Conditioning / Cumming on Command

[Kajira Callista]

I've had it happen online, and out of the blue, but don't ask me how or why as I haven't got a clue and haven't really put that much thought into it since. It did take just one word and less than a second to react though, and no, not while touching or doing anything else sexually arousing, just happened. Then again. I also came without any other stimulation or warning in a traffic jam, in boiling heat one day too....that seemed to be triggered by a particular riff from Chris Isaak which was playing at the time. Go figure.

Catalina

I love this post!
There is a three word combo that does it for me...sometimes even whenthe words are said in a sentence that has no sexual anything at all in it. lol It can get embarrassing

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Calling all psych majors: I'm wondering if this would work:

A willing female could be sporting a remote-controlled vibrator inside her. It would be up to the person with the remote control to activate the vibrator only when the remote operator says a certain word or phrase. Over time, an association -- in the form of a conditioned response --could be established between the word/phrase and a pleasurable sensation. Eventually, it may be possible for the female to orgasm just from the word/phrase, without actually wearing the vibrator.

 

[ImOnIt]

Calling all psych majors: I'm wondering if this would work:

A willing female could be sporting a remote-controlled vibrator inside her. It would be up to the person with the remote control to activate the vibrator only when the remote operator says a certain word or phrase. Over time, an association -- in the form of a conditioned response --could be established between the word/phrase and a pleasurable sensation. Eventually, it may be possible for the female to orgasm just from the word/phrase, without actually wearing the vibrator.

As described in this thread, people get off on less (ie. no stimulus). I'm sure it would work for some, but I assume it would be a different subset of people. (not peer reviewed)

 

[neci]

Calling all psych majors: I'm wondering if this would work:

A willing female could be sporting a remote-controlled vibrator inside her. It would be up to the person with the remote control to activate the vibrator only when the remote operator says a certain word or phrase. Over time, an association -- in the form of a conditioned response --could be established between the word/phrase and a pleasurable sensation. Eventually, it may be possible for the female to orgasm just from the word/phrase, without actually wearing the vibrator.

remote control vibrators are a waste of money. you'll have better luck simply taking control over them. (the orgasms)

 

[switchbitch]

Calling all psych majors: I'm wondering if this would work:

A willing female could be sporting a remote-controlled vibrator inside her. It would be up to the person with the remote control to activate the vibrator only when the remote operator says a certain word or phrase. Over time, an association -- in the form of a conditioned response --could be established between the word/phrase and a pleasurable sensation. Eventually, it may be possible for the female to orgasm just from the word/phrase, without actually wearing the vibrator.

Umm... Ouchie it doesn't have to be just with a woman you know, I know one particular delightful male painslut who will cum when I point my finger(or flogger).
just a thought, about men coming on command. I have noticed that the guys I know that I can achieve this with are all extreme pain sluts with a taste for fear.

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

Calling all psych majors: I'm wondering if this would work:

A willing female could be sporting a remote-controlled vibrator inside her. It would be up to the person with the remote control to activate the vibrator only when the remote operator says a certain word or phrase. Over time, an association -- in the form of a conditioned response --could be established between the word/phrase and a pleasurable sensation. Eventually, it may be possible for the female to orgasm just from the word/phrase, without actually wearing the vibrator.

I suppose if you were doing this alone (especially) this could be an option too. However, I wonder if a girl could still get off with no vibrations - i.e. would it be the vibration or the word that is triggering the response? What if I conditioned myself to only cumming with a vibrating cock in my pussy?

As described in this thread, people get off on less (ie. no stimulus). I'm sure it would work for some, but I assume it would be a different subset of people. (not peer reviewed)

You are on it, indeed

remote control vibrators are a waste of money. you'll have better luck simply taking control over them. (the orgasms)

Thank you for THAT bit of info! I don't have a remote but was considering it... And now I shall consider it even more skeptically.!

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

Umm... Ouchie it doesn't have to be just with a woman you know, I know one particular delightful male painslut who will cum when I point my finger(or flogger).

Hi SB -
Did you get him to that point, or did he "cum like that". Okokok.. .that was bad.. If you helped get him there, tell me about it?

 

[switchbitch]

Hi SB -
Did you get him to that point, or did he "cum like that". Okokok.. .that was bad.. If you helped get him there, tell me about it?

chuckling no he didn't come like that, and it occurred naturally after several years of regular play. Part of it is his awareness of what I am going to do to him when he has my attention.(we really should have a smiley that delivers Boros Karloff laugh I think that would go well here).

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

As described in this thread, people get off on less (ie. no stimulus). I'm sure it would work for some, but I assume it would be a different subset of people. (not peer reviewed)

I seems like a good subject for a peer-reviewed study undertaken by a major university's psychology dept. I wonder if there is any federal grant money in that area ... maybe the in the stimulus package?

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Umm... Ouchie it doesn't have to be just with a woman you know, I know one particular delightful male painslut who will cum when I point my finger(or flogger).
just a thought, about men coming on command. I have noticed that the guys I know that I can achieve this with are all extreme pain sluts with a taste for fear.

hmmm, intriguing observation, Switch. While I'm not quite at that point, the sight of a riding crop or wartenberg wheel can definitely elicit an involuntary erection.

As far as extreme pain and fear -- I wonder which of those two is more potent. And which matters more -- physical or mental stimuli in conditioning a response? Hmmm, more research needed (can I volunteer?)

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

chuckling no he didn't come like that, and it occurred naturally after several years of regular play. Part of it is his awareness of what I am going to do to him when he has my attention.(we really should have a smiley that delivers Boros Karloff laugh I think that would go well here).

Oh heck!! Now you SAID Boris Karloff laugh smiley, and I want one!!!
++:caning: (somehow) = Boris Karloff laugh smiley?

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I suppose if you were doing this alone (especially) this could be an option too. However, I wonder if a girl could still get off with no vibrations - i.e. would it be the vibration or the word that is triggering the response? What if I conditioned myself to only cumming with a vibrating cock in my pussy?

Those are interesting questions which I think only "hands-on" studies will answer!

 

[switchbitch]

Oh heck!! Now you SAID Boris Karloff laugh smiley, and I want one!!!
++:caning: (somehow) = Boris Karloff laugh smiley?

I am so going to use that! I love it. Thank you for correcting my spelling by the way.

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

I am so going to use that! I love it. Thank you for correcting my spelling by the way.

Oh shoot! I am a huge Boris Karloff and Bella Lugosi fan... Love the old movies!!
My trained fingers did that, and I did NOT do that in a corrective tone!

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

Those are interesting questions which I think only "hands-on" studies will answer!

You first?

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

You first?

In the interest of scientific pursuits, I'd be glad to!!

 

[switchbitch]

Oh shoot! I am a huge Boris Karloff and Bella Lugosi fan... Love the old movies!!
My trained fingers did that, and I did NOT do that in a corrective tone!

I was not being facetious I actually did appreciate the correction. I hate misspelling! I too love old movies particularly anything someone is strapped to a table and electric shocks are involved! (Picture me sitting here biting my bottom lip imagining the scenarios I could get up to with that equipment at hand).

++ :caning:
now THAT is a scientific experiment!

 

[Primalex]

What if I conditioned myself to only cumming with a vibrating cock in my pussy?

Well, it is already known that the body can get used to certain stimulations, so that you can't orgasm when they are missing. But this is as far as I know usually still temporary and can be fixed within a month or two.

 

[~His Kitten~]

I've done this on several occasions but only with one person. Its a bit different than what you are interested in I think, orgasming on word usage...It was never a specific word with him, rather his voice tone. On the phone I might add.

The conversation did not always need to be sexual in nature, once when he was testing it, he used the tone in a perfectly normal day to day conversation and suddenly off I went. That time I was not sexually aroused to begin with but as his voice dipped lower and lower, I felt my body react and I could not control my responses.

It started out as an accident originally in the middle of a steamy conversation, with no warning or pre-planning. Neither of us was expecting it and it was "uhh did you just cum?" "I think I did?!" My libido was at its peak during my cycle that time and it took only 10 minutes of the conversation/voice combo before it occurred.

Each time it occurred there was no physical touching on my part or trying. Things just sorta slipped.

As far as the online discussion...I have done it as well with him online. He knows me very well and how to arouse me with words alone. I need to be quite needy? for it to work online with text alone and no touching, but its possible. At least for me.

***

Someone mentioned the psychological orgasm...There are close to a dozen spots on my body that when touched, even lightly, can push me over the edge...Upper lip, near my hip, various spots on my back, under my shoulder, and that shoulder muscle which starts with a t that I can't remember the name of. Nipple stimulation and giving oral without being touched also can do it.

I can cum very easily and I'm multi-orgasmic. Its how one discovered my squirting ability. That is not voice activated btw.

 

[errogenous]

I have fond memories of a former partner that was able to achieve multiple orgasms by cumming on my command. To achieve the orgasmic state it was necessary for me to stimulate her to the edge of orgasm and then deny the release. After moments of breath catching more erotic stimulation was applied until recognizing the moment when she would no longer be able to restrain the orgasm I would command her to "cum for me my slut---cum for me". As she is multi-orgasmic by nature "practicing" this form of orgasmic control had her achieving several orgasms in a row and cumming on command.

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

I too love old movies particularly anything someone is strapped to a table and electric shocks are involved! (Picture me sitting here biting my bottom lip imagining the scenarios I could get up to with that equipment at hand).

++ :caning:
now THAT is a scientific experiment!

I like the way you think...

Well, it is already known that the body can get used to certain stimulations, so that you can't orgasm when they are missing. But this is as far as I know usually still temporary and can be fixed within a month or two.

Great point, and actually this presents a bit of a relief for me. If I screw up in all of this experimentation, I can just start over. Hadn't thought of that... Thanks!

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

I've done this on several occasions but only with one person. Its a bit different than what you are interested in I think, orgasming on word usage...It was never a specific word with him, rather his voice tone. On the phone I might add.

I am interested in the ends more than the means... If voice tone gets me there, I'm willing to take that ride just as much as any other!!

(PS: Still waiting on a certain upload )

The conversation did not always need to be sexual in nature, once when he was testing it, he used the tone in a perfectly normal day to day conversation and suddenly off I went. That time I was not sexually aroused to begin with but as his voice dipped lower and lower, I felt my body react and I could not control my responses.

I have felt this way before - dropping into the abyss, but it scared me because I was NOT with someone I trusted and I snapped myself back from it. Hearing you describe it this way has brought that memory back, though, and it's encouraging!!! This is where I want to be!

It started out as an accident originally in the middle of a steamy conversation, with no warning or pre-planning. Neither of us was expecting it and it was "uhh did you just cum?" "I think I did?!" My libido was at its peak during my cycle that time and it took only 10 minutes of the conversation/voice combo before it occurred.

Each time it occurred there was no physical touching on my part or trying. Things just sorta slipped.

As far as the online discussion...I have done it as well with him online. He knows me very well and how to arouse me with words alone. I need to be quite needy? for it to work online with text alone and no touching, but its possible. At least for me.

Necessity IS the mother...

***

Someone mentioned the psychological orgasm...There are close to a dozen spots on my body that when touched, even lightly, can push me over the edge...Upper lip, near my hip, various spots on my back, under my shoulder, and that shoulder muscle which starts with a t that I can't remember the name of. Nipple stimulation and giving oral without being touched also can do it.

I can cum very easily and I'm multi-orgasmic. Its how one discovered my squirting ability. That is not voice activated btw.

This all might be a pipe dream for me for a while (and I don't know that I will EVER get to squirting)... but just knowing it is possible gives me direction. Thank you.

 

[mslv4Her]

I was not being facetious I actually did appreciate the correction. I hate misspelling! I too love old movies particularly anything someone is strapped to a table and electric shocks are involved! (Picture me sitting here biting my bottom lip imagining the scenarios I could get up to with that equipment at hand).

++ :caning:
now THAT is a scientific experiment!

I'd volunteer for that experiment with you, Ms Switchbitch!

 

[minx1]

If you want to talk about this I would love to hear your methodology...!

Hi PF,

Sorry I only just saw this and replied to your pm.

If I am going to post it, I will have to find a clearer way of explaining it I think lol

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

Hi PF,

Sorry I only just saw this and replied to your pm.

If I am going to post it, I will have to find a clearer way of explaining it I think lol

Worked perfectly fine for me!! Thanks so much!!!!!