Cock Milking

[shy slave]

Have been researching into milking a cock and found a number of articles on it.

I was wondering if anyone has tried milking a cock that is held in a chastity device as described here?

"Milking in terms of chastity is concerned with orgasm denial, ejaculation without orgasm. The technique used is the same prostate massage method, the only difference is that the penis is not to be aroused or excited by touch, and usually remains locked within the chastity belt or cage. This is something many keyholders like to introduce, and now with the news of the Australian study your keyholder can insist it's for the benefit of your health. You have no reason to refuse!"


I also found this comment on the same site.
Does anyone know if long term damage can do done if the prostate is over stimulated or inadvertently hurt by a vigorous toy?

"However, vigorous prostatic massage may be very dangerous. Be sure to relax COMPLETELY your abdomen during massage. Do it completely and slowly! As regards technique: do not push in one place; rather move from lateral to the center line of gland. Pushing at one place only can damage that area, especially if you are pushing very hard. Remember that for some men, massage can be beneficial even when it is a massage of the muscles," surrounding the prostate, rather than the gland itself.

The site also sells prostate toys, which look like female G-spot toys.
http://www.chastity-uk.co.uk/prostate.htm

 

[Shankara20]

*note to self - watch this thread*


note to shy - I am very very sorry to say I have no experience with this



- yet!


(welcome back)

 

[shy slave]

*note to self - watch this thread*


note to shy - I am very very sorry to say I have no experience with this



- yet!


(welcome back)

Damn!

I was relying on you having done, this tried this and being an expert on every toy made.

Thank you for wb

 

[Shankara20]

Damn!

I was relying on you having done, this tried this and being an expert on every toy made.

Thank you for wb

I have done many many things involving my prostate, by myself and with friends, butt alas not milking.

And all the chastity devises I used involve rope, you have seen most of the pics.

I know it is difficult to find out that heros have limitations, but I am only human and so far can't teach my cats to do the massage movement - and then there is that concern about their claws....

(did you have a successful trip? I have been away from Lit much this week, did you post stories in some other thread? and the pics? where are the pics?)

 

[Andante]

.....
I was wondering if anyone has tried milking a cock that is held in a chastity device as described here?......

Personally I don't care much about "anyone". I am just wondering who you think you are going to try this on?
Need I remind you of the c-word....?

 

[Shankara20]

*note to self - be very careful what I say about volunteering to help in any way at allllllll*


hee hee

 

[Netzach]

I have a little experience with this, haven't lined up the milking and chastity parts because frankly long term chastity bores me. I like chastity to the begging and insane stage and I like chastity as an orgasm enhancement. I imagine repeated milking and looong duration is kind of a eunuch-making gesture, that after a few months the urgency around orgasm might dry up a bit...

boring! Urgency's where it's at.

That said, with a cock and an ass, I'm going to try everything I can try with each and so is M (he's of Shank's school of thought as a user if not always owner-operator )

I spend some time periodically rooting around in M with my hands. I've caused a few drops to leech out, but nothing I'd consider a full load of ejaculate yet. It's kinda fascinating, but like most things, it's not as dramatic as the erotic tales would have you think and it doesn't seen quite as interesting a prospect for sexual control, but YMMV.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Orgasm without ejaculation

I have posted about this in the past.


A lot of this technique can be used to improve premature ejaculation.

But if you want definitive training, research tantric masturbation.

It is the art of teaching men to orgasm without ejaculation. With enough practice (and patience) a man can learn to be multiorgasmic.

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

However, if you just want to fuck with them, use it for milking...lol.

 

[mcgill82ferret]

Not exactly as you describe.

Within a chastity device (CB 2000) some small tool, such as a lubed Q-Tip can be used to massage the underside of the cock just below the head sufficiently enough to cause orgasm. It is a most unsatisfying event as there is minimal contact (no warm feeling surrounding or stroking of the cock) and the confines of the cage prevent achiving erection and also cause some pain as one cannot help but try to flex the muscle fruitlessly to make it harder. I find it leaves me begging helplessly for the affection that is normally experienced with orgasm. Thus I find it both physically and emotionaly dissapointing, as I understand, milking is supposed to be.

Of course a condom can be applied to the cock below the cage incase the cocks owner has future plans for the load of ejaculate.

 

[Wizard]

Wonderful topic and here is a link to a wonderful thread.....

Search feature is awesome....

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=98657&page=1&pp=25

 

[shy slave]

Personally I don't care much about "anyone". I am just wondering who you think you are going to try this on?
Need I remind you of the c-word....?

Ohhhhh


I need to explain.

I spend far too much time thinking about cocks, dreaming about cocks and generally working out ways to give a cock pleasure.

Out of those kind of thoughts I ended up reading about cock milking, and in particular what effect it has when the cock cannot become erect.

So these questions are not because I want to cage YOUR cock, but more a curiosity value from which I can get knowledge on how to give you pleasure.

Of course, if you fall asleep (and you sleep very heavily), I could practise putting a cock cage on/off just in case there ever comes a time to need such a skill


Am I off the hook? Or did I just make things worse???

 

[shy slave]

Net and EB Thank you for helping me out with my questions.

I am interested to read it is not as dramatic as tales would have you think.

I don't want to know about it as a means of controlling his orgasm, it is more about extending the pleasure of it. However the idea of a cock being in a chastity device and being milked fascinates me. It sounds like an agony/ecstasy thing beyond my own understanding.

mcgill82ferret Thank you for your honesty. I am not a Domme (I guess that is obvious from my name ), but I am interested in extending the pleasure a cock can take. Your description of it being disappointing puts me off trying to learn such a technique to enhance his pleasure.

Wizard Thank you for that great link, I am glad I am not alone in my interest in this. Plus it is good to see you back

Shank I have been wondering about how you could actually do the massage yourself. I know from you have tried many things, but I am confused. I would have thought a vibe on a low setting would have given the massage movement? Please excuse my ignorance, but why doesn't that work?
Other things that have crossed my mind is attaching a dildo to a ball (or melon) and sort of sitting on it without putting your weight on it, using the rolling action of the ball to make massage movement.

Ok I think that sort of proves I have spent too long thinking about this.....

 

[the captians wench]

Ohhhhh


I need to explain.

I spend far too much time thinking about cocks, dreaming about cocks and generally working out ways to give a cock pleasure.

Out of those kind of thoughts I ended up reading about cock milking, and in particular what effect it has when the cock cannot become erect.

So these questions are not because I want to cage YOUR cock, but more a curiosity value from which I can get knowledge on how to give you pleasure.

Of course, if you fall asleep (and you sleep very heavily), I could practise putting a cock cage on/off just in case there ever comes a time to need such a skill


Am I off the hook? Or did I just make things worse???

*watches and giggles*

 

[shy slave]

*watches and giggles*

Oh yes, you are a great help!!!!

 

[Shankara20]

Shank I have been wondering about how you could actually do the massage yourself. I know from you have tried many things, but I am confused. I would have thought a vibe on a low setting would have given the massage movement? Please excuse my ignorance, but why doesn't that work?
Other things that have crossed my mind is attaching a dildo to a ball (or melon) and sort of sitting on it without putting your weight on it, using the rolling action of the ball to make massage movement.

Thank you for your concern about my prostate shy. There are many ways to stimulate a prostate, and I have used many. The one I enjoy the most involves moving an electrical current (for those new to this idea there are many threads that talk about it and please understand that if not done correctly there is risk of severe bodily harm, done correctly there can be orgasm while never touching your cock).

The "milking" massage, as I understand it, requires direct finger/prostate and the ability for fine pressure control.

"Other things that have crossed my mind is attaching a dildo to a ball (or melon) and sort of sitting on it without putting your weight on it, using the rolling action of the ball to make massage movement."

That sort of action is wonderful indeed, as is a vibrating dildo, however I don't think that would be the same as "milking".

 

[shy slave]

Thank you for your concern about my prostate shy. There are many ways to stimulate a prostate, and I have used many. The one I enjoy the most involves moving an electrical current (for those new to this idea there are many threads that talk about it and please understand that if not done correctly there is risk of severe bodily harm, done correctly there can be orgasm while never touching your cock).

The "milking" massage, as I understand it, requires direct finger/prostate and the ability for fine pressure control.

"Other things that have crossed my mind is attaching a dildo to a ball (or melon) and sort of sitting on it without putting your weight on it, using the rolling action of the ball to make massage movement."

That sort of action is wonderful indeed, as is a vibrating dildo, however I don't think that would be the same as "milking".

A stupid question, but why wouldn't a vibe be able to allow you to get to a point of being able to milk your cock.

I wish I understood the delicate mechanics of this.

I have seen the pics and read the text ,but without a cock and prostate with which to spend time examining and figuring out I just don't really understand.


Its a bit like discovering Action man or Ken has movable arms and legs, but no other moving parts with which to discover new things

*sigh*

 

[Shankara20]

A stupid question, but why wouldn't a vibe be able to allow you to get to a point of being able to milk your cock.

I wish I understood the delicate mechanics of this.

I have seen the pics and read the text ,but without a cock and prostate with which to spend time examining and figuring out I just don't really understand.


Its a bit like discovering Action man or Ken has movable arms and legs, but no other moving parts with which to discover new things

*sigh*

It is not about milking a cock, it is about milking the prostate, that is to say, to make cum come out of a cock without touching the cock at all.

When I hear "milk your cock." I think of a hand job, more-or-less. When a guy cums the vast majority of the fluid comes from the prostate, where it is stored just hanging out till the next orgasm. "Milking a prostate" takes finger massage directly on the prostate from inside the bum to cause the fluid to be released to exit the body fro the cock. A vibrator does not bend in the right way to get to the prostate once inside the bum - a finger does bend very nicely. There are some bum toys designed to make that little bend and reach the prostate.

Bum toys can get me very excited, but it usually takes a hand on a cock to "deliver the milk", electro play aside.

 

[shy slave]

It is not about milking a cock, it is about milking the prostate, that is to say, to make cum come out of a cock without touching the cock at all.

When I hear "milk your cock." I think of a hand job, more-or-less. When a guy cums the vast majority of the fluid comes from the prostate, where it is stored just hanging out till the next orgasm. "Milking a prostate" takes finger massage directly on the prostate from inside the bum to cause the fluid to be released to exit the body fro the cock. A vibrator does not bend in the right way to get to the prostate once inside the bum - a finger does bend very nicely. There are some bum toys designed to make that little bend and reach the prostate.

Bum toys can get me very excited, but it usually takes a hand on a cock to "deliver the milk", electro play aside.

Thank you for explaining that.

It makes much more sense now.

That site I found does have those toys that appear to go around corners, it looks like a slightly longer g spot toy.

I am wary of toys going to places I am not familiar with, I would not want to cause pain or damage.

Perhaps if I ever get the chance to experiment I could use a finger or a hand or my whole arm......

 

[shy slave]

Does anyone know anything about dangers of trying this or any long term damage that can be caused by trying to give someone pleasure this way?

 

[Shankara20]

Perhaps if I ever get the chance to experiment I could use a finger or a hand or my whole arm......

"fisting" - oh my....

but that is not what we are talking about noe, is it??

 

[shy slave]

"fisting" - oh my....

but that is not what we are talking about noe, is it??

no, but we can if you want to

I have small hands and would love to try being fisted.

Every time Etoile writes about it I learn more.

Theory however, is not the same as practice.

I tried self fisting once (I think Etoile described how to...), I nearly ended up doing alot of damage to myself. Thank God I didn't need the ER!

I became unbalanced in my efforts and fell off the bed with my hand partially inside me.

I didn't know whether to laugh or cry.
I was sore for days, and every time I thought about why, I blushed lol

 

[Shankara20]

no, but we can if you want to

I have small hands and would love to try being fisted.

Every time Etoile writes about it I learn more.

Theory however, is not the same as practice.

I tried self fisting once (I think Etoile described how to...), I nearly ended up doing alot of damage to myself. Thank God I didn't need the ER!

I became unbalanced in my efforts and fell off the bed with my hand partially inside me.

I didn't know whether to laugh or cry.
I was sore for days, and every time I thought about why, I blushed lol

With those small hands did you ever consider fisting a guy?

When I was learning how to give and receive and hand I attended a class in anal fisting once and the guy being fisted said that you know you have it bad when the first thing you notice on someone new you are being introduced to is the size of their hands. I tend to look at hand size right away.

From you adventures in self-fisting to trying to see how much your booby weights its lucky you have not yet killed yourself.

 

[shy slave]

With those small hands did you ever consider fisting a guy?

When I was learning how to give and receive and hand I attended a class in anal fisting once and the guy being fisted said that you know you have it bad when the first thing you notice on someone new you are being introduced to is the size of their hands. I tend to look at hand size right away.

From you adventures in self-fisting to trying to see how much your booby weights its lucky you have not yet killed yourself.

I have never thought of fisting a man. I am selfish that way. Its all me, me, me, me.

You know you are right, my ventures into BDSM things as a solo act are hazardous to my health.

But they make me laugh at my own stupidity lol

(as an aside, the spell check doesn't like the word 'fisting')

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Dear Andante,

I am sure the last few posts by your Miss Shy is just one massive typo and what she was really alluding to is best served by studying the picture below.

As you can see the cock is trusting and being confidently led for milking.

Kind regards

@}-}rebecca-----

http://i100.photobucket.com/albums/m14/rebecca222_2006/cockmilking.jpg