**Confessions of a Wife**

[Malbec_Girl]

Good evening,

About me:
Age 31
Married for 8 years
From UK


About my life:
Married but unhappy. I have been unhappy for about 2 years now. I love my husband of course, however, we don't have the same relationship we used to.

I have been looking for a home of sorts online. This is the 3rd site today. I will see which site is best for me as I don't have any interest in juggling multiple sites.

What's going on in my life:
For the first time I cheated on my husband

Saturday 23rd.
Christmas party.

We went to a place where multiple groups seem to be having a late Christmas party. Probably because it fell on a weekend.

About 30 mins into the evening, I noticed a guy to my left about 20 feet away. He was in a large group of guys who. I noticed him because as the group as loud, he was the only one who was quiet. He was sipping on a glass of red wine, and I noticed him glancing over at me.


I looked away pretty sharpish and continued my night.

As the evening wore on and the drinks flowed, periodically I noticed him glancing over at me, the glances becoming longer and more lingering, I must admit, on both sides.

For the first time in ages, I felt something in the pit of my stomach. A feeling of raw attraction.

He was dressed in black Chinos and a light blue smart dress shirt, a sliver watch was glimmering in the light as he picked up his drink, looking at me.

As the night wore on, the glances turned to looks to staring. Then it happened, he smile at me.

My god, at the moment, I had to gather myself. I looked away without smiling back.

I resisted the urge to look at him again. I needed the bathroom.


I got up and made my way up the stairs of the venue towards the bathrooms. As I approached the door, I heard footsteps behind me. I instinctively, held the door open, as you do, I looked back. It was him,. He smiled again. I looked back as quick as I could.


The hallway was long, it seemed like forever but I made it to the bathroom. My heart was pounding, and more so, I was soaking wet. I shook my head as I looked at myself in the mirror, trying to compose myself.

I cleaned up. I was good. I made my way to the exist, he was standing in the hallway.


My heart started beating again. As I had to walk past him I heard him say excuse me.

I stopped and he asked me if I was having a good night. I replied politely, trying not to make eye contact with him.

As I opened the door, he asked my name. I turned around and said I was married. And walked out the door as fast as I could.


My knickers were getting wet again. I couldn't believe what was happening. ...

 

[Elypep1980]

Well that is a lovely turn of events

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Please continue.

 

[spectre128]

Terrific start to the story

 

[Malbec_Girl]

( I should state that I am not looking to meet anyone. I'm sorry, however I must state this as I've had some PMs asking to meet.

That's not what I'm here for. So I will answer the question that will come...What am I here for?

As, I said, I'm looking for a home for this new life I have acquired. I always thought I would marry the man of my dreams and live happily ever after. Life doesn't work that way for many people.

I thought cheating was horrible, the worst thing anyone could do. However, one moment of weakness has proved I'm Human.

I went through all the emotions after, regret, guilt, self loathing. But, the feelings I felt overriding then..... excitement , desire, lust. . . . Is too powerful.

I am not looking to cheat again. I must make that clear. However, it's awoken something deep inside me that I can't quieten.

Hence, I'm here...maybe to make sense of this all. )

 

[Hornyhusband2017]

I don't see how any of that was cheating. Yes another man made you wet but you didn't touch him right? My wife would agree that's not cheating. Other men have made her wet and she came home and we fucked. Of course every one has their own opinion on what's cheating and what's not.

 

[crashD]

Good evening,

About me:
Age 31
Married for 8 years
From UK


About my life:
Married but unhappy. I have been unhappy for about 2 years now. I love my husband of course, however, we don't have the same relationship we used to.

I have been looking for a home of sorts online. This is the 3rd site today. I will see which site is best for me as I don't have any interest in juggling multiple sites.

What's going on in my life:
For the first time I cheated on my husband

Saturday 23rd.
Christmas party.

We went to a place where multiple groups seem to be having a late Christmas party. Probably because it fell on a weekend.

About 30 mins into the evening, I noticed a guy to my left about 20 feet away. He was in a large group of guys who. I noticed him because as the group as loud, he was the only one who was quiet. He was sipping on a glass of red wine, and I noticed him glancing over at me.


I looked away pretty sharpish and continued my night.

As the evening wore on and the drinks flowed, periodically I noticed him glancing over at me, the glances becoming longer and more lingering, I must admit, on both sides.

For the first time in ages, I felt something in the pit of my stomach. A feeling of raw attraction.

He was dressed in black Chinos and a light blue smart dress, a sliver watch was glimmering in the light as he picked up his drink, looking at me.

As the night wore on, the glances turned to looks to staring. Then it happened, he smile at me.

My god, at the moment, I had to gather myself. I looked away without smiling back.

I resisted the urge to look at him again. I needed the bathroom.


I got up and made my way up the stairs of the venue towards the bathrooms. As I approached the door, I heard footsteps behind me. I instinctively, held the door open, as you do, I looked back. It was him,. He smiled again. I looked back as quick as I could.


The hallway was long, it seemed like forever but I made it to the bathroom. My heart was pounding, and more so, I was soaking wet. I shook my head as I looked at myself in the mirror, trying to compose myself.

I cleaned up. I was good. I made my way to the exist, he was standing in the hallway.


My heart started beating again. As I had to walk past him I heard him say excuse me.

I stopped and he asked me if I was having a good night. I replied politely, trying not to make eye contact with him.

As I opened the door, he asked my name. I turned around and said I was married. And walked out the door as fast as I could.


My knickers were getting wet again. I couldn't believe what was happening. ...

Please continue …

 

[Malbec_Girl]

I don't see how any of that was cheating. Yes another man made you wet but you didn't touch him right? My wife would agree that's not cheating. Other men have made her wet and she came home and we fucked. Of course every one has their own opinion on what's cheating and what's not.

The experience isn't finished. It didn't end there.

 

[Hornyhusband2017]

Ohhhhh. Gotcha

 

[Malbec_Girl]

( I should also mention that I'm not a writer as so many people on here are. So I will make mistakes in my posts. Please excuse them)

 

[Malbec_Girl]

(it also tickles me seeing 'virgin' under my username.....I have a strange sense of humour)

 

[kcanuk]

Please continue…..

 

[Winchester3030]

Waiting to hear more!

 

[Malbec_Girl]

My weakness.

Also, thanks for such a warm and wonderful welcome in this site. It's be far the most positive experience.

 

[BusterGood]

You seem to be looking for some kind of confirmation here. That whole bag of feelings you experienced tells you exactly what you want to know. The question now is do you rip the bandaid off or try to recover in secret and pretend it never happened.

There are many things to be unhappy about that can be ignored and then there are those that can’t. Those have to be put on the table and discussed. Hearing your spouse is unhappy with the intimacy is tough to hear but if one is desirous to keep it together, there are options.

Good luck.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Good evening,

About me:
Age 31
Married for 8 years
From UK


About my life:
Married but unhappy. I have been unhappy for about 2 years now. I love my husband of course, however, we don't have the same relationship we used to.

I have been looking for a home of sorts online. This is the 3rd site today. I will see which site is best for me as I don't have any interest in juggling multiple sites.

What's going on in my life:
For the first time I cheated on my husband

Saturday 23rd.
Christmas party.

We went to a place where multiple groups seem to be having a late Christmas party. Probably because it fell on a weekend.

About 30 mins into the evening, I noticed a guy to my left about 20 feet away. He was in a large group of guys who. I noticed him because as the group as loud, he was the only one who was quiet. He was sipping on a glass of red wine, and I noticed him glancing over at me.


I looked away pretty sharpish and continued my night.

As the evening wore on and the drinks flowed, periodically I noticed him glancing over at me, the glances becoming longer and more lingering, I must admit, on both sides.

For the first time in ages, I felt something in the pit of my stomach. A feeling of raw attraction.

He was dressed in black Chinos and a light blue smart dress, a sliver watch was glimmering in the light as he picked up his drink, looking at me.

As the night wore on, the glances turned to looks to staring. Then it happened, he smile at me.

My god, at the moment, I had to gather myself. I looked away without smiling back.

I resisted the urge to look at him again. I needed the bathroom.


I got up and made my way up the stairs of the venue towards the bathrooms. As I approached the door, I heard footsteps behind me. I instinctively, held the door open, as you do, I looked back. It was him,. He smiled again. I looked back as quick as I could.


The hallway was long, it seemed like forever but I made it to the bathroom. My heart was pounding, and more so, I was soaking wet. I shook my head as I looked at myself in the mirror, trying to compose myself.

I cleaned up. I was good. I made my way to the exist, he was standing in the hallway.


My heart started beating again. As I had to walk past him I heard him say excuse me.

I stopped and he asked me if I was having a good night. I replied politely, trying not to make eye contact with him.

As I opened the door, he asked my name. I turned around and said I was married. And walked out the door as fast as I could.


My knickers were getting wet again. I couldn't believe what was happening. ...

I think this is the right place.
There are many people here who are interested in hearing the rest of your story, and I think you will find some who validate your feelings and offer some understanding.
If that is what you want.
Of course there are all kinds of people here, but at least on this forum, most people are not judgmental.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I did want to add that I also enjoy a nice Argentinian Malbec. Flavorful and reasonably priced.
But that's not really relevant.

 

[Malbec_Girl]

You seem to be looking for some kind of confirmation here. That whole bag of feelings you experienced tells you exactly what you want to know. The question now is do you rip the bandaid off or try to recover in secret and pretend it never happened.

There are many things to be unhappy about that can be ignored and then there are those that can’t. Those have to be put on the table and discussed. Hearing your spouse is unhappy with the intimacy is tough to hear but if one is desirous to keep it together, there are options.

Good luck.

Thanks for your post.

I'm not sure if I'm looking for confirmation of validation. Maybe more just somewhere to share my feelings without the stigma of being judge?

After all, I know no one here and no one knows me, so I can be free and open.

 

[Malbec_Girl]

I did want to add that I also enjoy a nice Argentinian Malbec. Flavorful and reasonably priced.
But that's not really relevant.

That's my favourite kind

 

[Malbec_Girl]

I think this is the right place.
There are many people here who are interested in hearing the rest of your story, and I think you will find some who validate your feelings and offer some understanding.
If that is what you want.
Of course there are all kinds of people here, but at least on this forum, most people are not judgmental.

Yes,

I'm finding that the world is a smaller place of course. I'm not alone in having done what I've done. Love Vs lust. What wins?

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Yes,

I'm finding that the world is a smaller place of course. I'm not alone in having done what I've done. Love Vs lust. What wins?

Life is best when the two coincide, but for most people, there is at least a period when the two divide.
How to deal with that is a challenge people face in many different ways.
After passing through the phases of guilt and self-loathing, the lust and desire remain?
Then the question is what you do about it.

In the meantime, of course, us perverts want to hear the rest of the story.

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Absolutely,

The crazy thing is I haven't felt like this in years. That excitement, the thrill, the feeling in the pit of the stomach, the urge.....

I haven't been able to stop thinking about it.

I find myself day dreaming.

I will of course complete the story at some point.

Also thanks for the tips about this site to everyone. Xx

 

[Rob_Royale]

However, one moment of weakness has proved I'm Human.

No. It wasn't one moment. It was thousands. Each moment you spent betraying your husband.

You're not just human. You made a decision. You decided what you wanted was more important than the promise you made. More important than your relationship.

People come here for sexy stories. I hope this is just a story.

 

[Malbec_Girl]

No. It wasn't one moment. It was thousands. Each moment you spent betraying your husband.

You're not just human. You made a decision. You decided what you wanted was more important than the promise you made. More important than your relationship.

People come here for sexy stories. I hope this is just a story.

Thanks for your post. I'm sorry you feel this way .

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Thanks to everyone who has made the effort to post.

Also, again thanks for the tips