So i wanted to get others thoughts on this... ive been married for a couple years, and my wife and i have a fairly open relationship.. she has a boyfriend or two, and i have a girlfriend. We recently started discussing the idea of a threesome. For whatever reason, even though i know she fucks other guys, fucking her with another guy both excites and worries me. Neither of us are interested in MFF, Only MFM. We have a fsir amount of experience in bdsm.. i guess im mostly looking for others who have had experience in MFM threesomes while married, and how it worked out? Male or female opinions would be hugely appreciated
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My wife and I hve had MFM and mff I have to say even though Im more of a dom kind of guy I really loved seeing my wife with another guy it was wonderful seeing her have so much fun and as shes sub I knew she was doing it to please me ( well thats what she says lol ) But as long as you both trust each other all should be great but done put any pressure either way !
My wife and I hve had MFM and mff I have to say even though Im more of a dom kind of guy I really loved seeing my wife with another guy it was wonderful seeing her have so much fun and as shes sub I knew she was doing it to please me ( well thats what she says lol ) But as long as you both trust each other all should be great but done put any pressure either way !
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That's gross.
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As a sissy, our threesome started as FmF then went on from there. As a sissy She is in control and decides who and what goes on.
You should discuss the threesome at length as it will be a turning point in your relationship. The first time should be someone that you both know and feel comfortable with.
Good luck if you decide to proceed with it.
After all these years, I say it is 100% dependent on your level of confidence, your trust factor, etc. If you are worried about it, unless she is seriously pushing you for it, just do something else. I am fairly confident, and generally trust my wife emphatically, but there have been a couple of times it was just to obvious that she had such major chemistry with the other guy.....it did worry me some. I mean, in all truth, we don't choose who we are attracted to nor can we control how strong the attraction/chemistry is.
If, on the other hand, you can not worry about it....you will get to see a side of your wife you have never seen. You know you would die to have been a fly on the wall to watch her with her former lovers....so it is sort of your chance to see her in action when she is with someone else. I loved that aspect of it. And, lets face it ......things are just hotter with someone new after a while.
You just really have to search your own soul for whether you will be plagued with worrisome thoughts after.....is she going to hook up with him without you knowing? why doesnt she react to YOU like that in certain situations.....etc etc.....
Don't set yourself up for failure though if you are already worrying about it a good bit.
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If she already has a boyfriend or two, and you know she fucks other guys, it doesn't sound to me like you have a great fear of losing her. What is it about the threesome situation, then, that gives you pause?
You don't say who suggested the idea of the threesome. If she is the one who brought it up, my read would be to think it is an experience she wants to share with you, which seems like a good thing.
Keep us posted on your decision.
You don't say who suggested the idea of the threesome. If she is the one who brought it up, my read would be to think it is an experience she wants to share with you, which seems like a good thing.
Keep us posted on your decision.
