COCK SUCKING. embarrassed or proud

[4yourpleasureiam]

I'm kind of embarrassed while in the act, with the simpering moans of delight I may emit while getting all lovey-dovey with a big throbbing dick. Is that really me?

I to am very vocal while making love to a man's cock or when I have my face in a woman pussy. Those are my happiest places to be

 

[J1biboi]

I know. That taste… him thrusting his cock in my throat..

Then it was your friend's fault that you had a bad experience. It was your first time, he should have let you go at your own pace and not cum in your mouth unless you wanted him to. But then you might not have liked it anyway.

 

[SusanHoward]

Um…proud!

 

[DickandDoof]

Um…proud!

How could any cocksucker —male or female — be anything but proud? Getting or giving head is the greatest feeling in the world. If you can give someone that degree of pleasure, you deserve to be proud.

 

[Jeph77]

How could any cocksucker —male or female — be anything but proud? Getting or giving head is the greatest feeling in the world. If you can give someone that degree of pleasure, you deserve to be proud.

It's complicated. We all have a self-image, a local identity. Not shame, but a cognitive dissonance, might be experienced, when you find yourself lip-loving some guy's throbbing boner. Maybe that's what makes it so hot, I don't know.

 

[Kellieskirt]

I guess for me the proud part of it is getting a man off knowing i was able to being him to that point and feeling him pulse and the feeling of the cum as it enters my mouth, the pride in doing that for him and with him if that makes sense

 

[Jeph77]

I guess for me the proud part of it is getting a man off knowing i was able to being him to that point and feeling him pulse and the feeling of the cum as it enters my mouth, the pride in doing that for him and with him if that makes sense

What about these dogs that don't care? They're just boning your skull, slightly amused at how much you love milking him.

 

[Kellieskirt]

Guess I have been lucky enough to have them enjoy it enough to let me know and has not felt like just some random face fucking, there was some rubbing foreplay building up the moment first

 

[Jeph77]

It's complicated. We all have a self-image, a local identity. Not shame, but a cognitive dissonance, might be experienced, when you find yourself lip-loving some guy's throbbing boner. Maybe that's what makes it so hot, I don't know.

or call it cocknitive dickonance

 

[Wanking_Frank]

Maybe during the time period when a person is torn whether pr not to take the plunge, there is some level of embarrassment. Not so after working up the courage to just go for it.

I don’t know of any cases after a person tried it, that they feel any sense of regret

 

[Abdelkaoolomocro]

Then it was your friend's fault that you had a bad experience. It was your first time, he should have let you go at your own pace and not cum in your mouth unless you wanted him to. But then you might not have liked it anyway.

Thank you. It was my idea to donit, to try and understand what it felt like

 

[TheF1x3r]

If you have sucked a cock, is that fact an embarrassment in your life or a source of pride? Has that emotion changed over time?

The mental health demon has been summoned.

I've had a few bottoms who expressed shame afterward, and I had to stamp that right out. I've mostly been with "straight" guys who have caved to their desire to suck cock and get a facial/cum in mouth. I *may* have encouraged a few of them, but part of their arousal template was being talked or tricked into it so we both understood the game.

I usually say this and I believe it to be true: "At worst we tried something and you didn't like it as much as you thought, it doesn't reduce you as a person and it doesn't detract from everything else that you are. I won't ever reveal it to anyone, and you can at least say you tried the thing you had been thinking about and you need never think on it again."

I find that the shame doesn't come from them, it comes from their fear of what others will think. It's nobody else's business though and usually the feeling of shame goes away. I work that into their arousal template like "you're finally accepting that your a cum addict now" and yadda yadda. Really though it's just the realisation that sucking cock is just a part of their sexual identity and there's nothing actually wrong with it.

Some other guys think that sucking dick makes them 100% gay, I don't believe that. I think that "straight" guys who suck dick are just experiencing a psychological arousal to serving another man before going home and being the man they actually are.

I did see a "straight" guy get outed though. That was f'ing brutal and he did not deserve that at all.

For me, the turning point was when I realized that it actually thrilled me to embrace the feelings of humiliation and debasement that being a "Cocksucker" engendered in me. Rather than being offended by these distinctions, I actually glorified in them and looked forward to the next opportunity to become degraded and "used"!! Women complain about being objectified while I aspire to the role. I love being a Cocksucker!!! There's no more thrilling sensation than having my throat being used as a cock sleeve and to be seen as a convenient hole for men to impersonally fuck and ejaculate into. I revel in being orally abused!

I love the word "debasement", it's a far better word to describe the situation we create than simply humiliation.

 

[TheF1x3r]

For me a funny memory. I tried once to suck a friends cock but hated it. He even came in my mouth… never again. Hecstill teases me with it

Then it was your friend's fault that you had a bad experience. It was your first time, he should have let you go at your own pace and not cum in your mouth unless you wanted him to. But then you might not have liked it anyway.

Oooooo... yeah cum is like marmite (vegemite - ehh... strong tasting yeast extract, famously people either love it or hate it)

I usually don't hold back and blow in a subs mouth/give them a facial pretty quick... that said most of my subs know what I'm about.

I can't even imagine someone cumming in my mouth... he shouldn't tease you about it Abdel, that could ruin a friendship.

I don’t know of any cases after a person tried it, that they feel any sense of regret

Me too, aside from someone being outed

 

[friendlyoldman]

Not sure yet... I need to try many more times and then let you know

 

[slipprywenwet]

oooops

 

[Jeph77]

Oooooo... yeah cum is like marmite (vegemite - ehh... strong tasting yeast extract, famously people either love it or hate it)

I usually don't hold back and blow in a subs mouth/give them a facial pretty quick... that said most of my subs know what I'm about.

I can't even imagine someone cumming in my mouth... he shouldn't tease you about it Abdel, that could ruin a friendship.





Me too, aside from someone being outed

But F1x3r, what gets you off. What's that sweet spot that trips you over into orgasm, that hot trigger that unleashes your nugget? What is the essence of the fantasy that gets you there. Is it altruistic, a crusade to dissolve ambiguity in your tangy elixer, oh fixer?

 

[TheF1x3r]

But F1x3r, what gets you off. What's that sweet spot that trips you over into orgasm, that hot trigger that unleashes your nugget? What is the essence of the fantasy that gets you there. Is it altruistic, a crusade to dissolve ambiguity in your tangy elixer, oh fixer?

haha, there are too many things to list

1) having my cock sucked

2) cumming in mouths

3) cumming on faces

4) turning men into women (there's something hot about a "straight guy" sucking cock for the first time and then a few months later he is wearing make up, sitting on my knee, wearing a skirt, responding to "princess" and following commands)

 

[J1biboi]

Thank you. It was my idea to donit, to try and understand what it felt like

He still should have treated you better. I've only sucked one cock too, and like you, it was my idea. I asked him if I could suck his cock because I had always wondered what it would be like, but unlike you, it was a pleasant experience and I liked it. I would gladly suck more if I ever get the chance.

 

[TheF1x3r]

I would gladly suck more if I ever get the chance.

The good thing about "working with men" is that you'll nearly always get the chance.

Though that said, one of my subs told me he struggled to find someone who just wanted a blowjob. A lot of gay guys won't just take a blowjob, they want to return the favour or something more. I always found that kinda weird; who the fuck turns down a free blowjob?

 

[Abdelkaoolomocro]

He still should have treated you better. I've only sucked one cock too, and like you, it was my idea. I asked him if I could suck his cock because I had always wondered what it would be like, but unlike you, it was a pleasant experience and I liked it. I would gladly suck more if I ever get the chance.

I onow, but it was a friendly teasing

 

[BrokenQuill]

or call it cocknitive dickonance

I love that phrase. I will have to see if I can use it in general conversation over the weekend

 

[Flanast]

Nothing better than when I’m told that I suck better than his wife or gf. I was told this the last time I blew my neighbor on Wednesday.

 

[Cherylinheels]

Sucking cock is about pleasing your partner, deriving pleasure from satisfying him. I don't really think about feeling embarrassed or proud just happy and maybe a little empowered about being able to bring him to orgasm.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Um…proud!

Quite Rightly So...

 

[michaelinteas]

haha, there are too many things to list

1) having my cock sucked

2) cumming in mouths

3) cumming on faces

4) turning men into women (there's something hot about a "straight guy" sucking cock for the first time and then a few months later he is wearing make up, sitting on my knee, wearing a skirt, responding to "princess" and following commands)

I just love reading from the prospective of a dominant man.