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I might be butting in here :confused: I really feel for you guys in this situation, but believe me there are a lot of woman that really dont care about the size of a mans penis. I know I sure don't. We want to be treated right in and out of the bed. So if you are kind and loving and treat a woman right you will be fine. I know there are some woman out there who do care about size but they are in the same catagory as the men who care about breast size. Odds are you will run into those types of people in your life, so what, shrug it off and move on with your life. I know it will bruise your self esteme for a while, like I have had mine done many times, but we heal and get over it. Take the positive in everything that happens to you, and let the negative go. I know its not that easy but you need to be yourself in life, otherwise you will never be happy. None of this probably helped but I hope it lets you know there are woman out here that want more in there life then just a big penis (actually they scare me:eek: )

hugs and :kiss: 's :heart: Laine
 
Oh yes and I dont think any man or woman should change what they are given. I know I would be scared of the lose in feeling that I have heard you can loose. I am not a man so who knows maybe you wouldnt mind loosing feeling in your penis but I sure know I would not want to loose the feeling in my nipples just to please a man. I mean who knows maybe some of these pills or exercises could lead to no more erections or something I dont think its worth the risk. Small penis verses no erection hummm I'd chose small penis if I where a man.
Just my opinion thanks for reading:p Laine
 
I figured I'd run into that. Look, I really appreciate your response and your ?sympathy? but I don't do this for any one but myself.

Really.

You know, when it comes to this type of subject (sex) I'm pretty open minded. I don't come down on other people for doing what turns them on. I have a room mate who is a cross dresser. For me to do this (dress as a woman) would be somewhat repugnant but I keep this to myself.

Again, I really appreciate ya'lls responses and the time it took to read this thread. I was sincerely hoping more open minds would prevail, especially here.

covertness
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covertness said:
I figured I'd run into that. Look, I really appreciate your response and your ?sympathy? but I don't do this for any one but myself.

Really.

You know, when it comes to this type of subject (sex) I'm pretty open minded. I don't come down on other people for doing what turns them on. I have a room mate who is a cross dresser. For me to do this (dress as a woman) would be somewhat repugnant but I keep this to myself.

Again, I really appreciate ya'lls responses and the time it took to read this thread. I was sincerely hoping more open minds would prevail, especially here.

covertness
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Oh I am sorry if you took me wrong. I really ment no harm. I just ment for the ones that have not done anything to change don't worry about, and for the ones willing to take the risk then great as long as what you said "you do it for yourself" I really do have a open mind and its so easy for me to say looking from the outside that I wouldn't do it because, to be honest, I probably would:D I give you my apologies again and good luck:rose:
 
open minds?

i'm sorry, but i think we're plenty open enough.

what would you like? for someone to say try the surgical procedure cause it makes you look two inches longer? down pills till they make you sick or have some random side effect?

if it works for you and that's what you ABSOLUTELY DESPERATELY want, great... best wishes.

but it's the same with similar threads as well like if a woman asks about getting implants or anything like that... most responses will say don't cause you should love the way you are. that's not being closed minded.

and please, don't say a woman possibly couldn't understand. society criticizes a woman for EVERYTHING. her face, makeup, hair, breasts, a bit of fat on her tummy, large hips, thighs, not long enough legs, shaving/waxing/being hairless, how pretty her feet look in sandals... it goes on and on and on.

women have responded by saying small penises are nothing to worry about. believe us if you want or stick with possibly being brainwashed by what "everyone else" thinks.

good luck
 
Weren't the makers of that Longitude stuff recently busted in Arizona by the Feds for something??? I could've swore the government cracked down on them for something bordering onthe illegal side.
 
Awesome thread, guys. Thirstquencher, you put in words exactly what was on my mind. My wife cheated on me as well because of my inadequacy, and that has simply made it even worse by creating a terrible case of mental impotence. I feel that even if I am hard, I am not good enough, so I can't even get hard. And I'm 28. I considered longitude, but found this info...

http://www.phoenix.bbb.org/common.h...php&bureau=phoenix&compid=15002941&national=Y

In May 2002, the Arizona Attorney General's office filed a Civil Forfeiture Action accusing the operators of C.P. Direct, Michael Consoli, Geraldine Consoli, and Vincent Passafiume of fraud, theft, money laundering and racketeering. In conjunction with the U.S. Customs Service and the Arizona Department of Public Safety over $30 million in assets were seized. In addition, a receiver has been appointed to take over the business who has stopped orders from being received or filled. This matter is pending

How did you get past the mental impotence, thirstquencher? It's tearing us apart =(
 
exvitermini

Good Question, How did I get past the mental impotency? I haven’t yet :( .

That is the entire problem. I do not feel confident enough to stop beating myself up over this. The mental impotence started in December of 1998 and continues to this day.

However I have found a few things that help to alleviate the problem. I did a lot of soul searching and realized that I like being on the aggressive side and role-playing and fantasies work also. The role-play that we do is a daddy/daughter fantasy. My S/O is 35, I am saying this before someone thinks that it is with a minor. Please understand I NEVER fantasize about someone else when we are being intimate.

I do have a couple of fantasies that I think about that help some but the big part is she really understands the impotency problem and helps me with it. OH, and when the Johnson won't rise to the occasion, I just lick and lick and lick and lick some more until she pushes my head away and her legs are quivering. I licked and sucked and kissed for over an hour one night, she was the one that fell asleep first, with her head on my chest and damn near purring like a kitten. I was counting her orgasms and lost count at 18. Yes, this was a very memorable night because she was completely satisfied.

Talk with your partner and see if both of you can come up with a few wild scenarios to act upon. You should both agree that anything goes in your fantasy. The idea is to come up with something that will start to make the old Willie rise before you know it.

A few examples would be, maybe you secretly want to watch Snow White get gang banged by the seven dwarves, or the three pigs humping away on the wolf. As you can see, the idea is to get so wild and crazy that you have no choice but to get a Woodie. With some patience it will start to work out. My problem is only present about 50% of the time now.

But I still want it bigger even if it is just for ME.

Sorry that I am so long winded.

;)
 
I think the point (for me) in which I got "really" self conscience about my penis size was about 3 years ago when My Aunts was Dating a guy. One night she came home and told everybody about how small his penis was.

She said then and always says "It doesn't matter the size of a man's penis as long as he can eat good pussy". She always says it just like that.

They broke up, reason being because one night when they we're having sex he was getting ready to go down on here and found out how wet she was and was turned off by it, so (and this is what she tells us) that is why they broke up.

The thing that gets me however is that the whole time they we're going out she never once said anything about his small penis, but as soon as they broke up, she made a total machary (hope I spell that right) of the whole thing.

So ever since then I feel that if i open myself to a girl and Get (rejected, dumped, etc) that I will become my aunts ex boyfriend and I just dont want that to happen. So I shelter myself from that.
 
Laineforfun said:
I might be butting in here :confused: I really feel for you guys in this situation, but believe me there are a lot of woman that really dont care about the size of a mans penis. I know I sure don't. We want to be treated right in and out of the bed. So if you are kind and loving and treat a woman right you will be fine. I know there are some woman out there who do care about size but they are in the same catagory as the men who care about breast size. Odds are you will run into those types of people in your life, so what, shrug it off and move on with your life. I know it will bruise your self esteme for a while, like I have had mine done many times, but we heal and get over it. Take the positive in everything that happens to you, and let the negative go. I know its not that easy but you need to be yourself in life, otherwise you will never be happy. None of this probably helped but I hope it lets you know there are woman out here that want more in there life then just a big penis (actually they scare me:eek: )

hugs and :kiss: 's :heart: Laine
Laine: I agree with you it is not the size of the boat in motion in the ocean, but the size of the motion of the boat in the ocean. There are other appendages that can lead to many pleasurable moments for the ladies. Think about it guys.
 
:devil:

A truly open mind would be open to all ideas. Not just to their own closed minded opinion that size matters to all women. It does not. Many women do prefer average to smaller cocks, especially when it comes to anal play.

Open your mind to the possibilities instead of closing it to a genuine comment from one of the ladies only interested in stating her opinion.

Think about it.
 
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thirstquencher said:

I am 7 inches long and thicker than average and my divorce was a direct result from my ex wife looking for bigger, longer and fatter. When we were young she was very happy with my size however near the end of our 23 years together she started running around cheating on me. When I confronted her about the reason; guess what she had the nerve to tell me? I want to feel totally stuffed, the fatter and longer the better.

In other words, your wife was stupid! WTF? I have NEVER known a woman who thought 7 inches wasn't enough.

Okay, that being said, I understand what you're saying. It's sad but understandable. Women get it with the images we're constantly bombarded with on TV and in magazines. Believing you have to look a certain way, including size, to get someone to 'want' you.

Hearing 'most women don't care about penis size' is akin to women hearing 'most men don't care about a woman's looks/dress size/tit size, etc.' But it's true - women who aren't trying to find 'something' to fulfill her mentally will be happy with you physically.

You should have bought the dumb wench that was your wife one of those 15 inch arm sized dildos as a divorce present.
 
TheSmallestGuy said:
Now this obviously had a positive and negative impact on me. Yes the positive was that I got off, but the negative was there I just hated my size so much more after seeing how big those guys were.

Between that and after all the years of having heard "Size Matters". It has gotten me to an almost Deep Depressive state. I mean I will tell you right now, I am a virgin, a real one, because of this. My Theory is that no matter how good I look, no matter how much I impress "Her", Once I get her into bed and she sees what I have "or lack there of" she is going to reject me and I fear that that rejection will be so embarrasing and I will be so heart broken, that I will never ever want to even look at a girl ever again.

Oh, honey...your post brought tears to my eyes.

Pornos are a great ego deflater and is a bad judge of 'real' penis size. There are a lot of men out there are bigger than you but there are also men who are smaller. ALWAYS have to look positive.

How are you going to meet Mrs. Right if you hide away? My theory, do you want to hear it? Too bad, you're getting it anyway. ;) You need to, slowly, get into the game. Take baby steps, it's going to be hard if you've become a loner but DO IT. Don't look at every woman as a possible sex partner. You will eventually meet someone who will be SO blown away by you that she won't care if your penis is the size of your belly-button. Most important, communicate! And remember, there's more than one way to skin a...well, you know. I don't want the animal lovers attacking me. :D

If you take nothing else away from your porno watching experience, remember this - they have shown you there are other ways to get off other than sex. Prove to her that you're willing to do whatever it takes to get her off and she will love you regardless.

I know this won't matter now but please at least consider some of what I've said.

:kiss:
 
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Okay, I have a story to tell and yes, it's a true story.

I have an ex-friend who constantly talked about how she need to have a 'hung' man, there was nothing a little dick man could do for her, etc. I used to just shake my head at her.

She recently came across a man who was 'hung' and RAN! She refused to even touch it. Now, considering how stupid she tried to make me feel for my belief that size doesn't matter - do you think I let her live that one down? She realized that 'normal' was just fine.

Just wanted to share.
 
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Blackbich said:

I have NEVER known a woman who thought 7 inches wasn't enough.


There are FAR FAR more than you would expect. I think you will find many guys will be jerks to your face, and around their friends etc...but women LIE about this. It's that whole being sensative thing. They give a LOT of lip service to the whole size doesn't matter bit but their actions speak louder than words.

This just doesn't go for penis size, I've noticed this all the time with height. I'm about 5'7 and while I feel plenty comfortable with my penis size and would never change that, I'd change my height in a hearbeat if I could.

Anyhow the fact of the matter is whatever people's expectations are they should be honest with themselves AND their prospective partners so they can either agree to accept that level of shallowness or walk away then. Too many men AND women give lip service to something or the other not being an issue then a year down the road quote that one thing they were so accepting about in the beginning as the reason for moving on.
 
Synnerman said:
:devil:

A truly open mind would be open to all ideas. Not just to their own closed minded opinion that size matters to all women. It does not. Many women do prefer average to smaller cocks, especially when it comes to anal play.

Open your mind to the possibilities instead of closing it to a genuine comment from one of the ladies only interested in stating her opinion.

Think about it.

Thank you Syn;) At least someone doesn't think I am closed minded:D
 
bknight2602 said:

Laine: I agree with you it is not the size of the boat in motion in the ocean, but the size of the motion of the boat in the ocean. There are other appendages that can lead to many pleasurable moments for the ladies. Think about it guys.

Exactly:D Its all the motion:D
 
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dreamer0919 said:


There are FAR FAR more than you would expect.

Really? What do you mean their actions speak louder than their words?




Anyhow the fact of the matter is whatever people's expectations are they should be honest with themselves AND their prospective partners so they can either agree to accept that level of shallowness or walk away then. Too many men AND women give lip service to something or the other not being an issue then a year down the road quote that one thing they were so accepting about in the beginning as the reason for moving on.

I do agree with you there. Honestly beats all else where everything is concerned including sex.
 
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Blackbich said:


Really? What do you mean their actions speak louder than their words?


I mean I have been witness to plenty of women who talk about it not mattering but go off and screw around on their bf's to get a 'bigger' guy, or dump guys citing they want exactly what was stated earlier 'totally stuffed.'

All kinds of people suck, men, women, young, old. I'm not saying women are any different better or worse than men. But there ARE plenty of women who are just as shallow as the worst of men.

I just wish the good people out there, men and women would not bother wasting their time with people like this. Why should we? Guys get over it, if a woman thinks you're too small then let her go find something better. Her loss. Gals if some guy tells you you're too fat you don't need him anyhow. It makes me so sad to think how horribly shallow and inconsiderate people are at times.

Thats what I meant BB. By the way I liked your story...but take a look at the men you describe...to a guy 5'7 with a gymnasts build instead of 6'2 and a firemans build it's a VERY similar situation to how the stories of women who are a size 4 with HUGE tits must seem to women with a more natural fuller look. But I DO distinguish between fantasy and reality so no harm no foul...just an example.
 
Question for Covertness: When you did the pills and exercises, did your penis get more thicker at the upper end of your shaft than the base of your shaft? You said that all this is meant to push blood to the end of your penis so does it get bigger only on the farther end or does it even out proportionally?
And just another question out of curiousity, any significant increases in girth yet?

Thanks for your postings.
 
sorry pizzaman

I stated that I was out of this one. I only keep visiting 'cause I get an e-mail every time someone posts on this thread. (for you civilian types, out means out as in gone, casper, later, etc.)

If I understand correctly, this is a "How To" thread right? Seems as if it really isn't. Just look at the majority of the posts here.

Pizzaman, if your interested in this, focus on the exercises. In regards to the pills, I'm not a Doctor so I can't give you a definite answer regarding their effectiveness one way or another. I take them for the hell of it. The ingredients are natural, been doing them for almost 8 months and no extraneous body parts are falling off. In regards to the exercises, they are based on an Arabian method based on jelqing which they have been doing for hundreds of years. Last I checked, they all still have a complete compliment of fingers and toes. Mentally, well, I'll leave that for you to decide. I'm predisposed to a massive use of napalm to fix that. Then again, they did preserve the knowlege of ancient Greece and Rome for us through the Middle Ages. lol

Next you should determine why you want to do this. If it is for someone else, I believe this is the wrong motivation. It should be for you and you alone. Period. Just as a woman who wishes to have her brests inhanced. If it will make her feel better about herself; go for it. If it is for a significant other, tell that person to phuck off. Your body, your choice, not someone else's. I don't do this because I think a woman will enjoy me better. I do this for me and me alone. I never had any complaints at 6 inches, sex isn't necessarily any/much better at 7 3/4 inches either. That part is all in your head.

For those who want to send flames my way......

yeah, whatever.

Let's try this one more time for those not paying attention to the "How To" part....

Covetness
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sorry pizzaman

I didn't answer your question. No girth gains, just length. If you want info on the pills I take, go to
http://virilitypills.com/
There's an explanation section on their home page. It's made by a company called EyeFive, Inc. out of Van Nuys, CA

For info on the exercises go to
http://www.pheromonepotions.com/maletips/

If you can access it great. If not, it might be because I'm a purchaser of the former's product. Let me know if you have any troubles.
 
Not to sure, here but, yes, large is fun.. Breast, penis size, legs.. Personally I love big breasts, I'm not well endoed, 9", but it gets up when I need him.

You have to learn your lover, learn her tastes, positions, angles. There to touch her, lick, nibble, karess.. If you do it right, you don't even need to be in her to get her off..

And to really make them forget what you've got in your pants, learn to give a massage..
 
Dr.O said:
Not to sure, here but, yes, large is fun.. Breast, penis size, legs.. Personally I love big breasts, I'm not well endoed, 9", but it gets up when I need him.

I'm sure you will just hate to hear this... but... 9" is very well endowed. Sorry to break it to you bud.

- PBW
 
okay so i know that i am going to take some heat for this one, but here goes anyway. I agree with both Dr.O and PB on this one.

Dr.O because he is right that i can cum without anyone inside of me and a really stand out massage can be better than sex at times.

as to the well endowed, i just happen to agree PB on that one.

honesty is the best policy, and there are good and bad in both sexes. everyone has the potential to be shallow about something.
 
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