Cock bondage

[Miss_Adagio]

Hi,

Just a quick question - My partner and I saw on a BDSM porn this Domme who tied up this guys cock to make it more sensitive to any touch. I am really keen to try it and have searched the library but can't find any instructions (lot's of other stuff I'm keen to try but not that).

Could someone advise where I could find some info or if I am blind and have missed the library thread?

Thanks!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Perhaps search here and elsewhere under CBT (cock and ball torture) or cock bondage.

Catalina

 

[Netzach]

There is a lovely book called the Family Jewels by a gay leatherman which is all about what is safe and not to do to the equipment and some tips for doing it.

You can have him experiment on himself some, and then show you what he did. I actually find this works nicely as a jumping off point.

If you're damaging anything by torquing it your penis holder will let you know and loudly! Nothing you do as a tentative and careful beginner with a shoelace is probably going to be damaging - keep the lines of communication open as you explore this.

And it's true, if you tie off an erection somewhat firmly, you will have seriously increased his sensitivity. For fun or for torments of your choosing.

Just be sure that you take your tight bondage off in a reasonable amount of time, 15 min or so at most for maximum safe.

There are some good tips out there on the web too, I know the frugaldomme site was always great for how-tos.

Here's one, it's a bitch to navigate the site, but it's good:
http://www.frugaldomme.com/esoteric/techni11.htm

 

[wild_wolfie]

Some search terms:
CBT
"Cock and Ball Torture"
"how to"

There are plenty of websites with information on CBT. But I would recommend experimentation. For just starting out I would recommend:
- using a thick cord/rope (1/4" or larger)
- tie only what you can untie
- do not leave bindings in place more than 15 minutes until you find your limits (mentioned earlier)
- ask others specifically what they like and don't like or read stories

 

[Miss_Adagio]

Ahhh, thank you, didn't know the term CBT. I've got some good starting points now.... I'm sure my partner will be thanking you later tonight