Couples massage advice

[N2outdoors]

I am planning a couples massage for my wife in a few weeks. This is a classy place and I don't expect anything sexual. My dilemma is tryin to decide on a time. I can schedule for 3 or 4:00 p.m. That will give us time to go out to dinner afterwords. I I can schedule it for 6:00 or 7:00 p.m. My question for the ladies is this: will my wife be so relaxed that she wants to go yo sleep? Or will she be stimulated and ready for sex? I am going to want some sex after this experience. I know that you can't know how MY wife will feel, but perhaps through your own experience you can offer some advice. Thanks

 

[fire_breeze]

I am planning a couples massage for my wife in a few weeks. This is a classy place and I don't expect anything sexual. My dilemma is tryin to decide on a time. I can schedule for 3 or 4:00 p.m. That will give us time to go out to dinner afterwords. I I can schedule it for 6:00 or 7:00 p.m. My question for the ladies is this: will my wife be so relaxed that she wants to go yo sleep? Or will she be stimulated and ready for sex? I am going to want some sex after this experience. I know that you can't know how MY wife will feel, but perhaps through your own experience you can offer some advice. Thanks

I never had a couples massage, but I did have therapeutic massages. All I can tell you is that I usually fall asleep and am so zenned that I really just wanted to nap and revel in my blissed out state. I couldn't have rush even if I wanted to. I would suggest, based on that, that you schedule the appointment at 3, and that way you won't have to rush to make it for dinner - and you can enjoy relaxing and being stress free.

Just my thought.

 

[LadyVer]

Ditto to fire_breeze. After a massage, I'm as useless as a noodle...

 

[ConfusedAgain]

I think OP has watched too much sexual massage porn.

 

[GrrlFriday]

Just make sure that it's a 'relaxing' or 'light' massage - I had a Swedish massage once and for the next three days I felt incredibly stiff and sore and like I wanted to vomit - hardly the atmosphere you're hoping for!

The next time I went, I made sure I was well hydrated beforehand, I'd done a short walk in the morning (light exercise and stretching of muscles), I ate lightly beforehand, and I told the therapist that the last time had left me feeling awful afterwards, so she was very gentle with me. In case you've never had a massage before, they ask you to fill out a survey on past medical history, so make sure that whichever time you choose, you arrive a little early.

You could also give your wife a long, gentle back or shoulder massage a few times in the leadup to the appointment (books and DVDs can likely be found at your local library) - this would help her body get used to the general sensation, which would reduce the chance of nauseous side-effects and you could get an idea of whether she's going to fall asleep on you.

Hope this helps!

 

[N2outdoors]

Thanks

I hate massages. Having my appendix out would be more of a turn-on for me than a massage.

Thanks for all of the advice. I think I will go with the 3:00 suggestion. And no, I haven't watched any massage themes porn. I have never had a real massage, so I have no idea what kind of effect that have on you, especially a woman. I have read posts in here by some women who get very aroused, while others get into a deep state of relaxation.

 

[Somehowyou]

I hate massages. Having my appendix out would be more of a turn-on for me than a massage.

Really? My S.O. feels the same way. She is uncomfortable with a stranger touching her. A massage is one of my favorite things in life. I love a deep tissue. I have really tight calf muscles and I have pulled them numerous times. Finally, I tried a regiman of deep tissue massages 1 per week for a month and I finally stopped pulling them. I also enjoy sweedish and a s foot massage. Sometimes part is painful but I still love it.

My favorite is when someone does an honest to good full body deep tissue and then after an hour provides a sexual release. The only place I could find this so far was in Phuket Thailand. The worst is when you go to an Asian parlor that is not interested in massage. Many are experts and they are quite affordable but the ones that sell sex are awful. They massage you half ass and then want to sell sex with some old hag! Avoid these places

To the OP: Tell her you plan to have sex when you get back home. Get it in her head prior to the massage that the massage is to stimulate your sex drive and to think of it as foreplay. reach out and hold her hand as they rub you both. sometimes they leave you there to lay for a few minutes..you may try to bend her over the table when they leave...or take her home or back to your room if you are at a resort and Fire up a doobie and then shag her rotten and then go to sleep. How's that for an evening?

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

i would like to try this out.