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funluvinaj said:
Pffft... As if.... Would love to have you in a threesome or foursome! ;)
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:D I will remember that when I come to visit my family :D:D

funluvinaj said:
ICT I don't think you meant what you wrote in your last one... She being the 2nd woman better than SSD? I think not. :D
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Yes, that's what I meant.. Her better then me. Man that girl could deep throat!! But I've been practicing!! :eek:
 
ICT for some strange reason I keep thinking about my ex girlfriend...
 
ICT I hate to do the things that have to be done when they need to be done.
 
ElizaCat22 said:
ICT i was feeling so desperate for human interaction last night i called my abusive ex. And we talked for about a hour. And it made me miss him more.

ICT having no friends sucks, no one even tried calling to see if i was ok after i told people i was sick
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ICT you should have called me.
IACT I always have time for you
IACT you're more important to me than you realize :rose:
 
ICT I'm seriously thinking of suppressing my submissive side deep where I can try to forgot I'm like that.
ICT it's touture having cravings to submit to a caring understanding dominant woman knowing that I'll likely never meet one, so I have to come up with a way of managing myself so I can have some resemblance of a normal life.
 
ICT- when I make confessions like the one I made above I lose a bit more of my self esteem
 
ShyNaughtyGirl said:
I confess that as much as I go on and on (and yes I realize how annoying I can be) about how much I want someone in my life and how lonely I am...deep down I am terrified of letting anyone in, of loving someone or even having someone love me. Because where there is love there is inevitably hurt and every time I open up and love, it seems hurt follows right behind it. I don't want to be hurt anymore, and I don't want to hurt anyone else by proxy because of how screwed up I am.
It's not a good feeling



Ok, that's my pitiful self-loathing post for the day.



P.s if anyone should feel the need to respond to this post, please have the balls to do so by a pm to me personally and not by some thinly veiled contemptuous post here or elsewhere.
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I will respond to you directly, here.

You are a beautiful woman. There's no denying that. You have MANY men swooning over you and your beauty. You have men who have shown that they are willing to give you love and friendship. BUT you give them a slap in the face EVERY TIME you complain about not having any attention; you have no one that loves you; etc.

You mention that you want someone to love you, but every time you open yourself to love, you get hurt. I am sorry that you get hurt. It sucks. It sucks when you give your all to someone and it's not returned or acknowledged or appreciated. I know...trust me..I know.

The journey to finding love is not always easy. It can be very bumpy. But once you find THE ONE, you will look back and realize every relationship, every love, everything that you went through...it was to prepare you for THE ONE.

Sometimes, one needs to step back. Look at themselves in the mirror and ask themselves, "What can I do differently so I don't keep finding myself in these situations?" It's not fun. I've been there, done that. It sucks.

I am one of those people that is a firm believer of "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, accept it until you can change it."

You can change the way you go into relationships. You can change the way you handle yourself. In the end, you are responsible for you.

The other person is not responsible for making you happy. You are. The other person is not responsible for knowing what you want....you are. If you don't know what you want, how the heck is the other person supposed to?

My advice...though it will probably not be taken...is to step back and re-evaluate yourself. Once you've figured out what YOU want, don't settle just because a guy pays attention to you.

I will say again...you are a beautiful woman. I would even go as far to say you are probably an intelligent one too! Own yourself. Be confident in yourself.

It's okay to be imperfect...but it's not okay to not do anything to change the things that are changeable...if you're not happy!!!!!
 
That sounds fair enough too in a way. Though don't think she was being specific

ICT that there's a lot of depth in that post SSG and most of us could take something from it if we look at it hard enough.
 
ShyNaughtyGirl said:
While I appreciate you trying to help and being nice. I know who you are referring to when you talk about someone willing to offer me love and friendship and it bothers me to no end that you think you know anything at all about how he an I work. It's a slap in the face when I talk about being lonely? He's freaking married, off the market, unavailable to me. So yeah my feelings for him remain more platonic than anything else because there is absolutely no point in anything more. It is possible to love someone and care deeply about them without it havig to look like everyone else thinks it should.
My wants are for something real, in the flesh, in my area, in my age group. And yes your advice does have merit and I agree with it. But lit is an outlet to vent and feel wanted and express longing when real life falls miserably short of your desire.
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I agree, I do not know the ins and outs of your relationship with that certain litster.

I will say this though:

Just because this is "online" doesn't make it okay to constantly whine and complain every day. Like I said...If you're not happy with something...make a change...or accept it until you can change it. That means....stop whining. stop complaining. You get nothing when you do that...and what you portray here is that you are a whiner...a complainer...and you know what? That very well may not be true.

But I am a firm believer in that what you put out...you get back. You put forth negativity...you will get it back.

I am not going to argue with you. But I am telling you...as an outsider looking in...what it looks like.

I hope you find your happiness.
 
sunshinegirl05 said:
I will respond to you directly, here.

You are a beautiful woman. There's no denying that. You have MANY men swooning over you and your beauty. You have men who have shown that they are willing to give you love and friendship. BUT you give them a slap in the face EVERY TIME you complain about not having any attention; you have no one that loves you; etc.

You mention that you want someone to love you, but every time you open yourself to love, you get hurt. I am sorry that you get hurt. It sucks. It sucks when you give your all to someone and it's not returned or acknowledged or appreciated. I know...trust me..I know.

The journey to finding love is not always easy. It can be very bumpy. But once you find THE ONE, you will look back and realize every relationship, every love, everything that you went through...it was to prepare you for THE ONE.

Sometimes, one needs to step back. Look at themselves in the mirror and ask themselves, "What can I do differently so I don't keep finding myself in these situations?" It's not fun. I've been there, done that. It sucks.

I am one of those people that is a firm believer of "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, accept it until you can change it."

You can change the way you go into relationships. You can change the way you handle yourself. In the end, you are responsible for you.

The other person is not responsible for making you happy. You are. The other person is not responsible for knowing what you want....you are. If you don't know what you want, how the heck is the other person supposed to?

My advice...though it will probably not be taken...is to step back and re-evaluate yourself. Once you've figured out what YOU want, don't settle just because a guy pays attention to you.

I will say again...you are a beautiful woman. I would even go as far to say you are probably an intelligent one too! Own yourself. Be confident in yourself.

It's okay to be imperfect...but it's not okay to not do anything to change the things that are changeable...if you're not happy!!!!!
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ICT while the conversation that you both had is not my business this is the area where it caught my attention: Sometimes, one needs to step back. Look at themselves in the mirror and ask themselves, "What can I do differently so I don't keep finding myself in these situations?" It's not fun. I've been there, done that. It sucks.

I am one of those people that is a firm believer of "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, accept it until you can change it."

You can change the way you go into relationships. You can change the way you handle yourself. In the end, you are responsible for you.

The other person is not responsible for making you happy. You are. The other person is not responsible for knowing what you want....you are. If you don't know what you want, how the heck is the other person supposed to?

My advice...though it will probably not be taken...is to step back and re-evaluate yourself. Once you've figured out what YOU want, don't settle just because a guy pays attention to you.

The reason that it that it caught my attention is because is could be applied to ANYONE myself included. There are lots of times that I doubt myself and have very bad days. I hate being a single mom with no one to help me, and sometimes I thought that needed a guy in my life to help me. While I have come to realize is that I don't need one I want one and that is two different things. Yes up until recently I thought that I had to settle for a guy, because I knew that no one else would have me. However, I took and re-evaluated my life and I know I don't have to settle. So I just want to say thank you for posting this part of your conversation, because I need to do this a lot more in my life.
 
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ICT the orgasm that I had yesterday while masturbating on the floor. A quickie.... Seriously... Was the most intense orgasm for quite some time. No for play, just rubbing and grinding. So badly want my third for today. Right now
 
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