Could you be with an impotent Dom?
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I was with someone like that once.
A medium strenght sadist, he seemed to be unable of arousal period unless inflicting pain, and then, only briefly.
An early experience, a def. turn-off to the scene as it seemed that this guy really wan't interested in the sex at all, only an opportunity to harm.
And then there was the one with the duct tape..
A medium strenght sadist, he seemed to be unable of arousal period unless inflicting pain, and then, only briefly.
An early experience, a def. turn-off to the scene as it seemed that this guy really wan't interested in the sex at all, only an opportunity to harm.
And then there was the one with the duct tape..
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I don't think it would matter to me. D/s isn't largely about sexuality for me.
I used to play with a dominant that was very much a sadist and very obviously loved what he was doing. One time he pushed my hand down to fondle him during a scene and I was a bit upset that he was so soft, thinking I was doing something wrong. He later reassured me that after being turned on for so long (the scene was quite long and intense) that his dick just couldn't keep it up anymore, but he was no more or less turned on and it still felt good for me to touch him. I loved that, because it really showed me that he wasn't in it just "for the sex". There is so much more to being turned on than a hardon!
I used to play with a dominant that was very much a sadist and very obviously loved what he was doing. One time he pushed my hand down to fondle him during a scene and I was a bit upset that he was so soft, thinking I was doing something wrong. He later reassured me that after being turned on for so long (the scene was quite long and intense) that his dick just couldn't keep it up anymore, but he was no more or less turned on and it still felt good for me to touch him. I loved that, because it really showed me that he wasn't in it just "for the sex". There is so much more to being turned on than a hardon!
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Maybe I'm shallow but nope. Sex is a huge part of why I submit. His dick getting rock hard and then his orgasms are my greatest reward.
If however my present Dom became impotent due to medical reasons I would stay with him and and we would work things out. I have too much emotionally invested to drop him because of performance issues.
I just would never start a relationship if there was not great sex involved.
If however my present Dom became impotent due to medical reasons I would stay with him and and we would work things out. I have too much emotionally invested to drop him because of performance issues.
I just would never start a relationship if there was not great sex involved.
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I think that the flipside of this question is equally compelling.
I was once asked how it would affect me if my partner simply did not climax with me. How would it affect me if I knew that no matter what I did, she would not have a climax. I honestly don't have a good answer for that since the purpose of what I do is to play my partner's sexual response until she has sung with an angel's voice and showed the demons how to misbehave.
I was once asked how it would affect me if my partner simply did not climax with me. How would it affect me if I knew that no matter what I did, she would not have a climax. I honestly don't have a good answer for that since the purpose of what I do is to play my partner's sexual response until she has sung with an angel's voice and showed the demons how to misbehave.
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He probably liked the way you made his ham and eggs.FurryFury said:
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Yes, i could provided that the reason for the impotence was not self-inflicted...i.e. not managing diabetes properly, narcotic abuse, etc... If i couldn't trust the Dom to take care of himself and his own health, how can i trust him with me?
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WriterDom said:
Smoking is bad, but i live in a glass house with that one so i can't judge.
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I hope you're planning to return it soon. I'm sure he misses it.WriterDom said:
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Would depend on one thing, did he still seem interested in me and what we were doing.
A soft cock doesn't bother me at all if I know he's enjoying things, and there are other ways to tell that than that blood trobbing feeling...not that I would trade a throbing cock in my mouth for anything.
As long as every one's having fun, that's all that matters to me.
A soft cock doesn't bother me at all if I know he's enjoying things, and there are other ways to tell that than that blood trobbing feeling...not that I would trade a throbing cock in my mouth for anything.
As long as every one's having fun, that's all that matters to me.
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Thankies.
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i dont think i can, since i dont submit to just anyone for one scene or two, i submit to my dom, who is also my boyfriend. call me shallow, but i want his cock in my mouth, or in me, and i will get far too frustrated when he doesnt respond.
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I'm not really looking for "a Dom" but when I would have fantasies of being on the bottom with a man , the Dom was always gay and sex wasn't a part of it. He wasn't impotent through, I was usually a fluffer for him to fuck his boys, getting him sadistically turned on. My denoument was being sweaty and tormented and kissing his boots.
So I think, yeah, a Dominant who never got hard wouldn't faze me.
I like that mine does, personally. But if it stopped (it won't for a long time if his parents behavior into their 80's was any indication) we'd find other things to do, no problem.
So I think, yeah, a Dominant who never got hard wouldn't faze me.
I like that mine does, personally. But if it stopped (it won't for a long time if his parents behavior into their 80's was any indication) we'd find other things to do, no problem.
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My dom is 35 and I am 22.. I often wonder in 20 years if this would ever be a problem... *shrugs*
I have issue's with orgasming clitorally... but I can have inside orgasms no problem.. though alot of times I don't even notice them since they aren't what I "crave" I ejaculate and make huge messes..he always makes me feel them
Edit : sorry I got off on a tanget and forgot the post topic.. oops... (sex fries my brain mmm yummy..)
anyways.. if he was impotent, I am owned. I would deal with it as he saw fit.
I have issue's with orgasming clitorally... but I can have inside orgasms no problem.. though alot of times I don't even notice them since they aren't what I "crave" I ejaculate and make huge messes..he always makes me feel them
Edit : sorry I got off on a tanget and forgot the post topic.. oops... (sex fries my brain mmm yummy..)
anyways.. if he was impotent, I am owned. I would deal with it as he saw fit.
