Lancecastor
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Why comment at all? What happened to Hi or Morning or just a smile? It's the act of being singled out that is part of the offense and I'm talking about the walk to work, not at a bar or nightclub. Men seem to think women are on permanent call-girl duty cos their dicks tell them so.
Quite the Romeo.You're right. Interrupting a girl walking to work to hit one her with any opening line is lame and stupid. I was thinking in terms of a situation where it would be acceptable to strike up a conversation. And probably after a polite "Good morning" and a few words about the weather.
Are bars and nightclubs the only places it is acceptable to try to get to know a girl? I've gone on more dates from girls I met on the bus than bars. When I go to a bar or club it is usually with a date not looking for one.
There is a universe of difference between a woman complimenting another woman's outfit ( because she knows what she talking about ) than a man. A man always has an agenda, unless he's gay ... in which case they prolly do know what they're talking aboutBut we can compliment and receive compliments with it being inoffensive I think. And certainly not sexual. I said to a receptionist this morning she looked great in her yellow dress on this glorious day, and I certainly do not feel attracted to her. Similarly the next person I saw ( hmm, also a woman, but does this have to make a difference?) mentioned my sundress looked pretty and light and summery. No discomfort, lots of smiles, just 'pleasant chat'. I often point out when I notice something attractive on someone....'oh, your nails are pretty!' Or, those earrings are beautiful' or nice handbag. I'm trying to think of the last compliment I gave a male friend and I think it was, ' those are great shorts'. Nothing sexual was meant by any of it, nothing offensive implied and none seemed to be taken. When I put jewellery on, for example, it's because I think it's pretty, it's nice if someone says, ' pretty earrings' or 'great shoes'.
The bus or work is a perfect place, because a woman can see how you interact with other people and you have something in common as a starting point - like how late the bus is, or at work, there's a zillion things to flirt over. Both of those are more controlled environments than the street, which is what the OP was highlighting I think.You're right. Interrupting a girl walking to work to hit one her with any opening line is lame and stupid. I was thinking in terms of a situation where it would be acceptable to strike up a conversation. And probably after a polite "Good morning" and a few words about the weather.
Are bars and nightclubs the only places it is acceptable to try to get to know a girl? I've gone on more dates from girls I met on the bus than bars. When I go to a bar or club it is usually with a date not looking for one.
Wherever i go on my bike, it's always the same...strangers will ask what year it is, comment on how cool it is, how they used to have a harley or wish they had one, what a great day it is for a ride, etc etc.
They should all be arrested!
The act by which a man entices a woman to have unlawful sexual relations with him by means of persuasions, solicitations, promises, or bribes without the use of physical force or violence.
You hear many a story about gay men in public washrooms. Why, because they are men and men are pigs, gay or straight. Many straight males would have no issue with sex in a public place with some hottie. Two gay males and it is almost a given.
My brother is gay and I love and respect him deeply. But I have heard enough tales from him and his gay friends, before I was able to run away quickly, about exploits in public sex.
He's gone from recounting his numerous Don Juan experiences,
to fantasizing about having gay sex in public places.
Jesus!
Well, like he said, he has a hard time meeting women.
You're right. Interrupting a girl walking to work to hit one her with any opening line is lame and stupid. I was thinking in terms of a situation where it would be acceptable to strike up a conversation. And probably after a polite "Good morning" and a few words about the weather.
Are bars and nightclubs the only places it is acceptable to try to get to know a girl? I've gone on more dates from girls I met on the bus than bars. When I go to a bar or club it is usually with a date not looking for one.
Sounds like you're a pig trying to pick women up on the bus on the way to/from work
Never intentionally. I always have my nose buried in a book while riding the bus, if there is a seat. I think girls like guys who read. You should try it. Reading.
Tims late at night after bars close. Read a book. Always gets girls looking. And I'm not that much to look at either.
Maybe get some fuzzy dice for the bus to attract the ladies?
Make up your mind...you meet women on the bus or you don't...all men are pigs or they aren't
I'm reading the shit you write aren't I?
I do but not intentionally and I guess I have Vietnamese blood in me.
Why am I picturing a little fat bellied pig all of a sudden
You been reading my Canadian politics thread haven't you? One post that paints the Ontario Liberals and Premier Wynne in a good light and you get all personal.
So many men, not enough jails to hold them.so many man tears in here
tis a great thing to see