Cock Talk

[Deleted member 6592667]

I wish it wasn't different for men to be bi. Women can throw that out and get a ton of attention. Guys mention they are bi and that scares many off. Both men and women. I know just as many women who do not like bi guys as I do men who don't.
For guys. Sometimes I think leading with the label helps weed out the ones who will get weird about it. I know just as many women who do not like bi guys, as men.
So. leading with it helps cut that step out. Women can say bi and it attracts attention. Guys can't throw that label out and still think it'll bring them attention. They know that it'll most likely do the opposite.

If a woman isn't into my bisexuality it's whatever, I just politely remind them that I can suck dick better then they can.

But nah, kidding aside, you're right. The bi label does weed people out which I'm okay with. Ultimately it's whatever. The last thing I want to do is fight for someone's attention. That just sucks.

But I will say there are girls out there that are way WAY into bi dudes. Those are my people. Because they know there are fun times ahead.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

My Avatar name is bisexguy70 is because….
Guywholovessuckingcockbutlovespussytooandisturnedonbybothsexesbutiseasiertojustsuckcockinsteadofemotionallyconnectingwithwoman…..


Was taken

Damn do I love this energy

 

[Endless_Night]

No. I think this goes back to the differences between men and women.

Agreed.

Remember, half of what I say is bullshit. I’m giving you permission to determine which half is which.

Now you're just making me nervous.

 

[Apisto42]

Now you're just making me nervous.

Oh good, successful day. I should probably chalk this up as a win and get off lit for the day.

 

[dontneedone]

'We'? That makes me wonder who is writing the non-con stories that are purportedly written by men.

It feels like the non-con stuff might actually be more of a turn on for women, but that is a huge generalization and one I don't have any facts for. But I've read posts on here from multiple women who talk about sexual fantasies involving them being held down or forced to do something.

Where do you stand? Is that something that turns you on from a fantasy only standpoint?

 

[SassySheDevil]

If a woman isn't into my bisexuality it's whatever, I just politely remind them that I can suck dick better then they can.

But nah, kidding aside, you're right. The bi label does weed people out which I'm okay with. Ultimately it's whatever. The last thing I want to do is fight for someone's attention. That just sucks.

But I will say there are girls out there that are way WAY into bi dudes. Those are my people. Because they know there are fun times ahead.

This reminded me of when I was still new-ish here at Lit. I immediately put "Married" in my profile. Yet some never read them and then would be mad that I was married. That was my way of thinking. "If I put married, then anyone who doesn't want to talk to a married person can just move along before even saying hi"
Because. It got old connecting with someone and then hearing them say "Oh. You're married? I'm not looking for a married person"
Then fucking read!! I put it out there for that exact reason.
-Now I think it is just assumed that 90% of Lit is married

This was the best way I could compare. It has to save (for those who pay attention) some time weeding out the ones who will eventually flake.

 

[Apisto42]

Power play is easily one of the biggest fantasies for men and women, but it’s also one that moving it into the non-con is almost impossible to bring about in reality. I chalk it up as one that should remain in fantasy land. Not everything is better in reality.

 

[deft]

Agreed. The sexiest, most erotic and invigorating word concerning real-life encounters is consent.

 

[Endless_Night]

Power play is easily one of the biggest fantasies for men and women, but it’s also one that moving it into the non-con is almost impossible to bring about in reality. I chalk it up as one that should remain in fantasy land. Not everything is better in reality.

Now see, I would disagree. I've had some...errr...success with force in e-land.

Excuse me for a minute while I die of acute mortification.

It's not necessarily easy, but...yeah, it's doable.

 

[Apisto42]

Now see, I would disagree. I've had some...errr...success with force in e-land.

Excuse me for a minute while I die of acute mortification.

It's not necessarily easy, but...yeah, it's doable.

To be clear, I consider e-land to still reside primarily in fantasy land (granted there is plenty of room for shifting boundaries and how each person defines this nebulous realm we inhabit, especially when taking into account video/phone/other forms of communication).

But never ever in physical contact would I fuck around with non-con. Just no.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

This reminded me of when I was still new-ish here at Lit. I immediately put "Married" in my profile. Yet some never read them and then would be mad that I was married. That was my way of thinking. "If I put married, then anyone who doesn't want to talk to a married person can just move along before even saying hi"
Because. It got old connecting with someone and then hearing them say "Oh. You're married? I'm not looking for a married person"
Then fucking read!! I put it out there for that exact reason.
-Now I think it is just assumed that 90% of Lit is married

This was the best way I could compare. It has to save (for those who pay attention) some time weeding out the ones who will eventually flake.

I've had people be surprised and annoyed when they learned I was married. Sometimes you just can't win.

 

[Endless_Night]

To be clear, I consider e-land to still reside primarily in fantasy land (granted there is plenty of room for shifting boundaries and how each person defines this nebulous realm we inhabit, especially when taking into account video/phone/other forms of communication).

But never ever in physical contact would I fuck around with non-con. Just no.

Oh.

I see. I misunderstood your post.


(In case anyone is wondering, that realization did nothing to alleviate my embarrassment. )

 

[Endless_Night]

All right, Muscles.

I feel we are due another question.

Unless you want to satisfy the clamoring demand for personal pics. In which case I’ll sit here with my notebook and take notes on who squeals the loudest.



(My bets on @SassySheDevil. )

 

[ydahecnot]

Now you’re just trolling me

 

[Endless_Night]

Now you’re just trolling me

Oh. So what you’re really saying is you want Hotwords to post those pics?

 

[ydahecnot]

Oh. So what you’re really saying is you want Hotwords to post those pics?

So you thirsty ladies finally give him a moment’s peace

 

[Endless_Night]

So you thirsty ladies finally give him a moment’s peace

It's okay, Sunny.

You can admit it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Oh. So what you’re really saying is you want Hotwords to post those pics?

Either that or he was offering to post pictures himself.

 

[Endless_Night]

Either that or he was offering to post pictures himself.

Which is it, Sunny Bunny?

 

[ydahecnot]

Which is it, Sunny Bunny?

Y can “post pictures himself,” but not “pictures of himself”

 

[SassySheDevil]

Y can “post pictures himself,” but not “pictures of himself”

Chicken. So does that mean we are back to chanting @hotwords229_A @hotwords229 @hotwords229 ???

haha and I guess I tagged both hotwords names

 

[Trekka]

Looks like I got her just in time

 

[Trekka]

^another good autocorrect. I’m going with it.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

What kind if madness is happening this evening?

 

[Trekka]

What kind if madness is happening this evening?

Hooligans, I tell ya! Ne’er-do-well’s!