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[rlaflamme]

Yes, I really appreciated it when he would share pics like that with me (and not a single dick pic in the lot. Something else that I greatly appreciated!). He was a sweet man, I wish that he was still around.



Whatever floats one's boat I suppose. I guess that's what makes us unique. Still, when I see something that that gives me that WTF feeling, I'm always tempted to post something snarky, but I've gotten better, and more times than not I'll just walk on.

It is great when you can find someone special, someone to share words with for some time. The conversations that last a few messages are nice and can be fulfilling, but you can have some that last years and that is wonderful.

As for the naughty stuff, well that can give wonderful ideas or make the body cringe, it's awesome lol.

 

[TheRealLJS]

It is great when you can find someone special, someone to share words with for some time. The conversations that last a few messages are nice and can be fulfilling, but you can have some that last years and that is wonderful.

It is great. I've had many short exchanges that were pleasurable for the both of us. I think most of us have had those over time. The conversations that speak to our heart and soul, and that we remember beyond Lit, those are ones to be treasured. Not all of us get to experience those, but those who do should cherish them like the most precious of stones.

As for the naughty stuff, well that can give wonderful ideas or make the body cringe, it's awesome lol.

I try to avoid the body cringing threads. Not always possible, but I've learned to move on quickly, and spend more time focusing on those more wonderful threads.

 

[rlaflamme]

It is great. I've had many short exchanges that were pleasurable for the both of us. I think most of us have had those over time. The conversations that speak to our heart and soul, and that we remember beyond Lit, those are ones to be treasured. Not all of us get to experience those, but those who do should cherish them like the most precious of stones.


I try to avoid the body cringing threads. Not always possible, but I've learned to move on quickly, and spend more time focusing on those more wonderful threads.

That's the way it should be, having a great conversation here and there, enjoying other people company and chilling. If you are lucky enough to find one that last a long time, one that you take with you when not on the site, that is really special


And that is the way it should be. We don't shame people for what they like or think is fun to do, we move on if it does not interest us. Simple enough

 

[TheRealLJS]

Perhaps the new year will bring us all new and exciting conversations. Whether they be about how the weather is in your neck of the woods, or a lengthy discussion of a favorite movie, or the disappointment you've experienced from a life event. I'm trying to be more positive, which is hard since I've surrounded myself with negativity for so long. Hard to do that 180, but I'll make that one of my New Year's resolutions for 2020.

 

[rlaflamme]

Perhaps the new year will bring us all new and exciting conversations. Whether they be about how the weather is in your neck of the woods, or a lengthy discussion of a favorite movie, or the disappointment you've experienced from a life event. I'm trying to be more positive, which is hard since I've surrounded myself with negativity for so long. Hard to do that 180, but I'll make that one of my New Year's resolutions for 2020.

I hope all those conversations come. Meeting new people is a good thing and having a friend or 10 is always nice.
Good luck to you, keep your smile on and stay positive. It is hard to do that 180, but I think you can do it

 

[rlaflamme]

Good day to you all I hope all is well with the visitors here and hope that this thread has helped a few people open up to messages and find some friendships.

Sometimes a simple hello can go very far. It often seems that is the luck of the draw to get a good conversation going, and sometimes it seems fruitless, but never stop trying to find something you enjoy.

 

[pandaburr]

Good day to you all I hope all is well with the visitors here and hope that this thread has helped a few people open up to messages and find some friendships.

Sometimes a simple hello can go very far. It often seems that is the luck of the draw to get a good conversation going, and sometimes it seems fruitless, but never stop trying to find something you enjoy.

This was a good reminder to be open to those little 'hello's. I have made a few long lasting friends from here and those connections feel good. They are genuine and fun and just... They are my people. But it all started from saying hi.

 

[rlaflamme]

This was a good reminder to be open to those little 'hello's. I have made a few long lasting friends from here and those connections feel good. They are genuine and fun and just... They are my people. But it all started from saying hi.

Sometimes it really is that simple. It is really awesome when it works out. You never know if someone is really shy and just trying to break through their shell a bit, they don't know what to say right off, but know they want to talk. Some people are not good at starting a conversation, they have so much they want to say, but don't know how to start it.

 

[pandaburr]

Sometimes it really is that simple. It is really awesome when it works out. You never know if someone is really shy and just trying to break through their shell a bit, they don't know what to say right off, but know they want to talk. Some people are not good at starting a conversation, they have so much they want to say, but don't know how to start it.

I agree completely! Well, I guess it makes sense in the context of this conversation but if anyone wants to drop one of those coveted hello's, I'm open for seeing where it goes.

 

[rlaflamme]

Do you think that some people don't dive into messaging others because they worry they will be ghosted? It is common to have a conversation going then …. nothing, just no more replies, no more communication. As it goes here, this is cyberland, a place where we can talk freely and enjoy many things, but life comes up and takes us from this place, as it should, real life should be more important than being here. I wonder does that make people hesitate though? Knowing real life might take the conversation away.

On that note, do you ever send a message to someone you have not heard from for a while? And, how many do you send before you "let it go"?

Just a couple random thoughts. Have a great day!

 

[TheRealLJS]

Do you think that some people don't dive into messaging others because they worry they will be ghosted? It is common to have a conversation going then …. nothing, just no more replies, no more communication. As it goes here, this is cyberland, a place where we can talk freely and enjoy many things, but life comes up and takes us from this place, as it should, real life should be more important than being here. I wonder does that make people hesitate though? Knowing real life might take the conversation away.

On that note, do you ever send a message to someone you have not heard from for a while? And, how many do you send before you "let it go"?

Just a couple random thoughts. Have a great day!

Ghosting is certainly something that's on my mind when talking to someone online, here or elsewhere. I've been a victim of it a few times myself, I know others have as well, and I think there have been some threads about it, so it is a valid concern when striking up a conversation. Not so much if all you talk about is casual shit. It's when you have an emotional investment in a person and then they vanish, it's like WTF!

I can only speak for myself, but I think it contributes to me being a bit gunshy when sending/receiving PMs. It hasn't stopped me from doing it, but I try to be a little more discerning about who I'm talking with. Still no guarantees, but I'm a big girl. I'll tough it out if it happens again.

 

[rlaflamme]

We all lead such different lives and different lifestyles. Sometimes it is nice just to have someone like that to chat with, to share with. When we meet with those we see several times a week we can often run out of things to share or talk about as we have said most of what we want to, or we do not want to share many things with them as it would quite possibly change their opinion of you or the way they see you. Having someone you "don't know" opens that door though, makes it so you can share more of what you really want to talk about or explore. It is a wonderful thing.

 

[Bjerget]

Hope all is well in this thread too. Happy new year to you all.

 

[rlaflamme]

Hope all is well in this thread too. Happy new year to you all.

Happy New Year! It is good to see you again

 

[Bjerget]

Happy New Year! It is good to see you again

Nice to see you too. Hope everything is going alright for you.

 

[rlaflamme]

Nice to see you too. Hope everything is going alright for you.

I've been well, keeping busy. Keeping thread going and such. How have you been?

 

[Bjerget]

I've been well, keeping busy. Keeping thread going and such. How have you been?

Ups and downs as usual. Right now is a bit of a down time for me, but I'm sure I will survive. Just got to keep my nose down and work through it.

I see that you've really made this place into something. Kudos to you for that! Most threads die long before they reach 40+ pages.

 

[rlaflamme]

Ups and downs as usual. Right now is a bit of a down time for me, but I'm sure I will survive. Just got to keep my nose down and work through it.

I see that you've really made this place into something. Kudos to you for that! Most threads die long before they reach 40+ pages.

Life is fun isn't it? lol.

I credit the page continuing because of people like you, ones that participate and make it fun to visit

 

[Bjerget]

Life is fun isn't it? lol.

I credit the page continuing because of people like you, ones that participate and make it fun to visit

Life is certainly not what I'd call fun. Perhaps... trying?

And awe shucks. Colour me embarrassed! What a very nice thing to say!

 

[rlaflamme]

Life is certainly not what I'd call fun. Perhaps... trying?

And awe shucks. Colour me embarrassed! What a very nice thing to say!

Trying is a good word for it, good thing we have a place like this to escape to lol.

Nothing like making you blush a bit But it is true

 

[Msmocha76]

Please bare with me!

Hi I read the beginning and end of this thread. Very interesting. I am looking for the same thing. I am a 43 year old mocha woman. I am educated. I can share more.

 

[rlaflamme]

Hi I read the beginning and end of this thread. Very interesting. I am looking for the same thing. I am a 43 year old mocha woman. I am educated. I can share more.

Jump right in It is always good to see new people here

 

[madhu50]

Hi I read the beginning and end of this thread. Very interesting. I am looking for the same thing. I am a 43 year old mocha woman. I am educated. I can share more.

Dear MsMocha,activate your PMs without with there may not be much conversations.

 

[rlaflamme]

Hi I read the beginning and end of this thread. Very interesting. I am looking for the same thing. I am a 43 year old mocha woman. I am educated. I can share more.

Dear MsMocha,activate your PMs without with there may not be much conversations.

Sorry, I didn't click into that, guess I should have. Thank you

 

[niceshot]

Meh, PMs can be such a bother sometimes.

And to introduce myself, I am a 40 year old man living in Middle GA. I write a bit but do not post anything. I like to write my stories, both erotic and non erotic, for the audience that receives them. I have a technical job with little contact with other humans and enjoy picking up my phobe to find a reply waiting. I too am looking for that effortless conversation that flows between people who are genuinely interested in the ups and the downs in the others lives.