Cuckolding and Statistics

One of the hottest homemade cuck videos I’ve ever seen was the gf and bull are going at it with the bf sitting watching. Out of nowhere, the bf says he’s not really into it anymore. They stop briefly and then get back to it.

I want this to happen to me so bad!! 😈🔥🥵
 
Well I am because...

He's not


I'm actually surprised the numbers are so high and yet I've met almost none in real life. Maybe because I run among different kinks and fetishes groups
In my younger days, for about seven years, between marriages, I played in that space quite a bit. All of the relationships were different in some way or another. I severely dislike humiliation, degradation or cruelty, so I avoided anything that resembled it, so almost all were consensual and loving. One of the things that surprised me was that four or five were referrals, as women talk. And it was not about big cock, as I am only average.
 
In my younger days, for about seven years, between marriages, I played in that space quite a bit. All of the relationships were different in some way or another. I severely dislike humiliation, degradation or cruelty, so I avoided anything that resembled it, so almost all were consensual and loving. One of the things that surprised me was that four or five were referrals, as women talk. And it was not about big cock, as I am only average.
So you were the bull in all these relationships?
 
So you were the bull in all these relationships?
I hate that term, but yes, I was the other guy. Bull infers some sort of dominance, and despite what the porn version says, I never felt that way. Don't get me wrong, but some of the wives really enjoyed teasing their husbands.

As for your question, my second wife occasionally liked to be shared, and I did not mind, probably because of my prior history. I never from the beginning thought that monogamy was an absolutely necessary part of marriage, as long as both parties were on the same page.
 
I hate that term, but yes, I was the other guy. Bull infers some sort of dominance, and despite what the porn version says, I never felt that way. Don't get me wrong, but some of the wives really enjoyed teasing their husbands.

As for your question, my second wife occasionally liked to be shared, and I did not mind, probably because of my prior history. I never from the beginning thought that monogamy was an absolutely necessary part of marriage, as long as both parties were on the same page.
What term would you prefer? Were the husbands always aware of you and their wife?
 
What term would you prefer? Were the husbands always aware of you and their wife?
I didn't really care. In the true cuckold relationships, they always knew, because they were in love and walking this road together. The cheaters, probably not. Several times, it was a wife at a conference without her husband. Those things tend to be meat markets, because no one brings their spouse to those things. To put it in perspective, I have a body count of 32, and 14 of those have been married women, though some were a swap between good friends (those are more often than not set up by the wives), so I suppose those don't count.
 
I'm on an adult dating site and one thing I noticed after lockdown ended was my inbox blowing up with messages from couples.

They all began in a similar way. 'Lockdown gave us plenty of time to think about our marriage and where we want it to go. Life is short and we discussed hotwifing/ cuckolding and we want to explore '

I think a good number of couples ponder it but don't act. It's a huge step that needs massive amounts of communicaton and trust.
 
I have had fantasies about other guys' I know fucking my wife for over 50 years now. And we had some really nice hot 3sums with a work friend of mine. But my wife and I both knew he wasn't her type to do more than just the sex, so it worked out great for us. I think that is a huge key to having a cuckold or just sharing your wife with another guy relationship. A nice enough guy that your wife would fuck, but knowing he's only into fucking her and that's all she wants is his, maybe bigger cock. The work friend I had was in a sexless marriage, so he needed the sex / my wife's pussy. She knew he was a drinker and like to party a lot. So, she wouldn't fall in love or anything like that with him. We just hooked up once every couple months for an all nighter, for a year maybe longer.
I love this!
 
I love to troll the haters in the Loving Wives genre who go crazy about extramarital sex, especially when the husband is on board.( I am in the top 15 of all time commenters, so I have a lot to say on stories) I was quoting statistics from a 20 year old biased study I think Penthouse, that said that 72% of married men fantasize about watching their wife with another man. Well I was called on it, so I went back and researched.

Here are the results of a large scale survey conducted in 2021. The actual numbers are 58% of married men have that fantasy. Surprisingly, 33% of wives have that same fantasy, being with another man in front of her husband. Another stat that came out of the study, that doesn't surprise me, is that 72% of wives in a long term marriage, secretly fantasize about friends' husbands, husband's friends, friends, and work colleagues. It wasn't mentioned in the study, but I suspect husbands in those long term marriages have the same type of fantasies.

So your husband and you are not alone in this fantasy. He is not a pervert. He just wants to see you pleasured. The secret is open communication, with no judgements. In my earlier days, I was with a number of cuckold relationships, where they were loving and consensual, and they were walking this road together, side by side as equals. The secret to the success of these relationships is the core bond between husband and wife. That needs to remain strong, or this won't work in the long term.
do u have a link to that study?
want my wife to read it.
maybe it will open her eyes to some ideas
 
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