Confessions: What are yours? Part V

ICT I try not to give too much of a fuck what people think of me. It doesn't always work but I acknowledge to myself that I can only control MY thinking and so life goes on. *shrugs*

IACT I'm liking the video thing I've been doin lately. Gotta switch shit up sometimes.

IFCT I wish the kids were all gone today so I could do a naughty at home video.

Bonus: If wishes were horses then even beggars would ride.
 
A few weeks ago my boyfriend hired an under qualified 25 year old with tits larger than my head to work with him. She also was very very familiar with him when I dropped by a happy hour their office was having (yes he knew I was coming, I’m not stalking anyone)

I’ve been annoyed with him since

Then I saw a mouse in my basement this past weekend and realized I couldn’t go back to dealing with that kind of thing on my own

ICT I’ve blown him three times in the last two days and if he actually bring traps home from work today it’ll be four times

Let him stare at some huge tits, I never want to deal with a rodent again

Knowing your priorities and dealbreakers is essential to a healthy long term relationship (says the guy with two failed marriages, but still . . . ) :D
 
ICT sometimes I look at comments from people I have on ignore... and then I remember why I have them on ignore. Why do I expect their behavior to change? Hope never dies, but get used to disappointment. lol

Cant say i have any people on ignore. I hope im not on anyone's ignore list !!! Dont want that !! But try to reach out to people and chat but sometimes you just dont get anything in return. You get tired of being the one to reach out in life.
 
ICT thinking about breaking up due to our booooring sex life
IACT having a fling with someone since several weeks where I can give and get exactly those things I am not allowed to in my current relationship

yep, I know ... I'm morally fucked up :(

ICT ... I did it! :nana:

Today I finally told her that I'm fed up with our non-existent sex life and the whole relationship. That I am going to get and do what I want and need somewhere else and with someone else.

OH. MY. GOD. it feels wonderful!!!

Thx to SinfulDreams who gave me much-needed reassurance :rose:
 
ICT ... I did it! :nana:

Today I finally told her that I'm fed up with our non-existent sex life and the whole relationship. That I am going to get and do what I want and need somewhere else and with someone else.

OH. MY. GOD. it feels wonderful!!!

Thx to SinfulDreams who gave me much-needed reassurance :rose:

Congratulations! I don’t see why so many people stay in unhappy relationships, honestly. People don’t want to hurt the person they’re with, so they say, but I would be more hurt to be with someone who secretly didn’t want to be with me… and I feel like that stuff always comes out.
 
ICT that I had no idea where else to post this

IACT I know this isn't the place to do this, but I just found out a friend of 30 years took his own life last night and I have no fucking clue how to process that.
 
Do you have a mutual friend to your friend that passed that you can reach out to?

I'm actually talking with his son (who is in his 30's). I'm trying to focus on them right now, which actually helps. I thank you for your thoughts and I'll probably take your advice.
 
ICT that I had no idea where else to post this

IACT I know this isn't the place to do this, but I just found out a friend of 30 years took his own life last night and I have no fucking clue how to process that.

I'm sorry to hear about your friend. My cousin, who was like a big sister to me, took her own life more than ten years ago. I still can't process it if I start thinking about it. I don't think that'll ever change, but over the years I think about it less and less. So hugs and sympathies. I wish I knew something better to say.
 
I'm sorry to hear about your friend. My cousin, who was like a big sister to me, took her own life more than ten years ago. I still can't process it if I start thinking about it. I don't think that'll ever change, but over the years I think about it less and less. So hugs and sympathies. I wish I knew something better to say.

Taking the time to acknowledge this and share your experience is more than enough. Thank you
 
ICT that I had no idea where else to post this

IACT I know this isn't the place to do this, but I just found out a friend of 30 years took his own life last night and I have no fucking clue how to process that.

I am really sorry and my thoughts are with you :rose:

As hard as it may sound, but if there wasn't any personal explanation from your friend (note, letter, video, whatever ...), please don't try to understand it. Just accept it and appreciate the memories you have.

This I can tell you out of personal experience: I have lost a good friend that way and (quite some time ago) I made a suicide attempt myself.
Nobody can reenact what is going through someones mind in this stage and which reasons lead to this final step, so any attempt to comprehend it causes just more pain.

sending you a big hug!
 
I am really sorry and my thoughts are with you :rose:

As hard as it may sound, but if there wasn't any personal explanation from your friend (note, letter, video, whatever ...), please don't try to understand it. Just accept it and appreciate the memories you have.

This I can tell you out of personal experience: I have lost a good friend that way and (quite some time ago) I made a suicide attempt myself.
Nobody can reenact what is going through someones mind in this stage and which reasons lead to this final step, so any attempt to comprehend it causes just more pain.

sending you a big hug!

You hug is appreciated.
 
ICT ... I did it! :nana:

Today I finally told her that I'm fed up with our non-existent sex life and the whole relationship. That I am going to get and do what I want and need somewhere else and with someone else.

OH. MY. GOD. it feels wonderful!!!

Thx to SinfulDreams who gave me much-needed reassurance :rose:

I am glad this worked out well for you and that you are happy with the choice you made. Sometimes getting it over and done with is the best decision.

Absolutely no reason to thank me you did it for yourself!
:kiss:
 
ICT that I had no idea where else to post this

IACT I know this isn't the place to do this, but I just found out a friend of 30 years took his own life last night and I have no fucking clue how to process that.

I am very sorry for your loss.
Hopefully you have a wonderful support network you can talk to when you feel ready. :rose:
 
ICT I thought that people on the GB would respect a thread about grief. It takes a special kind of damned asshole to see that people are hurting and still post garbage. And by damned I mean they better watch out because karma is going to be beating their ass.

No, there are many people over there who take great pride in being total assholes. They do it for sport, for fun.
 
ICT I thought that people on the GB would respect a thread about grief. It takes a special kind of damned asshole to see that people are hurting and still post garbage. And by damned I mean they better watch out because karma is going to be beating their ass.

I'm sorry about that. Sadly most people are trash. There are still some respectful people out there!
 
I’m sorry, Mooch. I don’t know what’s wrong, but I hope things go better, soon. :heart:

Thank you, Fara. Nothing as serious as many who have posted here recently, but it’s been rough and my heart aches. Best not to ever cry at work, so I mitigate where I can. 🌷
 
No, there are many people over there who take great pride in being total assholes. They do it for sport, for fun.

U should go over there an superpower that bitch ……make them be good


Your the bad witch ain’t U
 
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