? concerning the male mind.

[Feelin' Naughty]

When I am at home in the evenings with hubby, (we work different shifts) I throw a fit if he ignores me! It was kind of funny a couple of weekends ago, on a Saturday night, he was talking to a friend on an IM, and not paying me any attention. I really HATE that! I got an attidude, and told him "I'll see ya later, I'm going to the bar." When we had been out the night before, I was all dressed up, looked really nice. Had hubby's full erection, I mean attention.

That Saturday night I was wearing a bright yellow sweatshirt and jeans with blown-out knees, not exactly looking like a sex goddess hehe. The bar I went to is a little place close to the house, and I know the bouncer, so I felt safe going by myself.
By the time hubby showed up, about 30 minutes later, I had guys sitting on both sides of me, and I was dancing with another one.

This rambling insight into my personal life leads to a question believe it or not. Do you men really notice the way we are dressed? I mean, one night I'm dressed hot and sexy and get the normal looks from other guys. The next night I look like a refugee from a hippy commune and have more attention than I can handle (almost). Please explain this to me!

 

[Guest]

the way you look

well from a mans point of view (mine personally) it is not so much what you wear but the way you wear it if you are good looking and act hot to me it does not matter, torn jeans and a tee shirt,or tight blouse mini skirt and heels it all good to me

 

[flafunat40]

lets try this again

well i did it again i fogot to login again so i had to repost it again i will get the hang of it this yet ((((((((((()))))))))))) the way you look
well from a mans point of view (mine personally) it is not so much what you wear but the way you wear it if you are good looking and act hot to me it does not matter, torn jeans and a tee shirt,or tight blouse mini skirt and heels it all good to me

 

[modest mouse]

I think you may be drawing an incorrect conclusion. The night you were dressed up you were with your husband. Men may have been looking but would exercise discretion. The second night you were initially alone and therefore "available".

 

[Feelin' Naughty]

I think you may be drawing an incorrect conclusion. The night you were dressed up you were with your husband. Men may have been looking but would exercise discretion. The second night you were initially alone and therefore "available".

Yes, I guess you're right mouse, but, the attention continued even after hubby arrived.

 

[modest mouse]

Some other factors...

If you went there the second night in part to defy your husbands indifference, then you may have been enboldened with more confidence. A confident woman is indeed very sexy.

Depending on the crown at the bar....you may have come across as more approachable in the "casual" clothes. Its along the same lines as gorgeous women sometimes getting less attention because they seem "out of my league", so to speak. Perhaps your attire the second night was more in line with the crown at the bar.

Just some thoughts. It may have just been that those exposed knees got them all worked up.

Getting back toward your original question...I think that in the bar situation men often read a women's clothing as an indication of her expectations of treatment. At least this is my observation in my occasional bartending.

 

[Feelin' Naughty]

So basically, it is attitude more than attire?

Yes, I was definately "defying my husband's indifference."

It was the knees, I have really cute knees

 

[fantac64]

Clothes are nice if you have to wear them. Seriously though, the clothes aren't as important as the attitude you project. I have a neighbor who works hard at not dressing in anything sexy. Forget it, I'd jump her bones in a heartbeat.

 

[MacCortz]

So basically, it is attitude more than attire?

Yes, I was definately "defying my husband's indifference."

It was the knees, I have really cute knees

Hey Naughty One,

Ya it's the knees, you figured us men out pretty quick. Most women think it's the breasts, ass, and legs or face, eyes and hair but no...... it's really the knees... cute knees cause ours to buckel and then what..

nice knees, naughty

 

[registered "^^"]

When I am at home in the evenings with hubby, (we work different shifts) I throw a fit if he ignores me! It was kind of funny a couple of weekends ago, on a Saturday night, he was talking to a friend on an IM, and not paying me any attention. I really HATE that! I got an attidude, and told him "I'll see ya later, I'm going to the bar." When we had been out the night before, I was all dressed up, looked really nice. Had hubby's full erection, I mean attention.

That Saturday night I was wearing a bright yellow sweatshirt and jeans with blown-out knees, not exactly looking like a sex goddess hehe. The bar I went to is a little place close to the house, and I know the bouncer, so I felt safe going by myself.
By the time hubby showed up, about 30 minutes later, I had guys sitting on both sides of me, and I was dancing with another one.

This rambling insight into my personal life leads to a question believe it or not. Do you men really notice the way we are dressed? I mean, one night I'm dressed hot and sexy and get the normal looks from other guys. The next night I look like a refugee from a hippy commune and have more attention than I can handle (almost). Please explain this to me!

You ladies make up your mind.......Do we have a mind or not!!!!!!!

 

[Feelin' Naughty]

Re: Re: ? concerning the male mind.

You ladies make up your mind.......Do we have a mind or not!!!!!!!

Yes, yes you do, I'm pretty sure they consist of radioactive scrambled eggs.

 

[Feelin' Naughty]

Hey Naughty One,

Ya it's the knees, you figured us men out pretty quick. Most women think it's the breasts, ass, and legs or face, eyes and hair but no...... it's really the knees... cute knees cause ours to buckel and then what..

nice knees, naughty

hehehehehe

 

[pabloback]

the ferengis got it right with their "rules of aquisition"
the male rules of aquisition
no 1 ..... men will fuck anything
no 2 ..... see above
no 3 ..... ditto

 

[LukkyKnight]

Attitude is everything

98% of attraction is aura, not outfit.

Yes, we notice how women dress. We also notice how engines sound, how farts smell, and how food tastes, but none of these are worth the price of a bag of wet kleenex compared to the sound of laughter and the light of a smile on a lady's face.

 

[Lost Cause]

As long as females wear things that highlight their assets, the male will follow.

 

[notenufsx4me]

Sexy is, what sexy does.

 

[Feelin' Naughty]

Thanks for the insight

fantac64, maybe a nudist colony would be a good choice, to heck with wardrobe, let your true personality shine!

pabloback, You're an ole horn-dog hehe

LukkyKnight, always smiling! I try to find the humorous side of everything.

Lost Cause, We have already established that my best asset is my knees, framed in frayed denim

notenufsx4me, I agree!

 

[TigerClaw]

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[Feelin' Naughty]

So a stranger catches my eye by face, figure and clothes. My woman catches my eye by smiles, eyes, mouth, hiding her treasures from my sight and her curves that show.

I have edited this because i didnt answer the question. Dressed like a hippy. Provided that is how you were dressed is a very sexy look and feel. You look more natural, calmer and friendlier to approach. Women dressed up are more self conscience and on guard. Funny how that is. They dress to catch a man but then are on guard.

Thank you Tiger for that beautiful response!

I agree completely, I like to dress up, sometimes sexy, sometimes nice, but, I am the most out-going and friendly when I am in my jeans and blouse. I guess I'm just more comfortable.

 

[kiwiwolf]

I think you may be drawing an incorrect conclusion. The night you were dressed up you were with your husband. Men may have been looking but would exercise discretion. The second night you were initially alone and therefore "available".

Modest Mouse is right but I always notice what my lady is wearing. However what she wears when she goes out has no bearing on how I feel. I trust her... she wears what ever she wants, mini skirt and heels one night, jeans and tank top another... no problem as long as she has a good time.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Some other factors...

Mouse you did it again.. scary ha!,lol

What he said