Covid and group sex

[Grey Shadow]

Months of quarantine have made me miss people. My brain seems to be sexualizing that so I want to spend naked time with friends and/or think about group sex or same room sex. Anyone else?

 

[LauraWilling]

I definitely crave it more. I even think about what it might be like to drop any limits I have when used by others just to experience whatever is done to me. Weird. I know.

 

[Grey Shadow]

I definitely crave it more. I even think about what it might be like to drop any limits I have when used by others just to experience whatever is done to me. Weird. I know.

I don't think its weird at all. Avoiding contact with people makes you crave contact with people. Worrying constantly about whether or not people have this virus feels like lack of trust even if you know its the virus not them. You just want to relax and be vulnerable an not worry about being hurt.

 

[LauraWilling]

I don't think its weird at all. Avoiding contact with people makes you crave contact with people. Worrying constantly about whether or not people have this virus feels like lack of trust even if you know its the virus not them. You just want to relax and be vulnerable an not worry about being hurt.

Thank you. You maybe right. I know I feel like I would submit to almot anything, but I do not want to get sick. I am a very health and fitness person.

 

[phil1955]

We have created a bubble of friends that have limited exposure. It is a small group but at least we have been able to have some social contact. Several in our group are simply social in nature but there is one guy that has become my wife's FWB and possibly another can be added to the group. Hopefully this vaccine works and life my become a bit safer.

 

[PaxNurgle]

craving it and actually experiencing it are two different things though.

 

[Grey Shadow]

craving it and actually experiencing it are two different things though.

True but the question is open to everything from hot tubbing to orgies. Most people who are active on this forum have done something on that spectrum

 

[newhere2learn]

Not group events, but pre covid I was enjoying a healthy NSA relationship with 3 separate women, one guy and then doing drinks and dinner with another woman.

All of that barring one FWB has stopped. The excitement and variety is missed

 

[Bigspurt]

I have never had group anything. I am getting plenty of solo action, though.

 

[SubmissiveMom]

Yes, I agree, but I have a very active imagination and an 'arsenal' of sex toys so find myself masturbating far more than usual x x x

 

[Grey Shadow]

As of now the trend on the poll is clearly that people want to get together with others and be intimate with them in ways that aren't possible now. Group nudity and sex are on a lot of people's minds. Its not exactly a huge scientific survey but it lets me know I'm not alone. Thank you all for responding.

So I'm definitely going to keep working on making my yard more private so I can have hot tub gatherings. Whether they turn sexual or not remains to be seen but I'm going to be less shy about wanting to be nude and see others nude after this shit is over.

 

[Grey Shadow]

So for those of us that are craving social sex/nudity. What exactly is going through your head? I'm think that I want to have people over for hot tub time and imagine that it might turn into something more. My fantasies often involve specific people that I never see outside of social media now.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

Though, as a matter of course, I don't like people mostly because they can't be trusted.
I know that I NEED people for several reasons; and only one of them is sex.
And I also realize that I don't have to like someone to be respectful, to be able to give them pleasure and the best possible orgasm I'm capable of giving or for myself to have an orgasm.

 

[Grey Shadow]

Though, as a matter of course, I don't like people mostly because they can't be trusted.
I know that I NEED people for several reasons; and only one of them is sex.
And I also realize that I don't have to like someone to be respectful, to be able to give them pleasure and the best possible orgasm I'm capable of giving or for myself to have an orgasm.

So I take it you're not having more group sex cravings just more sex cravings in general?

 

[LisaVegas]

Both resorts I work at were open all summer. I am a Greeter for them. One place is no open fun while the other is open fun. People had masks. But if they wanted to not have them we had an area they could go for maskless fun. I am guilty... I joined in the fun once or twice

 

[Grey Shadow]

Both resorts I work at were open all summer. I am a Greeter for them. One place is no open fun while the other is open fun. People had masks. But if they wanted to not have them we had an area they could go for maskless fun. I am guilty... I joined in the fun once or twice

I have seen the results of this disease even on young healthy people. You could not have paid me to go to your resorts this summer.

 

[missyunderstanding]

Not sure about the cause

I do believe that there is a cause for every effect. Sometimes it is hard to determine what the cause of an effect might actually be. But I do know that for the last two months my libido has increased a lot. I am not sure if it has anything to do with the lockdown related factors. But it could be related to that. A very interesting question. But if the lockdown is making me crave more sex then why? Is it that life is more dull and some good sex serves as a natural pleasure boost in life? I will give this some thought. I do think that I have had more free time at home and I have used some of that time to look at porn. So, perhaps filling a time gap with porn in turn generated a greater desire for sex. I really had never seen much porn and I think that guys are into porn a lot more than we are. But I also think that girls feel like it is not right to watch porn and so there is a resistance to exploring it. But I think that once a girl checks it out that most of us would get turned on by it just like guys.

I wonder if porn viewing has gone up during covid-19? That would possible explain the cause and effect aspect.

 

[Grey Shadow]

I do believe that there is a cause for every effect. Sometimes it is hard to determine what the cause of an effect might actually be. But I do know that for the last two months my libido has increased a lot. I am not sure if it has anything to do with the lockdown related factors. But it could be related to that. A very interesting question. But if the lockdown is making me crave more sex then why? Is it that life is more dull and some good sex serves as a natural pleasure boost in life? I will give this some thought. I do think that I have had more free time at home and I have used some of that time to look at porn. So, perhaps filling a time gap with porn in turn generated a greater desire for sex. I really had never seen much porn and I think that guys are into porn a lot more than we are. But I also think that girls feel like it is not right to watch porn and so there is a resistance to exploring it. But I think that once a girl checks it out that most of us would get turned on by it just like guys.

I wonder if porn viewing has gone up during covid-19? That would possible explain the cause and effect aspect.

Generalized horniness has been something the press has been talking about since last spring. Its kind of an acknowledged thing. In some European countries governments have issued delicately worded health advisories encouraging people to find a fwb if they haven't already got a partner. I'm specifically wondering about people fantasizing more about group nudity and sex. Mostly because its something I'm doing.

 

[Funinkilts]

I was once in the lifestyle. I found I was in search of a specific type of person, and not really into the group scene. I am a nudist and do miss the group nudity scene. I understand being nude does have a tendency to stimulate members of the opposite sex. So if two or more be in agreement tew enjoy the pleasures that life offers (have sex), you are invited n allowed at our place. As long as you realize, we do NOT allow anyone to be sexually harassed nor shall anyone here allow anyone to be forced or coerced to have sex with another individual.

 

[TallOne]

Definitely craving a return to the swinging lifestyle.

Going to be the roaring 20s all over again I think.

 

[luckyseven]

Definitely craving a return to the swinging lifestyle.

Going to be the roaring 20s all over again I think.

We didn't realise how much we enjoyed it until we had to refrain.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

So I take it you're not having more group sex cravings just more sex cravings in general?

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Buttterscotch]

OMG it has been crazy. We are swingers and just in general social people and having to go to not trusting being around anyone sucked! I think we honestly made it three months and then some friends came over to have a drink on the porch and before the night was done we were in the bedroom. We started playing again but to a safer and not as frequent amount. Things have lightened up a lot since then but it would be nice to go back to totally normal.

 

[LisaVegas]

OMG it has been crazy. We are swingers and just in general social people and having to go to not trusting being around anyone sucked! I think we honestly made it three months and then some friends came over to have a drink on the porch and before the night was done we were in the bedroom. We started playing again but to a safer and not as frequent amount. Things have lightened up a lot since then but it would be nice to go back to totally normal.

We have had five Swinger parties since New Year's Eve. I hostess a mixed group of couples and solos. We keep it to 25 or so total and everyone is known and participates. Last year and earlier this year we had mask and no mask areas for those that wanted to make an adult choice. 2020 sucked! but 2021 is getting back to normal for all of us!

 

[Buttterscotch]

We have had five Swinger parties since New Year's Eve. I hostess a mixed group of couples and solos. We keep it to 25 or so total and everyone is known and participates. Last year and earlier this year we had mask and no mask areas for those that wanted to make an adult choice. 2020 sucked! but 2021 is getting back to normal for all of us!

We have been in contact with some other couples as well and really looking to enjoy the upcoming Fall. Might be time to see how the resorts are back to running around Christmas time.