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ICT its a ruthless double standard here as a guy. There are compliments for all types of women, but only one or two types of body types on a man get any attention.

IFCT it is what it is, I guess.
 
Pondlife said:
ICT I laughed a lot at the idea of someone with a halo.
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Don't worry... I'm leaving it at home. :D

Xerxes82 said:
ICT I had something I was going to type here, but then funluvinaj's AV completely made me forget what it was...
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ICT this made me smile and blush. :) :rose:

SassySheDevil said:
ICT- Sometimes it just takes a simple reminder, to remind me, why I don't comment in threads to other peoples pictures very often. :rolleyes: Oh how I :heart: women..
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:devil: ICT that i wanna know...how do you love them?? :p
 
bullus said:
ICT its a ruthless double standard here as a guy. There are compliments for all types of women, but only one or two types of body types on a man get any attention.

IFCT it is what it is, I guess.
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ICT this is the first time in my life I've gotten any positive attention from men. I spent my whole life thinking I was ugly... Thanks to an abusive father.

IFCT I'm sorry that this is how lit has made you feel... But there are women around that like guys for who they are. Neither the guy I'm involved with now or the one before him fit some GQ image but are far more attractive to me than some emptied headed pretty boy. Intelligence and making me laugh are important... And confidence is appealing... Not complaining. Own who you are... I know I've become far happier in the last few years since I did exactly that.

Best of luck. ;)
 
ICT I wish I could be more patient and not bug so much.
IACT I need to do my homework but I am on here instead.
IFCT I am so tired and it is raining and I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
 
funluvinaj said:
:devil: ICT that i wanna know...how do you love them?? :p
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From afar mostly :p
funluvinaj said:
ICT this is the first time in my life I've gotten any positive attention from men. I spent my whole life thinking I was ugly... Thanks to an abusive father.

IFCT I'm sorry that this is how lit has made you feel... But there are women around that like guys for who they are. Neither the guy I'm involved with now or the one before him fit some GQ image but are far more attractive to me than some emptied headed pretty boy. Intelligence and making me laugh are important... And confidence is appealing... Not complaining. Own who you are... I know I've become far happier in the last few years since I did exactly that.

Best of luck. ;)
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ICT-- I have to agree with this. In my real life, I don't get people coming up to me and saying the kind of things that are said on here. Not even close. I admit that when I lost weight, I turned more heads then I ever used to. But nothing compared to the compliments on here.

IACT-- I don't comment a lot to guys on here cause the simple compliments are often ignored for the sluttier ones. But if I do. It's cause of something that stands out. Just cause that stands out, doesn't mean I automatically like them. I too prefer the personality of a person much more then any physical feature of one. I'd rather know someone for who they are, then what they look like. There are a couple on here that are good looking, and they know it and it's such a turn off, because it has made their ego out of control.

IFCT-I have a friend whom I've talked to well over a year now. I've seen 1 picture of him ever. But I love him to death. he's the nicest, most sweet, loving person ever. It bugs the shit out of me that he doesn't share pictures, but the botton line is, it doesn't matter what he looks like, cause I already care deeply for him. He could be a troll for all I know, or care.
 
bullus said:
ICT its a ruthless double standard here as a guy. There are compliments for all types of women, but only one or two types of body types on a man get any attention.

IFCT it is what it is, I guess.
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I don't think this is entirely true. YES it IS considerably harder for men to make a mark because women just aren't vocal in the forum as men are when it comes to photo threads. However, that's usually because most of the guys commenting on women's threads are only hoping for something juicy, and if you look closely you'll see the same names popping up on multiple threads regularly with the same asinine responses. As a guy, no, you're probably not going to get much empty gawking, at least not openly. However, your body type doesn't really matter as long as you are engaging and witty about how you do it.
I speak from experience. Waaaaaaaaay back in another time, in another life, I had my own thread here and while it was never as popular as certain others I could name I rarely left the front page of the AmPics forum. I didn't post anything too risque, and it didn't matter. The regulars I had were there because they liked what I did. They didn't want a dick shot. They wanted something that took some thought and a bit of work to set up. It didn't have to be artistic, but it at least had to look like it wasn't shot with a webcam at 4 am in the middle of a Cheetos and Mt. Dew binge. I also never took it seriously. Come on, man! You're posting Am pics on an internet forum. This isn't Mapplethorpe at the Met- it's a way to have a bit of a laugh and kill some time. Be witty, be funny, BE POLITE. If you post it, they will come- provided you've done it a way that doesn't make you come off as a total douche or a socially maladjusted basement dweller.
I checked your threads- even with a thread of mainly dick pics you had a decent start. People did NOT mind your body- in fact, they asked to see more of it. Maybe give it another chance?
You're never going to have every single organism with a vagina that has a Lit account fighting each other with busted beer bottles to see who gets the last slot in your PM inbox, but you can have an audience of loyal followers. And look at it from the women's perspective too. Which would mean more? Dozens of messages with backhanded compliments that demand to see more than you're willing to show, or a loyal core group who are as much a part of your thread's evolution as you are and who support you with genuine encouragement?

ShyNaughtyGuy13 said:
ICT AMEN BROTHER!
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Funny, I don't see a thread with your name on it...
In fact, I don't see much at all, except some a few cheap shots at someone with an entirely too similar name to your own. Methinks this be a nasty little alt- a placebo meant to relieve a bad case of chronic butt-hurt.
 
ShortChangeHero said:
I don't think this is entirely true. YES it IS considerably harder for men to make a mark because women just aren't vocal in the forum as men are when it comes to photo threads. However, that's usually because most of the guys commenting on women's threads are only hoping for something juicy, and if you look closely you'll see the same names popping up on multiple threads regularly with the same asinine responses. As a guy, no, you're probably not going to get much empty gawking, at least not openly. However, your body type doesn't really matter as long as you are engaging and witty about how you do it.
I speak from experience. Waaaaaaaaay back in another time, in another life, I had my own thread here and while it was never as popular as certain others I could name I rarely left the front page of the AmPics forum. I didn't post anything too risque, and it didn't matter. The regulars I had were there because they liked what I did. They didn't want a dick shot. They wanted something that took some thought and a bit of work to set up. It didn't have to be artistic, but it at least had to look like it wasn't shot with a webcam at 4 am in the middle of a Cheetos and Mt. Dew binge. I also never took it seriously. Come on, man! You're posting Am pics on an internet forum. This isn't Mapplethorpe at the Met- it's a way to have a bit of a laugh and kill some time. Be witty, be funny, BE POLITE. If you post it, they will come- provided you've done it a way that doesn't make you come off as a total douche or a socially maladjusted basement dweller.
I checked your threads- even with a thread of mainly dick pics you had a decent start. People did NOT mind your body- in fact, they asked to see more of it. Maybe give it another chance?
You're never going to have every single organism with a vagina that has a Lit account fighting each other with busted beer bottles to see who gets the last slot in your PM inbox, but you can have an audience of loyal followers. And look at it from the women's perspective too. Which would mean more? Dozens of messages with backhanded compliments that demand to see more than you're willing to show, or a loyal core group who are as much a part of your thread's evolution as you are and who support you with genuine encouragement?



Funny, I don't see a thread with your name on it...
In fact, I don't see much at all, except some a few cheap shots at someone with an entirely too similar name to your own. Methinks this be a nasty little alt- a placebo meant to relieve a bad case of chronic butt-hurt.
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Ict what he said

Iact not all women want a certain type of male body, but we can appreciate wrll shot pictures, and men who know how to interact beyond the typical "male with a boner" attitude
 
ElizaCat22 said:
Thank you Nigel :kiss:
I will try this later, promise!


ICT I'm harboring evil thoughts against my sister. She came out point blank last night saying she will sue me and our siblings to pay her back for our father's funeral home costs. Also, she is acting like I made myself sick just so I could get out of moving prep. Um, no. I HATE being sick. This is the worst sinus infection I have ever had.

IACT my ex is such an ass. Emailing me things that he knows will upset me. I can't cutoff communication that way totally because we still need to file for divorce. I'm trying to ignore the emails but it's difficult. At least he doesn't have my phone#. Thanks *67
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I hope it works.

I confess that I do not know why a death in the family brings out the douchebag in some people. I further confess that I hope you feel better soon, and wonder if you've tried a neti pot....I find them helpful.

I also confess that it took my ex about a year to finally file. Far too long. I hope yours comes to a resolution for you soon. :kiss::rose:
 
ShortChangeHero said:
I don't think this is entirely true. YES it IS considerably harder for men to make a mark because women just aren't vocal in the forum as men are when it comes to photo threads. However, that's usually because most of the guys commenting on women's threads are only hoping for something juicy, and if you look closely you'll see the same names popping up on multiple threads regularly with the same asinine responses. As a guy, no, you're probably not going to get much empty gawking, at least not openly. However, your body type doesn't really matter as long as you are engaging and witty about how you do it.
I speak from experience. Waaaaaaaaay back in another time, in another life, I had my own thread here and while it was never as popular as certain others I could name I rarely left the front page of the AmPics forum. I didn't post anything too risque, and it didn't matter. The regulars I had were there because they liked what I did. They didn't want a dick shot. They wanted something that took some thought and a bit of work to set up. It didn't have to be artistic, but it at least had to look like it wasn't shot with a webcam at 4 am in the middle of a Cheetos and Mt. Dew binge. I also never took it seriously. Come on, man! You're posting Am pics on an internet forum. This isn't Mapplethorpe at the Met- it's a way to have a bit of a laugh and kill some time. Be witty, be funny, BE POLITE
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Need a great big huge like button.

SassySheDevil said:
ICT- Could be very dangerous.. ;)
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Dangerous? Nah... Fun? Mmmmm
 
I confess that I've been a secret funluvinaj fan for awhile - especially her audio stories. It's nice to see her pretty face to be able to connect to her luscious voice. :)
 
ShortChangeHero said:
I don't think this is entirely true. YES it IS considerably harder for men to make a mark because women just aren't vocal in the forum as men are when it comes to photo threads. However, that's usually because most of the guys commenting on women's threads are only hoping for something juicy, and if you look closely you'll see the same names popping up on multiple threads regularly with the same asinine responses. As a guy, no, you're probably not going to get much empty gawking, at least not openly. However, your body type doesn't really matter as long as you are engaging and witty about how you do it.
I speak from experience. Waaaaaaaaay back in another time, in another life, I had my own thread here and while it was never as popular as certain others I could name I rarely left the front page of the AmPics forum. I didn't post anything too risque, and it didn't matter. The regulars I had were there because they liked what I did. They didn't want a dick shot. They wanted something that took some thought and a bit of work to set up. It didn't have to be artistic, but it at least had to look like it wasn't shot with a webcam at 4 am in the middle of a Cheetos and Mt. Dew binge. I also never took it seriously. Come on, man! You're posting Am pics on an internet forum. This isn't Mapplethorpe at the Met- it's a way to have a bit of a laugh and kill some time. Be witty, be funny, BE POLITE. If you post it, they will come- provided you've done it a way that doesn't make you come off as a total douche or a socially maladjusted basement dweller.
I checked your threads- even with a thread of mainly dick pics you had a decent start. People did NOT mind your body- in fact, they asked to see more of it. Maybe give it another chance?
You're never going to have every single organism with a vagina that has a Lit account fighting each other with busted beer bottles to see who gets the last slot in your PM inbox, but you can have an audience of loyal followers. And look at it from the women's perspective too. Which would mean more? Dozens of messages with backhanded compliments that demand to see more than you're willing to show, or a loyal core group who are as much a part of your thread's evolution as you are and who support you with genuine encouragement?
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Very well said, I might add that it takes a bit of thick skin to do an AmPic thread, nothing can be taken to heart, I know myself, my skin isn't that thick...plus I am too chicken anymore.:)
 
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