[COLOR=red]Lets get a good talk going here about restraints[/COLOR]

[Wizard]

At the risk of always growing and going bigger and better in my relationship what are your favorite ways to be restrained or to restrain someone?

I have many and will start off with a few I like:


If we are playing in the bedroom I will tie wrists and ankles to the post on my bed. More often than not she will be on her back allowing me full access to tease and play with breast and pussy all I wish. I like to touch all over starting with her neck and working my way around.
It is a great rush to see her reaction and squirm around.



I play downstairs a fair amount where I like to have hands tied overhead with a bar or without. Legs spread wide apart with spreader bar in place. Again full access to use whatever I wish, riding crop, flogger, paddle, feather dusters, or any other tool of my choice.


I have a spanking bench, which I enjoy as well. I will have her bend over and wrists will be clipped in place, then ankles in place, then I have a seat beat type of strap I will bring around her and the top of the bench to make sure she will not go anywhere at all. This is Great for anal and pussy play, spanking and teasing.


The last one for now is our table I keep down there also, I will put her on her back tie the wrists and ankles to the table legs. I will have her slid up so from the knee down hangs off the table and gets tied. This lets me again have great access and pleasure to her body.

So these are a few we enjoy.

I would like to hear some of you favorites?

 

[MissTaken]

Hmmm I will answer later, but Wizzie???

By the change in your posting, I would guess thursday was a success?

 

[Wizard]

Oh for sure and just want to go bigger and better.........Add to what we have.


Don't forget to come back and share.

 

[Wizard]

Hmmm I will answer later, but Wizzie???

By the change in your posting, I would guess thursday was a success?

Sure thing are well and went well, I never stop trying to learn more about why we do thing and how to deliver the utmost pleasure that can be delivered.
I like to hear things folks like maybe use their thoughts in our play roles. Find out what works and don’t. Sometimes you can miss the littlest thing that could have really got both of us off.
I like to hear what other couples due went they get together and how they are restrained.

I forgot to mention the straight back wooden dinning room chair is also a fun one we use once and a while

 

[Wizard]

Since I took off work today , I'll bump this for the evening gang to comment if they wish.

 

[psiberzerker]

I'm not fond of the behind the back restraint preDominantly because it can be painfull, and possibly damaging with vigourus use. If I do go that way, I tend to tape the wrists toGetHer opposing in the small.
Hogtying is pretty useless for anything but incapacitating, but I have made it work. I tyed the wrists in front, then brought them over her head before cinching to the ancles, and drawing tight. She bent like a bow, and then I was able to turn her over, and set her on the bed like a table. Exellent access in this configuration, but hard to maintain for long, if she's even flexible enough to make it.
I like weight benches, especially with the inclining seat because you can bind them seated, and have them fairly comfortable for extended "Torture" sessions. Keep a bedpan handy.
The actual restraints I preferr are plain rawhide cuffs with double D ring buckles for infinite ajustability. I'm also fond of the twin pyramid bracers because they spread out the pressure from police style handcuffs. Rope is just plain handy, but chain is next to useless. I like as much leather as possible, plain tanned rawhide so there's a "Finished" side, and a "Swede" side. It tends to darken on it's own with use, anyway.

 

[JoseIsWild]

Hola,

I have a variety of restraints. My favorite are leather buckle restraints because they are comfortable and more stylish. I have them attached to my bedposts too for securing my girl. I can then have full access to her breasts, underarms, belly, and pussy. She is very ticklish and therefore restraints are a must. Outside of the bedroom, she wears another pair of leather cuffs to secure her hands behind her back. My favorite outfit on her is when she wears her black shorts because it has belt buckles and I can fasten the restraints through the back belt buckle for more limited movement, and the color of the shorts match that of the restraints; and then a white halter top. This gives me full access to her belly, shoulders, and face so I can make out with her and stuff. She looks hot in that outfit!!

Of course in return, I sometimes wear handcuffs for her. My favorite is a pair of vinyl cuffs that can buckle at any size. I also sometimes wear regular metal handcuffs that has the felt lining.

 

[Wizard]

Intresting, I have thought of picking up a weight bench to put down there too play with also. It sounds like fun.

 

[psiberzerker]

Pad the shit out of it, that's a lot of metal. You can usually find one in Play It Again Sports, or similar seccond hand stores, possdibly pawn, or thrift shops for cheap. They usually come with weights too, but I've been able to get a little knocked off by lying, and saying I already have the weights.
To attach the resraints, I go down tho the nearest hardwarehouse, or boating supply, and get quick links. You cna also screw eyebolts into nut, and washer sets for an anchor point. Some benches have holes pre-drilled in the uprights but you just might have to do this yourself.
While you're there, stop by plumbing and get some foam pipe insulation. We used to beat the crap out of each other as kids with that stuff wrapped around PVC "Swords", and it also works well for padding out metal aparatus. Duct tape over it to keep it in place, and fluid proof it to a degree.
All told, you can do all this for under $100 if you already have the cuffs. Some can be cobbled together (So to speak, I won't explain the Middle English pun) but it would be a bungle compaired to some of the nice stuff available in stores. All else fails, you might have to resort to HotTopic, but be forwarned. THey tend to want your soul as part of their payment plan.

 

[Wizard]

Pad the shit out of it, that's a lot of metal. You can usually find one in Play It Again Sports, or similar seccond hand stores, possdibly pawn, or thrift shops for cheap. They usually come with weights too, but I've been able to get a little knocked off by lying, and saying I already have the weights.
To attach the resraints, I go down tho the nearest hardwarehouse, or boating supply, and get quick links. You cna also screw eyebolts into nut, and washer sets for an anchor point. Some benches have holes pre-drilled in the uprights but you just might have to do this yourself.
While you're there, stop by plumbing and get some foam pipe insulation. We used to beat the crap out of each other as kids with that stuff wrapped around PVC "Swords", and it also works well for padding out metal aparatus. Duct tape over it to keep it in place, and fluid proof it to a degree.
All told, you can do all this for under $100 if you already have the cuffs. Some can be cobbled together (So to speak, I won't explain the Middle English pun) but it would be a bungle compaired to some of the nice stuff available in stores. All else fails, you might have to resort to HotTopic, but be forwarned. THey tend to want your soul as part of their payment plan.

Thanks for the info, we have a Play It Again Sports in our area, but I would have to get the weight to make it look good. I have kids and they won't buy the empty bench alone.
I'm right with ya on the pipe insulation and that works for me.

I have a small acortment of extra hardware I keep on hand for those need a breakable chain link or an extra clip to make something work so attaching hardware is not a problem.


We have a Hot topic also ...what a cool neat place there, makes me feel old too.....All the "Kids" working there expect my son to be the reason we are there and we go for me.......Great to make folks wonder.

Anyhow thanks for sharing the info with me....