Comparing lovers

[Aphrodisiac]

Recently I went out with some one I dated a while back, we are still friends and have kept in touch over the years.

Over dinner he told me that he still remembers our times together and always thinks of me because he said he liked the way I kissed. And, that he has a tendency to compare me to his girl friend(s)...while I was flattered he was saying this ..



It made me think .. do I compare my past lovers with each other?

I don't think I compare... I think they all had certain special qualities about them that I liked .. but I don't compare them.

Do you compare your present lover with your ex's ?

Just some thing that I am thinking about this evening .. nothing serious... mind you.

 

[Kitte]

There is no comparison.

 

[Lust Engine]

I think it's natural to compare but a different thing to say anything about it.

 

[Monazwx]

There is certain guy from my past that I compared my former guys too. Still do sometimes. Don't know why.
Think the guy is still stuck on ya Aphrodisiac?

 

[Ice Cold]

I don't really compare... just accept them for what they are and what the have to offer. Some were better kissers, others were better lovers... each one usually added something unique about themselves that made stand out.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

There is certain guy from my past that I compared my former guys too. Still do sometimes. Don't know why.
Think the guy is still stuck on ya Aphrodesiac?

Maybe you are still liking that man ... hence you compare him to the other men in your life , Mona ??

As for him liking me, I sort of sense he still does ... but we are simply friends. *shrug*

 

[Saint Peter]

Never say "your sister has bigger nipples." It is not a good idea. Really.

 

[Nora]

Sure I do. I haven't met anyone who eats pussy like Marc H did in high school (ain't that sad?) and I surely do remember the truly beautiful penises I've been introduced to with great fondness. I coulda kissed Connor P for hours and not come up for breath. *sigh* Ain't nobody kisses like him.

So when I stumble across a new lover, do comparisons come up? I don't think about it intentionally, but until and unless they knock one of those guys off their pedestal, then they don't compare.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Sure I do. I haven't met anyone who eats pussy like Marc H did in high school (ain't that sad?) and I surely do remember the truly beautiful penises I've been introduced to with great fondness. I coulda kissed Connor P for hours and not come up for breath. *sigh* Ain't nobody kisses like him.

So when I stumble across a new lover, do comparisons come up? I don't think about it intentionally, but until and unless they knock one of those guys off their pedestal, then they don't compare.

... I think I know what you are talking about. I have one of those up there yonder on that high pedestal.

 

[#1tankcomander]

Sad to say I have no comparison. There is this one woman though......but still no comparison to her. How can I put it.......she gives great head(definate plus) she's interactive (talks in the approprate way while fucking) Gives great hand jobs and she's not afraid to experiment.

No, I didn't let her get away. I married her so no one else would reap such benifits! So far it's been almost 18 years and never a dull moment!

Sorry guys! But WE are willing to play!

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Sorry guys! But WE are willing to play!

Some how I get that from you...

 

[Monazwx]

Originally posted by Aphrodisiac
Maybe you are still liking that man ... hence you compare him to the other men in your life , Mona ??

*blush*
He moved away for work and we kind of lost touch.
I have fond memories of him to cherish.

 

[Nora]

... I think I know what you are talking about. I have one of those up there yonder on that high pedestal.

Oh, in retrospect they're all scum, of course. They each just had a particular talent for which they will be revered in perpetuity. Doesn't mean I wanna be with them (well...maybe Marc..*swoons*) again or that I miss them in any way.

It also doesn't mean that other lovers haven't been perfectly satisfactory. It's like that scene in "Office Space" These guys had extra flair.

 

[Shaq]

In class we learned when you compare a lover to your IDEAL lover it's normal...

When you compare them to a past one the relationship is in trouble...

 

[Aphrodisiac]

*blush*
He moved away for work and we kind of lost touch.
I have fond memories of him to cherish.

Mona,

So if he had not moved away ... he would still be the one ?

Oh' and did not mean to make you blush...

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Oh, in retrospect they're all scum, of course. They each just had a particular talent for which they will be revered in perpetuity. Doesn't mean I wanna be with them (well...maybe Marc..*swoons*) again or that I miss them in any way.

Swooning over this Marc ?!

I think you should seek him out !

Seek him !!!!!!



He was that good huh ??


* wink wink ... nudge ... nudge... *

 

[Nora]

Swooning over this Marc ?!

I think you should seek him out !

Seek him !!!!!!



He was that good huh ??


* wink wink ... nudge ... nudge... *

Well yuh, but that was in high school. So um... *counts on fingers* 15 or so years ago. I'm thinking his tongue is probably worn out by now.

I'd rather find someone new to knock him outta the running. *evil grin*

 

[Ezarc]

Well yuh, but that was in high school. So um... *counts on fingers* 15 or so years ago. I'm thinking his tongue is probably worn out by now.

I'd rather find someone new to knock him outta the running. *evil grin*

 

[Monazwx]

Originally posted by Aphrodisiac
he would still be the one ?

Maybe. I've never really given it this much thought.
Think I might look him up.
But it would suck if I found out he was married.

 

[lavender]

 

[Nora]

Nice tongue, babe. But can ya use it is the question?

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Well yuh, but that was in high school. So um... *counts on fingers* 15 or so years ago. I'm thinking his tongue is probably worn out by now.

I'd rather find someone new to knock him outta the running. *evil grin*

With age comes experience...

 

[Ezarc]

Nice tongue, babe. But can ya use it is the question?

I have references.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Maybe. I've never really given it this much thought.
Think I might look him up.
But it would suck if I found out he was married.

I know what you mean ... I was once so tempted to look up a past lover.. but then I stopped myself.

Because he was one of those good guys... so odds are some woman would have already noticed him and made sure she kept him...while I was to young at the time and let him go...

Doh !


But, it never hurts to just look and just be friends.. who knows.

I am totally contradicting myself .. but its late.. so that is my excuse !

 

[Nora]

With age comes experience...

Jezus, gf...if he got better???? Oh man. hrm. Can't hurt to google him...


Ezarc? Forward your references in triplicate along with a 450 word essay on why you feel you can topple Marc from his pedestal after 15 years of reigning supreme to PO Box 9876, Anytown, Tx 77254.