like this will happen again. Do you think you and your wife will ever talk about it in a detailed manner or have you simply put it behind you?
 
Depends on the situation -- it can be watched as a show or personal porn or just as a friendly thing to do. Then always a turn on. Especially if she is dressed in a pretty dress or skirt
 
Love the different opinions in this thread. Everybody has a different take on what is cuckolding, what it means and how it works. To me, whatever it means to you is right for you, and nobody else. In my younger days, between marriages, I was in the lifestyle for about seven years, as the bull or other man. I saw very little overt humiliation, just teasing by the wife as I took her in front of him. Even when he had cleanup duties on her, and sometimes me, there was no cruelty.

As for me, my second wife and I were in a stag/vixen relationship, as she had a sugar daddy when I started dating her. When I transferred overseas for a year, I asked him to take care of her and keep her safe. He did.
 
The fist time a man told me how much my wife liked his dick, i was blowing him and i came hands free.
 
On Cuckolding: It would be hot if a woman I knew approached me and requested I help cuckold her husband. On the rare occasion I see a cuckold video, I imagine myself as the Bull. Otherwise, I am not interested.
 
On Cuckolding: It would be hot if a woman I knew approached me and requested I help cuckold her husband. On the rare occasion I see a cuckold video, I imagine myself as the Bull. Otherwise, I am not interested.
There are some damned good stories with that plot down in LW. This is a four chapter series that does exactly that. I have saved it as a favorite.
https://www.literotica.com/s/the-good-wife-12
 
Mrs AW and I have it in a purely fantasy place. We've had an MFF experience and would have an MMF experience but aren't actively looking for one and it wouldn't involve the humiliation elements of cuck play.
 
I would consider being the bull .not interested in the humiliation factor at all. Not letting any one touch my own wife except possibly another women. A firm no for her. I used to get very turned on by girl friends that were very verbal in the heat of the moment. I think that is the aspect of the stories and films that I like.
 
Love the different opinions in this thread. Everybody has a different take on what is cuckolding, what it means and how it works. To me, whatever it means to you is right for you, and nobody else. In my younger days, between marriages, I was in the lifestyle for about seven years, as the bull or other man. I saw very little overt humiliation, just teasing by the wife as I took her in front of him. Even when he had cleanup duties on her, and sometimes me, there was no cruelty.

As for me, my second wife and I were in a stag/vixen relationship, as she had a sugar daddy when I started dating her. When I transferred overseas for a year, I asked him to take care of her and keep her safe. He did.
I would never look to humiliate any man 'cleaning up' me, or my wife. In my view, he may already be self-humiliating - which could be his sexual fetish. To paraphrase an old adage, "don't look a cuckold in his mouth".
 
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