Crying during an erotic spanking

[Eroticfan2013]

I have never had a erotic spanking but I've seen porn videos of women getting spanked. In a lot of the videos, the women appear to be crying do they still enjoy the spanking or is it bad and in real life do women get off and gettig spanked until they are crying.

 

[TheLordWinter]

That's quite a loaded question... so many different directions to go with the answer.

Some like it BECAUSE it hurts, it deepens their submission in their mind.

Others like it because pain = pleasure for them.

And then there are all the in-betweens, and those who don't fit the generalizations I just made.

You hit on quite a complex subject.

Edit: Sorry, forgot to address the crying part... it's very common for a sub to cry during spanking, even if they're getting off on it.

 

[consar]

do it

Crying is fine ,i know this cus my lady cries a lot when we do it .she says cant help weeping n not to stop hope that helps

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

Tears should definitely not be considered a universal stop sign.

 

[TheLordWinter]

Tears should definitely not be considered a universal stop sign.

Indeed, that's what safe words are for.

 

[desertslave]

Being spanked, flogged, or caned to tears is a wonderful catharsis for me. It's my emotional reset button. I don't cry easily if I'm stressed; pain given in a connected way lets me break down and let go.