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*Thuds fingertips upon desk repeatedly*

A full body massage, from a great distance :p



Biting? Shiva, I told you that you can't just go bite people, you need to ask first :)

That better be one hell of a good massage... :D

Also...

ohai

I bite who I wanna.
 
Of course it will be a great massage!!! :)

What??!! What you mean you just bite whoever??!! :p

Pfft the proof is in the pudding, as they say. Or put your mouth where your money is.

And yes. Yes I do. I have to feed somehow.
 
Pfft the proof is in the pudding, as they say. Or put your mouth where your money is.

And yes. Yes I do. I have to feed somehow.

If only you were a bit closer... This would be a heck of a long-distance massage lol.

Very true, but should be try to avoid biting people? I don't know anymore, that is why I come here.
 
Chose one:
a) Bite me.
b) Bite me?
c) Bite me!

Lots of talk about biting. Not sure how to respond..
 
Happy Friday ya'll! May your day be filled with happy stuff! I don't know about you but I'm gonna kick a little ass today!
 
It's fairly warm out here these days! But not so hot as it is in central Europe !! :D lucky me!

How is summer treating you all?
 
It's fairly warm out here these days! But not so hot as it is in central Europe !! :D lucky me!

How is summer treating you all?

I am glad you are lucky :)

It hs been decent so far, not to hot and not over-loaded with rain. Been able to get the kayaks out on the lake, so I am happy :)
 
I am glad you are lucky :)

It hs been decent so far, not to hot and not over-loaded with rain. Been able to get the kayaks out on the lake, so I am happy :)

I would love to kayak today but I do not think it will be in the cards. I am glad you got to get out, however I am a bit jealous. I am actively practicing compersion in this case...
 
It's fairly warm out here these days! But not so hot as it is in central Europe !! :D lucky me!

How is summer treating you all?

My summer has been good. I haven't spent as much time outdoors as I would like. The hot season is right around the corner, so I need to make time to get out there. If I wait, it'll be like dancing on the surface of a barbecue.
 
Do you ever wonder if people hold back from starting a conversation on a site like this because the chance of it lasting a significant amount of time is very slim? The average conversation between two people here lasts less than a week, with most only being a few messages in one day, or so I have been told. I think that can have an effect on people. If you talk to 10 people and it never goes beyond a few messages why would you continue to hope for more?

Conversations and friends are hard to keep in real life, how much more difficulty is there and finding one so far away? It is simply a chance encounter, a hope, a prayer to find a friend or two here. One must ask if it is worth writing your thoughts down to another or is it not.

I tend to look at the page of a person I am about to contact, find something to kick in a conversation more than, "Hey, how are you? Nice joke on that thread." It gives a bit more insight and thought and increases the chances of a conversation going further.

Just another random thought. Have fun all :)
 
Do you ever wonder if people hold back from starting a conversation on a site like this because the chance of it lasting a significant amount of time is very slim? The average conversation between two people here lasts less than a week, with most only being a few messages in one day, or so I have been told. I think that can have an effect on people. If you talk to 10 people and it never goes beyond a few messages why would you continue to hope for more?

Conversations and friends are hard to keep in real life, how much more difficulty is there and finding one so far away? It is simply a chance encounter, a hope, a prayer to find a friend or two here. One must ask if it is worth writing your thoughts down to another or is it not.

I tend to look at the page of a person I am about to contact, find something to kick in a conversation more than, "Hey, how are you? Nice joke on that thread." It gives a bit more insight and thought and increases the chances of a conversation going further.

Just another random thought. Have fun all :)

Good day. Interesting random thought indeed. I can only speak for myself when I say that my personality has held me back from starting conversations with people. I think personality plays an important role. For instance, I would consider myself quite introverted so in real life I shy away from meeting real people in a social sense. I have only been here (on Lit) for a few months and was surprised to find that my shyness carried over to the cyber-world. That is - until fate brought me in contact with someone amazing and for whom I can now not get enough of. I must say it has changed me. (As evidenced by my rant here). She has shown me that it can very well be worth my while to open myself up. What am I trying to hide anyway? Anyway, just my two cents on the subject. Awesome thread by the way. Thank you for that. Enjoy.
 
Good day. Interesting random thought indeed. I can only speak for myself when I say that my personality has held me back from starting conversations with people. I think personality plays an important role. For instance, I would consider myself quite introverted so in real life I shy away from meeting real people in a social sense. I have only been here (on Lit) for a few months and was surprised to find that my shyness carried over to the cyber-world. That is - until fate brought me in contact with someone amazing and for whom I can now not get enough of. I must say it has changed me. (As evidenced by my rant here). She has shown me that it can very well be worth my while to open myself up. What am I trying to hide anyway? Anyway, just my two cents on the subject. Awesome thread by the way. Thank you for that. Enjoy.

That is wonderful! I am glad you found her and you shared your experience on the thread, thank you :)

I am also glad you enjoy the thread, it is the insight of others, like yourself, that have kept it going :)
 
I often wonder if people don't start conversation just because they are not sure what to say, like they start typing a message, then delete it, start over, delete, and repeat. Eventually just giving up and closing the page.

Words can be hard to find and with that comes a difficulty to talk, I think.
 
I have not posted on here in a while, so I figured a bit of a bump to give it a bit of life again was needed. No real random thoughts for me today, the head just isn't operating right now, but a little hello to all of you :)
 
There is nothing wrong with "mindless" chatter, like when you sort of just sill out your words and share them with someone. You will find yourself telling the person things you didn't know or think you would tell them and in turn, hopefully, they will do the same. An exchange of ideas and feelings that can make the thoughts you have about certain aspects of your life change a bit, make things make a bit more sense.

I believe that everyone needs an outlet, a person they can confide in and share their fears and hopes to. It is healthy. Many people do not have that person in the "real world". Her, in cyberland, you might find yourself opening up more freely and it can do wonders.
 
A conversation is a simple exchange of words from simple to complex and can be one of the most feared things a person sees. Relax and make it happen, have fun and move on from the ones that seem to go nowhere.
 
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