Confessions: What are yours? Part V

[lil_jenni]

ICT seems a little off to me.

The first thing I wonder is what color is her hair and skin in order to try and figure out if she made the comment out of guilt, or envy, or accusation.

If someone I knew but hadn't seen in awhile came up to me at a store after I dyed my hair red (or blonde, or blue, or whatever) and told me it made me look less like the immigrant poster family I might have laughed it off too at first but then wondered the exact same thing you are. Is that how people really see me?

If I were you I would try to reach out to that woman and get some clarification. But maybe that's just me being confrontational idk.

Yeah, Hubby had the same thoughts and suggestion.

She's of Polish descent, which I know because I have some Polish ancestry on my dad's side and we talked about it before. She's kind of an edgy person and tends to say whatever pops into her head when she's not in a situation where she thinks she needs to filter. It was probably just that.

ICT I'm still trying to decide whether to talk to her about it. Hubby thinks I should, but he is very comfortable with confronting people, and he can do it in a way that does not seem at all confrontational. I'm not good at it.

 

[SmartIsSexy64]

Yeah, Hubby had the same thoughts and suggestion.

She's of Polish descent, which I know because I have some Polish ancestry on my dad's side and we talked about it before. She's kind of an edgy person and tends to say whatever pops into her head when she's not in a situation where she thinks she needs to filter. It was probably just that.

ICT I'm still trying to decide whether to talk to her about it. Hubby thinks I should, but he is very comfortable with confronting people, and he can do it in a way that does not seem at all confrontational. I'm not good at it.

Possibly just a dissenting voice, but I wouldn't confront her. In my opinion, you are unlikely to get an answer that satisfies you and you will wind up frustrated, angry or both.
If this person can be avoided just do that. If anything similar happens again, then confront it right then.
This advice is worth everything you paid for it.

 

[Chillygirl]

ICT I’ve spent the last 24 hours telling myself not to take it personally and let it go.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

ICT I’ve spent the last 24 hours telling myself not to take it personally and let it go.

ICT This gets to me. Don't let yourself take on issues from other people, you deserve better

IACT writing has opened my eyes again to how hurtful someone's words can be.

IFCT I know I can be a better person and every day I grow, learn and experience. Even if he isn't here beside me.

 

[Micio_Lambire]

ICT I was greedy this morning.

 

[ShaneoD]

ICT there is a certain user that I always enjoy seeing post, even though I don't interact with them too often.

 

[Chillygirl]

ICT I was feeling pretty confident about something but now I’m having doubts.

 

[Leigh81]

ICT the positives heavily outweigh the negatives

 

[mr_d_w]

ICT since I showed my cat youtube videos of birds, she just sits and watches everything and anything.
My cat is a couch potato.

 

[Leigh81]

ICT I felt something I haven't felt in awhile as subtle as it was

 

[Chillygirl]

ICT I am overwhelmed with memories from last year...totally unexpected.

 

[FunLi]

ICT Friendsgiving was so much better than being surrounded by my never happy and always gossiping in-laws.

IACT I’m super thankful and proud of the other half for not subjecting us to that this year

 

[SinfuIDreams]

ICT the freedom I have in writing is uplifting, to be able to write as different women and still feel that deep connection frees my heart.

IACT the connection I feel to someone else who flows with the way my mind works also brings me freedom.

IFCT I get lost in a decent story, so lost planning the next directional change in my mind I nearly became lost driving in real life.

 

[Mtnmike]

ICT: I woke up so Horny, even the Crack of Dawn looked good.

 

[JerseyJade]

ICT cartoon porn isn't my thing either.

 

[SmartIsSexy64]

ICT that after a week away, there are a couple of faces I missed

 

[cheekygirl75]

ICT when it gets dark at 4:30, I start thinking of going to bed immediately after supper, even if that's 7 pm

 

[Chillygirl]

ICT I hate it when I give in and ask questions I know I don’t want the answers to.

 

[ian370]

ICT I hate it when I give in and ask questions I know I don’t want the answers to.

ICT sometimes, that not knowing though can be the biggest challenge of all.

This is especially true for me if it involves any specific communication with someone else. Not with the allure of being spontaneous in general.

It's something I am working on.

Because, maybe some questions don't need an immediate answer.

 

[Chillygirl]

ICT sometimes, that not knowing though can be the biggest challenge of all.

This is especially true for me if it involves any specific communication with someone else. Not with the allure of being spontaneous in general.

It's something I am working on.

Because, maybe some questions don't need an immediate answer.

ICT most times I know the answer but I’d rather stick my head in the sand and ignore reality.

But maybe some situations don’t need immediate resolutions...

 

[ian370]

ICT most times I know the answer but I’d rather stick my head in the sand and ignore reality.

But maybe some situations don’t need immediate resolutions...

ICT sometimes a slight break from reality may be exactly what the doctor ordered.

Not that I am a doctor, of course. Nor, do I play one on TV.

ICT being a rather intense soul, it's hard for me to be reactive as my bodily instinct is much more proactive.

 

[lil_jenni]

ICT Hubby, the Kiddo, and I went to his parents' house for Thanksgiving. We flew there, which was horrible. I never want to fly over Thanksgiving again.

IACT being with my in-laws is never fun for me, so Hubby and I got a hotel room Friday night for some alone time. But I talked him into taking me out to a strip club.

IACT we got several lap dances from the same dancer. She let me feel her fake boobs because I told her I had thought about getting implants. She even gave Hubby a feel after I told her he'd never felt implants before.

IACT I flat out asked her to come back to our hotel with us right in front of Hubby. I think he wanted that too. But she turned us down, which I pretty much expected. She said she could hook us up with another dancer who would do it for money, but I didn't want that and I knew Hubby would never go for it.

IFCT when Hubby and I got back to our room, we discussed at length what could have been while we fucked. At this point, all I've got to do is find the right woman and a threesome is pretty much a done deal.

 

[Youroldscotsman]

I confess I do miss this place and might indulge in getting the kilt on again despite the scars and trauma suffered over the last couple of years.....

 

[AngelicaS1780]

I confess I do miss this place and might indulge in getting the kilt on again despite the scars and trauma suffered over the last couple of years.....

ICT this would make me pretty darn happy.

 

[EnigmaSquared]

ICT even after all these years, whenever I sign on, you're immediately the first person I think of, and I always feel a twinge of sadness. And regret.