**Confessions of a Wife**

One of the hardest things to deal with is that whatever moral code we start with it almost inevitably changes over time. Over the years I have had to get used to my wife's adjustments although it is fair to say that by the time I found out about her activities her code was radically different. At least I think it was because the one thing we can never really assess is whether the moral code has changed or if the true and hidden code has been allowed to the surface. Our neighbours ex wife has told me a great deal about how my wife became gradually more and more interested in her husband. She admitted that she egged her on to an extent by letting drop hints about him but she did not expect to have unleashed quite what she did. So the apparently innocent and shy woman of the early 80s has become the very much less shy and widely experienced 68 year old today. Known by name in at least three venues in Kent and extremely popular. So popular that I have had to find my own entertainment as I stopped risking sex with her in 2010. We live in a very much wilder world than many want to admit.
as an update I find she has also been seeing to our son in law since before he married our daughter and that she knows about it and has no objection. Looks like the family genes are heavily oriented one way.
 
Known by name in at least three venues in Kent and extremely popular. So popular that I have had to find my own entertainment as I stopped risking sex with her in 2010. We live in a very much wilder world than many want to admit.
My great grandparents came to the US in 1923. They were from Kent. I still have distant relatives there.
You no longer have sex with your wife but are you still with her? When you say "risking sex" with her is it due to risk of disease?
 
My great grandparents came to the US in 1923. They were from Kent. I still have distant relatives there.
You no longer have sex with your wife but are you still with her? When you say "risking sex" with her is it due to risk of disease?
Yes of course. Plus of course given at least two of her special friends I would probbaly not even begin to satisfy her any more but disease is the main reason
 
( I should state that I am not looking to meet anyone. I'm sorry, however, I must state this as I've had some PMs asking to meet.

That's not what I'm here for. So I will answer the question that will come...What am I here for?

As, I said, I'm looking for a home for this new life I have acquired. I always thought I would marry the man of my dreams and live happily ever after. Life doesn't work that way for many people.

I thought cheating was horrible, the worst thing anyone could do. However, one moment of weakness has proved I'm Human.

I went through all the emotions after, regret, guilt, self loathing. But, the feelings I felt overriding then..... excitement , desire, lust. . . . Is too powerful.

I am not looking to cheat again. I must make that clear. However, it's awoken something deep inside me that I can't quieten.

Hence, I'm here...maybe to make sense of this all. )
I wish you the strength to forgive yourself. Yes, you are human and to be human is to accept you’re not perfect. None of us are. Please don’t beat yourself up too badly for one moment of weakness. This space can give you the support to get your feelings off your chest. It can also aid you in pleasuring yourself without the fear of emotional attachments.
 
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