Confessions: What Are Yours? Part IV

[SassySheDevil]

ICT I am not sure what to think about something.

IACT for Christmas I gave Hubby a custom made naughty coupon book. It had to be custom because all the ones I found to purchase were mostly for things I already am willing to do but are not what Hubby would be most interested in. So, the coupons are for things like romantic evenings; slow, sensual love making; letting him pamper me; stuff like that. And yeah, there are some BJ and cock worship coupons too, but he gets those anyway, so those coupons are just for him to let me know what he wants and when he wants it.

IACT at the back of the book are some, um, naughtier ones, things we've done but maybe were a bit too extreme for Hubby but that I thought he might want to consider again if the mood strikes, like ATM (did it once with him and it bothered him), licking cum off the floor or other surfaces (I've done this a few times with him, but it's kind of a guilty turn on for him); drinking cum from a glass (same deal as licking it up); and forced-sex roll play (we do it, but he's not nearly as into it as I am).

IACT the last two are... different. The second to last is for a two-girl BJ, and the last is for a FFM threesome.

IACT Hubby said nothing... nothing... about the last two. I know he read through the coupon book because he gave me a kind of exasperated eye roll with the naughtier ones. Then his face went blank and he said nothing, just closed the book and thanked me. I have no idea what he was thinking, and I don't know what to think now. We've fantasized during sex, talking about what it would be like to have another woman with us, but he's never even discussed making that really happen. I've always thought it was because he was worried about how I would handle it and that maybe he just needed a little push to know it really, really is something I'm not only okay with, but something I want for him and for me. Now I'm not sure.

IFCT he used one of the slow love making ones last night to celebrate the new year, so I know he's not upset with me. I just wish I knew what he is thinking about the two threesome ones.

My advice. Ask. Marriage is about communication.

 

[bigwoody8]

ICT I am not sure what to think about something.

IACT for Christmas I gave Hubby a custom made naughty coupon book. It had to be custom because all the ones I found to purchase were mostly for things I already am willing to do but are not what Hubby would be most interested in. So, the coupons are for things like romantic evenings; slow, sensual love making; letting him pamper me; stuff like that. And yeah, there are some BJ and cock worship coupons too, but he gets those anyway, so those coupons are just for him to let me know what he wants and when he wants it.

IACT at the back of the book are some, um, naughtier ones, things we've done but maybe were a bit too extreme for Hubby but that I thought he might want to consider again if the mood strikes, like ATM (did it once with him and it bothered him), licking cum off the floor or other surfaces (I've done this a few times with him, but it's kind of a guilty turn on for him); drinking cum from a glass (same deal as licking it up); and forced-sex roll play (we do it, but he's not nearly as into it as I am).

IACT the last two are... different. The second to last is for a two-girl BJ, and the last is for a FFM threesome.

IACT Hubby said nothing... nothing... about the last two. I know he read through the coupon book because he gave me a kind of exasperated eye roll with the naughtier ones. Then his face went blank and he said nothing, just closed the book and thanked me. I have no idea what he was thinking, and I don't know what to think now. We've fantasized during sex, talking about what it would be like to have another woman with us, but he's never even discussed making that really happen. I've always thought it was because he was worried about how I would handle it and that maybe he just needed a little push to know it really, really is something I'm not only okay with, but something I want for him and for me. Now I'm not sure.

IFCT he used one of the slow love making ones last night to celebrate the new year, so I know he's not upset with me. I just wish I knew what he is thinking about the two threesome ones.

Yeah, just ask him.

Do you have a woman in mind? Do you think he has a woman in mind?
What if your taste in women is completely different?

 

[planetbeat_]

ICT I need to improve my communication skills and PM people more....I have just got lazy of late and there are no excuses for laziness.

 

[lil_jenni]

My advice. Ask. Marriage is about communication.

Yeah, normally I would. The first time we were together, I kept a lot of stuff in because I didn't want to scare him away. But that was not good and led to me acting in a way that broke us up. Since we got back together and got married, I've been very open with him about my past (not blow by blow (pun intended ) details, but the big picture), my feelings, my wants and needs, all that stuff. Except this one thing.

I started talking about it as a fantasy during sex. I sometimes point out women I think are hot. But I cannot move further, because I can just tell it is one of those things he thinks would be bad for my mental health. Or I think I can tell that. I guess I don't know that for sure.

So, ICT I included the coupons thinking he might ask me about them, but that hasn't worked. And besides, I know it was kinda cowardly, trying to shift the responsibility to him. I need to talk to him.

Yeah, just ask him.

Do you have a woman in mind? Do you think he has a woman in mind?
What if your taste in women is completely different?

ICT I did, but that whole thing's not very likely anymore because something she did pissed Hubby off, and I don't think even if a FFM threesome is something he does want to do that he'd consider her.

IACT I do have a friend from college who has hinted about it because she thinks my Hubby is hot, but I'm not sure I like that idea. I'm afraid it would turn into a competition, and I do not want that.

IFCT that I Hubby likes more petite women, like me. But I tend to like women taller and more well endowed than me. But, I'd go with who he liked if we ever do it.

 

[hot_hunny_bunny]

I confess today I pissed an played with my vibrator in a layby and videos it posting on x hamster. Then on my return journey. Left my knickers in a layby hoping someone finds them and wanks

 

[spawnofdavey]

I confess today I pissed an played with my vibrator in a layby and videos it posting on x hamster. Then on my return journey. Left my knickers in a layby hoping someone finds them and wanks

Oh really? I don't suppose a link is available?

 

[Followmenow6969_2]

Oh really? I don't suppose a link is available?

Truely..... Xham is my go to site

 

[CandK_inSE]

Yeah, normally I would. The first time we were together, I kept a lot of stuff in because I didn't want to scare him away. But that was not good and led to me acting in a way that broke us up. Since we got back together and got married, I've been very open with him about my past (not blow by blow (pun intended ) details, but the big picture), my feelings, my wants and needs, all that stuff. Except this one thing.

I started talking about it as a fantasy during sex. I sometimes point out women I think are hot. But I cannot move further, because I can just tell it is one of those things he thinks would be bad for my mental health. Or I think I can tell that. I guess I don't know that for sure.

So, ICT I included the coupons thinking he might ask me about them, but that hasn't worked. And besides, I know it was kinda cowardly, trying to shift the responsibility to him. I need to talk to him.



ICT I did, but that whole thing's not very likely anymore because something she did pissed Hubby off, and I don't think even if a FFM threesome is something he does want to do that he'd consider her.

IACT I do have a friend from college who has hinted about it because she thinks my Hubby is hot, but I'm not sure I like that idea. I'm afraid it would turn into a competition, and I do not want that.

IFCT that I Hubby likes more petite women, like me. But I tend to like women taller and more well endowed than me. But, I'd go with who he liked if we ever do it.

I've read some of this, and I'll agree with you needing to communicate with him.

My ultimate fantasy is to see my wife with another woman. It won't happen because she's not into girls sexually.

HOWEVER, if by some chance, she ever gave me a "coupon" saying you can see me with another girl, I probably wouldn't exactly immediately get excited because I'd think something was wrong. I'd be concerned about her, and we'd need to discuss everything.

 

[BeautifulBlueSky218]

My attraction towards woman will always be there. I have come to realize this, I may never get a full on experience with a woman before but I think about it a lot. It arouses me anytime it comes to my mind.

 

[Mtnmike]

My attraction towards woman will always be there. I have come to realize this, I may never get a full on experience with a woman before but I think about it a lot. It arouses me anytime it comes to my mind.

Nothing wrong with that if that's what makes you happy. Never say Never.

 

[hot_hunny_bunny]

Oh really? I don't suppose a link is available?

Sent you pm

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I confess today I pissed an played with my vibrator in a layby and videos it posting on x hamster. Then on my return journey. Left my knickers in a layby hoping someone finds them and wanks

You are red hot!!!!

 

[hot_hunny_bunny]

You are red hot!!!!

No just naughty lol

 

[EndlessNameless]

No just naughty lol

hmm, maybe you should be naughty_hunny_bunny?

 

[xSleepingBeauty]

ICT Hm...

 

[hot_hunny_bunny]

hmm, maybe you should be naughty_hunny_bunny?

Maybe I should be lol

 

[EndlessNameless]

ICT I am looking for a really fast way to make cash. Where can you sell pics and stuff? Hm...

I know I've seen some around but can't think of many names at the moment. A search should turn up a bunch.

Maybe I should be lol

Naughty and hot. Sounds perfect to me.

 

[LikeableMe]

ICT I’ve always found it difficult not to be anxious if I’m not on point. Something such as running late would stress me out

IACT a new health condition has forced me to learn to chill out. Yesterday I was running late, and I reminded myself “I will get there when I get there. There will be no disasters without me”

IFCT it’s kinda sad that it’s taken a pretty serious health issue to bring about this change, but that no matter what has caused this - it’s an extremely useful life lesson

 

[hot_hunny_bunny]

I confess I am having naughty fun and have guys wanting the link to my earlier post lol


I'm such a horny bunny

 

[spawnofdavey]

I confess I am having naughty fun and have guys wanting the link to my earlier post lol


I'm such a horny bunny

Damn right.... And why not have fun?

 

[hot_hunny_bunny]

Damn right.... And why not have fun?

Hope you enjoyed

 

[spawnofdavey]

Hope you enjoyed

Oh yes.

 

[Porkwarrior]

ICT I never log onto Lit these days when my blood alcohol level is below the minimum to drive. Even on Monday mornings (woohoo extended holiday day drunk!)

IACT I lived above three nurses for a year, that was enough to extinguish any nurse fetish I might have had. Happiest people in a hospital work in the morgue, less complaints.

 

[ShyGuy68]

I confess today I pissed an played with my vibrator in a layby and videos it posting on x hamster. Then on my return journey. Left my knickers in a layby hoping someone finds them and wanks

I so wish I could watch that video! I like it when a woman share herself in videos

 

[lil_jenni]

ICT I am home today with my sick kiddo.

IACT Hubby and I have not talked about the threesome thing because I'm waiting for a good time to bring it up. It is kinda eating at me some since he stil has not acknowledgef that inclusion in the coupon book I gave him.

IFCT he did use a cock worship coupon last night, but that was interrupted by the aforementioned sick kiddo (I have been awake off and on most of the night and then since early this morning ). I gave Hubby a quick BJ in the shower this morning to make up for that and promised more for tonight if sick kiddo allows.