BlueSugar
Faceted Sensualist
- Joined
- Jun 13, 2003
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If i've learned anything at all, it is that being in a relationship and love and all that shit means nothing. all it really is about, is how much you can actually put up with.
some will say: well, thats a big part of it
But no. i mean. thats all it is.
some will say: theres more to it then that. or if thats all its become then its no longer a relationship.
even in the beginning. you weigh pros and cons. likes dislikes. and you stop the whole deal when you just can't deal anymore.
some will say: but there are things they don't like about me, so its a compromise.
I'm here to say there are somethings you just don't compromise with.
how many of you have said "I will never date a person who ________." Bites nails, taller then I am, smokes, drinks, likes anal ... whatever. Fill in your own blank.
But, there you are or were, putting up with it for X amount of time.
Why do/did you do it?
(PS, I'm in a bitter mood, ignore the blantant bash on compromise and communication. BUT we've all been here, so lets talk about it.)
some will say: well, thats a big part of it
But no. i mean. thats all it is.
some will say: theres more to it then that. or if thats all its become then its no longer a relationship.
even in the beginning. you weigh pros and cons. likes dislikes. and you stop the whole deal when you just can't deal anymore.
some will say: but there are things they don't like about me, so its a compromise.
I'm here to say there are somethings you just don't compromise with.
how many of you have said "I will never date a person who ________." Bites nails, taller then I am, smokes, drinks, likes anal ... whatever. Fill in your own blank.
But, there you are or were, putting up with it for X amount of time.
Why do/did you do it?
(PS, I'm in a bitter mood, ignore the blantant bash on compromise and communication. BUT we've all been here, so lets talk about it.)