Collaring

[SexSweetheart]

Things are fine with me. The visit went very nicely thank you, even got "tied up" a few times.

As for our collaring, there really hasn't been much ceremony involved. Daddy put my first everyday collar on me and claimed me as His. I've since had to change to a different one because of a reaction to the metal in it. Now I have one that's made from leather "string" (for lack of a better description) with a pendant on it. I've had to "paint" the back of the pendant with clear nail polish to keep from reacting to it. (Gotta just love sensitive skin huh? )

When it comes to the play collar, there are two ways that can go. My personal favorite is to bring it to Daddy and for Him to place it around my neck. That really puts me in the correct mindset right away. Other times He will tell me to go put on my collar and cuffs. Also effective but not as quickly.

I hope things go well for him and he will return safe and sound.

 

[SexSweetheart]

SAMMY- smart assed masochist.

Usually someone who pushes boundaries to provoke a response from a dominant partner... it's kind of a game.

Also- a large amount of BDSM based erotica, isn't real.

Example- If Betticus did what he quipped in those few lines, in real life, without his partner's consent- he'd end up in jail for rape charges. If the same occured, but she did willingly consent, and enjoyed things being that rough, he'd be fulfilling a fantasy, and things would most likely be hunkey dorey. Make sense?

Yes, every much so. Not only could it be rape but it could be kidnapping.

 

[callinectes]

Sweetheart..I do understand where you are coming from. I know when I first started learning about BDSM (and I still have a looong way to go) I was very confused and had an insatiable desire to learn more. There are several really good websites you should spend some time in..they are a wealth of info.

http://www.castlerealm.com/

http://www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html (my Dom sent me to this one)

http://www.leathernroses.com/lnrhome.htm

These will get you started. Read all of the articles, they really will help.

 

[SexSweetheart]

Sweetheart..I do understand where you are coming from. I know when I first started learning about BDSM (and I still have a looong way to go) I was very confused and had an insatiable desire to learn more. There are several really good websites you should spend some time in..they are a wealth of info.

http://www.castlerealm.com/

http://www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html (my Dom sent me to this one)

http://www.leathernroses.com/lnrhome.htm

These will get you started. Read all of the articles, they really will help.

Thanks for the sites. I have visited there before, I will go over the new information.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Another question, when you are with your Dom, all other Dom's respect your collar and the position you have with your Dom?



Sexy

We don´t socialise in BDSM circles so it has never been a particular issue. That being said, it has on a couple of occasions been recognised in vanilla settings I strongly suspect for what it is in recent times and was respected as such.

Catalina

 

[SexSweetheart]

We don´t socialise in BDSM circles so it has never been a particular issue. That being said, it has on a couple of occasions been recognised in vanilla settings I strongly suspect for what it is in recent times and was respected as such.

Catalina

I can see that with the awaking public. I have seen the M/s world stated in a number of shows. My mother said, 'she couldn't understand why anyone would do that?"

I told 'I didn't know' because of her age. Didn't know how to tell her that I had an interest in that kind of sexual desires.

 

[SexSweetheart]

Is anyone else willing to tell me about their experience when they were collared or when they collared someone. ​

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I have attended several collarings, I have been the MC for collarings, I have collared a few of mine own over the years. Each collaring ceremony has been unique to the individuals involved, though they share common elements and are usually based on specific cultural patterns depending on the people involved.

Some common cultural traditions that are used for the basis of collaring ceremonies:
Celtic/Handfasting
Native American joining rituals
Weddings
The Ceremony of the Roses

Collaring is a serious declaration of intent between Dominant and submissive or Owner and slave. In many ways however, collaring has been trivialized by the huge influx of people that have become involved in BDSM through the internet. Collaring as a joining between committed partners has become so lacking in meaning in many circles that the phrase "velcro collar" has come into common usage.

Some collaring ceremonies have both Owner and slave exchanging collars, some have the Dominant collar the submissive while the submissive gives the Dominant their leash, some ceremonies feature the pricking of fingers and the exchange or mingling of blood. Some involve the marking of the property, either by tattooing, or branding.

Create your collaring ceremony using the traditions and vows that speak to your heart. If YOU find meaning in it, others will too.

 

[SexSweetheart]

I have attended several collarings, I have been the MC for collarings, I have collared a few of mine own over the years. Each collaring ceremony has been unique to the individuals involved, though they share common elements and are usually based on specific cultural patterns depending on the people involved.

Some common cultural traditions that are used for the basis of collaring ceremonies:
Celtic/Handfasting
Native American joining rituals
Weddings
The Ceremony of the Roses

Collaring is a serious declaration of intent between Dominant and submissive or Owner and slave. In many ways however, collaring has been trivialized by the huge influx of people that have become involved in BDSM through the internet. Collaring as a joining between committed partners has become so lacking in meaning in many circles that the phrase "velcro collar" has come into common usage.

Some collaring ceremonies have both Owner and slave exchanging collars, some have the Dominant collar the submissive while the submissive gives the Dominant their leash, some ceremonies feature the pricking of fingers and the exchange or mingling of blood. Some involve the marking of the property, either by tattooing, or branding.

Create your collaring ceremony using the traditions and vows that speak to your heart. If YOU find meaning in it, others will too.

Thank you for your information.

In these ceremony anything is possible. That is nice to know. I had this idea for a story that had the submissive tatooed publicly before the collaring. It's nice to know that it will work.

 

[SexSweetheart]

Does anyone else wish to share their collaring information or event. http://bestsmileys.com/bath/3.gif

 

[SexSweetheart]

Do you have a collaring story that you would like to tell us about?

 

[SexSweetheart]

Is this a subject that no one is willing to discuss?

 

[chris9]

Collaring is an often-seen topic. Those around who wish to share something about their collar(ing) have probably done so and don't feel like repeating themselves. I did a quick search on collars and got this list (Thanks to RJ for teaching me to use this function ) You might want to read through those threads to find out about the meaning collars have to different folks, if they have permanent ones, how they were collared.

 

[SexSweetheart]

Collaring is an often-seen topic. Those around who wish to share something about their collar(ing) have probably done so and don't feel like repeating themselves. I did a quick search on collars and got this list (Thanks to RJ for teaching me to use this function ) You might want to read through those threads to find out about the meaning collars have to different folks, if they have permanent ones, how they were collared.

I have read through a number of these things, but I would like to know of a personal experience.

Thanks for letting me know why, I get no responses. http://bestsmileys.com/halloween1/4.gif

 

[SexSweetheart]

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[SexSweetheart]

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[MasterPhoenix]

WHen I collared rose, it was just an imtimate thing. She was knelt before Me, and we said vows to one another, her promising her submission to Me, and MY promising to guide her. HTen I fumbled with teh dammed clasp as I closed it...

Then I blindfolded her nad surprised her with a new flogger

It was a very special and powerful moment for the both of us.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

WHen I collared rose, it was just an imtimate thing. She was knelt before Me, and we said vows to one another, her promising her submission to Me, and MY promising to guide her. HTen I fumbled with teh dammed clasp as I closed it...

Then I blindfolded her nad surprised her with a new flogger

It was a very special and powerful moment for the both of us.

*smiles* remembering. wow this is an old thread

 

[SexSweetheart]

*smiles* remembering. wow this is an old thread

it's not that old of a thread and I'm still looking for information about the collaring ceremony to help with a story that I'm working on http://poetrybypj2.com/boops2/new/bb03.gif

 

[lil_slave_rose]

it's not that old of a thread and I'm still looking for information about the collaring ceremony to help with a story that I'm working on http://poetrybypj2.com/boops2/new/bb03.gif

we gave you our ceremony, MasterPhoenix's post tells of our collaring ceremony

 

[red_river_dude]

Sexsweetheart, I don't believe anyone is trying to be rude, but your questions are just a bit... mind boggling. (The very cutsy avatar that reminds me of nursey decor, only adds to the surrealness of your posts.)

I for one, get this very strange fishbowl feeling when I read this thread- like someone has no real interest in BDSM, or the people who practice it, but wants a bunch of easy, black and white answers for a story.

10 minutes of lurking in the forum could have told you Netzach was a Domme, and has a submissive, a slave, and several clients (she's a professional Dome).

Asking someone if they enjoy being a submissive is well... a dead question. Why would someone be submissive if they didn't enjoy it? Reading threads on this board would give you a lot of information about how submissives view themselves, their "place" with regards to BDSM, etc.

I'm still totally confused as to what you are asking, wanting, or expecting from the BDSM forum, through this thread.

CutieMouse I think your statement is so very accurate and very true. When I first came here to this forum I knew without asking that Netzach was a Domme. I also think your assumptions about the original poster are accurate.

Hopefully someday I will find the Domme I seek. Then I can have my first ceremony. Just the thought excites me.

 

[Toa_lin]

Collaring ceremony... hmmm... it kidna went like this, I showed up told her to lift her hair up, she did, i put the collar on her. Short and simple, most wouldn't find much in this, but there was our own special menaing behind it, and sadly since we have an LDR, it's rather short time periods together, so we make the most of them.

 

[esclave_PP]

Hi there! My Master has written a beautiful one (in fact we'll be using it for ourselves in a few months). Happy reading!

Feel free to use it, but please don't copy it in its entirety. If you do use it, please give Master credit. Thanks!

copyright Master PhoenixPrime

Friends, we are here today to bear witness to the collaring of Jennifer by her Husband and Master, Dan. This union is as sacred and full of meaning as any wedding ceremony conducted by non-Lifestyle society.

In fact, in many ways it’s even more so for by submitting to Dan, Jennifer is giving and consigning all of her being; her well being, her training to come to her Master and Husband. Dan, on the other hand, is taking far more responsibility for Jennifer than he would in any conventional non-Lifestyle marriage.

Dan is taking full, deep and total responsibility for Jennifer in all ways, always. He will undertake to train her to become the best obedient submissive and slave that she can become, no small task. He will take responsibility for her well being physical, mental and emotional from this day forth. He will accept the responsibility for punishing her transgressions and for rewarding her when she excels in her submission and slavery. He will give his full support to all of her endeavors outside of the Lifestyle. He will devise ways and activities to show her how he appreciates and enjoys the things she will do for him and the little surprise ways she will devise to give him pleasure or to please him.

Jennifer, hence forth known within the Lifestyle by her slave name of Star, will devote herself to pleasing her Master and Husband in all ways, always for his pleasure is paramount and always comes before her own. Star will do his bidding and fulfill his wishes. His words will become the Laws by which she lives. She will submit to his will for that is the natural order of things within our chosen Lifestyle. Other than the limits that have been already negotiated by them and are Hard Limits for her, there is nothing Star will refuse to do for or with her Master, nothing, for this too is the natural order of things within our chosen Lifestyle.

Before I continue do either of you wish to withdraw from this Collaring Ceremony for any reason what so ever?

Star, kneel before your Husband. Assume the position that displays your full, total, heartfelt and freely given submission to your Master, kneeling at his feet as his willing slave.
Star, do you fully understand the implications of submitting yourself to another and is this your wish?
Star, are you willing to live by Master Dan’s laws and treat his words as the Law by which you will live from now on?
Star, will you willing submit to punishments that your Master may deem appropriate for any transgressions you may commit intentionally or otherwise?
Star, will you strive to be the best slave it’s possible for you to become? Will you place your Master’s pleasure in all things before your own freely, willingly always?
Star, will you do your utmost to support your Master in all of his day to day decisions within and outside of the Lifestyle?
Dan, understanding and realizing the duties and responsibilities of a Master and all that entails, are you prepared to undertake that role for the remainder of your life and guide Star along her path as your collared and owned slave?
Dan, will you endeavor to teach Star to become the best slave she is capable of becoming?
Dan, will you reward Star, as freely, if not more freely, for pleasing you and giving you pleasure as you will punish her for any transgressions of your Laws? Without both of these things she would have no idea if she is progressing in her training or how you see her behavior or if she is transgressing.
Dan, will you support Star in all of the endeavors in which she engages, with your permission and consent, for that is always necessary as you will be her Master, that may be out of the realm of the Lifestyle?
Dan, will you take and accept full responsibility for Star’s physical, mental, and emotional well being from this day forth?

Star, do you fully and willingly agree to live as a collared and owned slave forsaking your own will and needs in favor of your Master’s? If so you may now ask Dan if he will accept you as his Owned Slave.

Dan, are you prepared to accept the truly awesome responsibility for Star as your slave? Will you accept the woman kneeling before you, known within the Lifestyle as Star, from this day forth? Do you wish to accept her as your owned and collared slave? If so then you may then you may accept her submission and her request to become your collared and submissive slave at this time and place your collar of Ownership around her neck.

Please accept this slave leash as my gift to Master and slave. One to lead with and one to follow where Master leads always, in all ways.