Comparing & Measuring Dicks

[Erodicus]

64, fit, 5’10”, 170lbs, 6 inches.

Still get as hard as when I was a teen with the benefit of lasting longer.

Bit older and a bit taller and heavier, but the critical dimension is the same.

 

[Erodicus]

A male friend measured mine when we were sharing wank. He had bought a novelty cock ruler and wanted to try it. I was 6 inches. He was 5.

 

[VDrago_1369]

Can't say I've ever compared mine with someone else, but I've shared plenty of times, and have stroked with those both smaller and larger than me.

 

[Escierto]

Anybody who has played ball or been in the military has seen plenty. Of course you've got the grower vs shower thing so you don't really know anyone's real size. I'm well endowed but shrink up tight when exercising. Always seemed to me the guys who were showers were much more likely to parade proudly around the locker room.

I laughed at the last line. True!

 

[CuriousJInLA]

I'm sure plenty do, but this is one of those things that varies wildly from person to person. The first time my wife and I talked about it she was shocked that anybody discussed this. Says she's never in her life talked about penis size with friends. She had heard the term "well endowed" in a joking way in something on TV and asked what it meant. I explained she had a well endowed husband and that there were women out there who preferred that. She couldn't believe it. No joke!

Fair points all around. I should never generalize. And probably my wife likes to share those things

 

[Leffe6]

I actually got to thinking with the big head. It's a little bigger than the width of my hand, so it's just the right size.

 

[LMWM321]

I can tell you my wife had plenty of partners all over eight inches and didn’t have to meet 250 to get them and eight inches was the minimum length must grow them bigger in Australia

Sorry... but consider me very skeptical of your claim. Studies aggregate data from all over the world. They don't grow 'em bigger in Australia, or even in Africa. Nor do they grow 'em smaller in Asia. If penis length had such big regional and racial differences wouldn't there be a corresponding difference in the depth of womens' Vaginas b/w countries and races? There isn't because there isn't.

The truth is, there is very little difference in Penis size b/w countries, even b/w races. Penis size DOES scale w/ body size but only slightly. Something like an add'l 1/10" of penis length for every 3" of body length. ..A correlation, but not much.

One possibility: Does your wife date primarily Porn stars or Chippendales dancers? ..If so, that would explain it b/c those are careers where a big dick can be monetized so those who pursue them probably ARE bigger than average.

Also, did your wife actually pull out a ruler to measure all these dicks? ..And did she measure them correctly? Many penises look to be "over eight inches" from the tip of the glans to the groin - but that is the wrong way to measure them. ..It adds at least an inch or more.

The next time ask you see a Urologist ask him/ her how rare an "over eight inch" (properly measured!!) dick is.

 

[Escierto]

Sorry... but consider me very skeptical of your claim. Studies aggregate data from all over the world. They don't grow 'em bigger in Australia, or even in Africa. Nor do they grow 'em smaller in Asia. If penis length had such big regional and racial differences wouldn't there be a corresponding difference in the depth of women's Vaginas b/w countries and races? There isn't because there isn't.

The truth is, there is very little difference in Penis size b/w countries, even b/w races. Size DOES scale w/ body size but only slightly. Something like an add'l 1/10" of penis length for every 3" of body length. ..A correlation, but not much.

One possibility: Does your wife date primarily Porn stars or Chippendales (Male Dancers)? ..If so, that would explain it b/c those are careers where a big dick may be a prerequisite of hire.

Also, did your wife actually pull out a ruler to measure all these dicks? ..And did she measure them correctly? Many penises look to be "over eight inches" if you measure from the tip of the glans to the bottom of the scrotum.

The next time ask you see a Urologist ask him/ her how rare an "over eight inch" (properly measured!!) dick is.

Damn, dude, you are confusing them with the facts. On Lit, everyone has an 8 inch dick!

 

[CuriousJInLA]

Damn, dude, you are confusing them with the facts. On Lit, everyone has an 8 inch dick!

Seems like that

 

[pace_purr]

Sorry... but consider me very skeptical of your claim. Studies aggregate data from all over the world. They don't grow 'em bigger in Australia, or even in Africa. Nor do they grow 'em smaller in Asia. If penis length had such big regional and racial differences wouldn't there be a corresponding difference in the depth of women's Vaginas b/w countries and races? There isn't because there isn't.

The truth is, there is very little difference in Penis size b/w countries, even b/w races. Penis size DOES scale w/ body size but only slightly. Something like an add'l 1/10" of penis length for every 3" of body length. ..A correlation, but not much.

One possibility: Does your wife date primarily Porn stars or Chippendales dancers? ..If so, that would explain it b/c those are careers where a big dick may be a prerequisite of hire.

Also, did your wife actually pull out a ruler to measure all these dicks? ..And did she measure them correctly? Many penises look to be "over eight inches" if you measure from the tip of the glans to the bottom of the scrotum.

The next time ask you see a Urologist ask him/ her how rare an "over eight inch" (properly measured!!) dick is.

Most people who quote statistics do it so they can excuse their own lack of size we had 30 years in the lifestyle and were only let down three times

 

[Leffe6]

Most people who quote statistics do it so they can excuse their own lack of size we had 30 years in the lifestyle and were only let down three times

Lol I've got 4 " so if I fucked her twice does that count as 8"? Lol

 

[van_delay]

Lol I've got 4 " so if I fucked her twice does that count as 8"? Lol

Haha, I like this math. I'm 9 inches.

 

[mark_j]

Seems like that

Don'tcha know that everyone measures with the "seven inch foot, for fisherman and other liars"?

 

[Escierto]

He was in the lifestyle so he knows a big cock when he sees one and damn, they were all super hung big cocks. It was Ron Jeremy doubles all day long!

 

[CuriousJInLA]

Most people who quote statistics do it so they can excuse their own lack of size we had 30 years in the lifestyle and were only let down three times

I’m not trying to stir the pot but that’s one of the most self-aggrandizing comments I’ve read, and over what? Your dick is big and anyone who quotes data has a small dick? Your wife took 30 years of big dicks so someone who presents empirical data excuses their own lack of size, which is purely random

 

[LMWM321]

Most people who quote statistics do it so they can excuse their own lack of size we had 30 years in the lifestyle and were only let down three times

My bad. ..I can see that you're not really interested in truth but rather you're here to fan the flames of a fetish. And that's be expected - after all, this is a kink website. I should know better. Trying to convince people of the truth regarding penis size here on Lit is about as sensible as trying to tell people who think feet are sexy, "No, actually feet are NOT sexy! They are often dirty and they have nothing to do with making a baby. Therefore, feet are NOT sexy!"

But seriously, you LIKE believing your wife is some kind of sexual super-hero because she can "take a huge one." And that's fine - that's between you and your wife. But here's the difference between arguing feet are sexy and that a 7" dick is merely average. A foot fetish is fun and harmless (I like feet, actually, and DO think they can be sexy) but perpetuating misinformation about dick size leads to all sorts of insecurity, anxiety and even toxic behavior.. And the men who suffer the most from it are young Black men who grow up thinking their dicks should be monstrous or their sex partners will find them to be less manly and less desirable.

If you've read my previous posts about penis size you'll know that I have a HUGE dick (8 1/8" x 6 1/4" girth - measured correctly!) and it stinks. Every kind of sex, apart from receiving a handjob, is either more difficult or near impossible because of my size. I'm married to a woman who adores me but finds PIV sex w/ me to be uncomfortable most of the time and is frustrated by being unable to enjoy taking me into her mouth. The challenges of a big dick are echoed by others with outlier length, but even more by those w/ outlier girth. Sex is supposed to be pain-free. Consider this: According to on-line retailers, the most commonly purchased dildo by women is about the same size as the average penis - insertable length less than 6" and girth less than 5". What does that tell you about women and their actual size preference?

My research into penis size was an extension of conversations with my wife's and my doctors regarding our challenges with having comfortable sex. And because I've been in medical research for years (no, I'm not a doctor), I have a strong curiosity for the truth - especially as it relates to health topics.

As to your wife's experience.. Well, perhaps men with big dicks are more apt to be "in the lifestyle" or (more likely) your wife isn't measuring properly, when she measure's at all (honestly, that's kind of a weird thing to be doing w/ a casual sex partner). The other possibility is she knows you enjoy thinking of her as some sort of Big Dick Champion, and doesn't want to disappoint you so tells you what she knows you want to hear.

 

[Escierto]

My bad. ..I can see that you're not really interested in truth but rather you're here to fan the flames of a fetish. And that's fine! This is a kink site - I should know better. Trying to convince people of the truth re: penis size here on Lit is about as sensible as trying to tell people who think feet are sexy, "No, actually feet are NOT sexy! They are often dirty and they have nothing to do with making a baby. Therefore, feet are NOT sexy!"

But seriously, you LIKE believing your wife is some kind of sexual super-hero b/c she can "take a huge one." And that's fine - that's between you and your wife. But here's the difference b/w thinking feet are sexy and that a 7" dick is merely average. The former is fun and harmless (I like feet, actually, and DO think they're sexy) but the latter leads to all sorts of insecurity, anxiety and even toxic behavior.. And the men who suffer the most from it are young Black men who grow up thinking their dicks should be monstrous or their sex partners will be disappointed. So senseless.

If you've read my comments before on penis size you'll know that I have a HUGE dick (8 1/8" x 6 1/4" girth - measured correctly!) and it stinks. Every kind of sex, apart from receiving a handjob - is made either more difficult or near impossible. I'm married to a woman who adores me but finds PIV sex w/ me to be very uncomfortable most of the time and is frustrated by being unable to enjoy taking me into her mouth. The challenges of a big dick are echoed by others with outlier length, but even more by those w/ outlier girth. Sex is supposed to be pain-free. To wit: According to on-line retailers, the most commonly purchased dildo by women is about the same as the average penis.

My research into penis size was an extension of convo's with my urologist about my dick size and my wife's convos with her OBGYN about her discomfort during sex. And because I've been in medical research (no, I'm not a doc) for years and years, I have a curiosity for truth - especially as it relates to health sciences.

As to your wife's experience.. Well, perhaps men with big dicks are more likely to be "in the lifestyle" Or (more likely) your wife isn't measuring properly (when she measure's at all - honestly, that's kind of a weird thing to be doing w/ a casual sex partner.) The other possibility is she knows you think of her as some sort of "big dick" champion, and doesn't want to disappoint you so tells you what she knows you want to hear.

Excellent post on this topic. Probably the best ever discussing this topic.

 

[Tessinwales]

Personally speaking I have never taken a tape measure to any man. When his equipment is in the required condition I have much more serious needs to have satisfied LOL

 

[nutoseen]

Whats everyones experience/thoughts on comparing and or measuring dicks? Is it something that turns you on or something you'd rather avoid at all costs? Have you had any experiences already or never happene but would like it to?

For guys - have you ever had someone do it or ask to do it and did it turn you on?
For gals - have you ever had someone ask you to do it or do you often request this with a willing participent?

In both cases, if you have done it, did you do it because it turned you on or purely because the other party seemed into it?

(dont have to answer every question in a list, just whatever does or does not apply)

happened before college where a friend group of woman and friend group of men switched partners every few months. women said i came in 2nd of three when hard. same size as asian guy when soft. i learned i loved hearing it.

in college, woman was blowing me and cheating on her fiancee. i asked what she thought of my size compared to him. she pulled it out of her mouth looked at it looked at me and said he is way bigger and then started blowing me again. i blew everywhere (her mouth, chin, shirt, hair). she smiled and said i knew you'd like that, as she finished me off.

 

[stargame]

Haha, I like this math. I'm 9 inches.

Ohhhhh....swoon

 

[HampshireBoy]

Tbh I think girls probably talk about that with friends more than guys do.

From conversations with women I've realised that women talk "seriously" about sex more than men do; in my experience men mostly joke around the subject. Certainly, women seem to discuss techniques, positions and cock size - even women that you might think are quite straitlaced. My first wife worked in an all female environment when we were first married and came home with all sorts of ideas, plus questions along the lines of "Have you ever fantasised about doing ... with me?" based on conversations at work.

I now know that when I was dating my current wife she and her best friend had a text emoji code for how many times they'd had sex that evening with their respective boyfriend and in what position - my best mate just about knew I was on a date

My wife and her best friend have also shown each other photos of their husband's cocks to compare sizes.

 

[LittleB58]

...no unofficial measuring but lots of comparison going on in school sports. Kinda natural when you've got 20-30 guys in an open shower and locker room.

67, heart and BP issues, 5' 11", 230 lb.
6 1/4".

Used to be longer (to my navel). Using a HydroMax has actually helped restore blood capacity.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

Sorry... but consider me very skeptical of your claim. Studies aggregate data from all over the world. They don't grow 'em bigger in Australia, or even in Africa. Nor do they grow 'em smaller in Asia. If penis length had such big regional and racial differences wouldn't there be a corresponding difference in the depth of women's Vaginas b/w countries and races? There isn't because there isn't.

The truth is, there is very little difference in Penis size b/w countries, even b/w races. Penis size DOES scale w/ body size but only slightly. Something like an add'l 1/10" of penis length for every 3" of body length. ..A correlation, but not much.

One possibility: Does your wife date primarily Porn stars or Chippendales dancers? ..If so, that would explain it b/c those are careers where a big dick can be monetized so those who pursue them probably ARE bigger than average.

Also, did your wife actually pull out a ruler to measure all these dicks? ..And did she measure them correctly? Many penises look to be "over eight inches" from the tip of the glans to the groin - but that is the wrong way to measure them. ..It adds at least an inch or more.

The next time ask you see a Urologist ask him/ her how rare an "over eight inch" (properly measured!!) dick is.

Seems about right. I am 6'4" = 76" = 7.6" dick. I measure 7.5"

 

[AficionadoAngel]

I have had the conversation with friends before and it always excites me because I like to imagine what other couples are like having sex. I also like to share my details, especially if I see that it shocks them a little bit or embarrasses them. One of them complained that her bf was "too big for comfort" and she said 8 inches, or something like that, and I admitted that I'd been with someone about the same and loved it. I guess for me it's not so much about the actual size, but sharing the experience with someone else that's exciting. One guy also asked me who was the biggest and it was a huge turn-on for both of us when I revealed the details. I would enjoy talking about it with more of my partners, but I tend to assume that if it's something that are interested in hearing about, they will ask me.

 

[Escierto]

Seems about right. I am 6'4" = 74" = 7.4" dick. I measure 7.5"

6'4" = 76".