Hello all Lit member. My enchantress sub and I recently discovered the pleasure of cnc roleplay. Both of us have a wonderful time in our roleplay and I would like to know if anyone is interested in sharing their first experience with such play? More specifically I would like to know the easiest way to get past the uneasiness of the play. In real life no means no. Any advice, and/or interest in sharing the roleplay and how you overcame using force?
Cnc roleplay
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No means no is translated into a special word that is used when you're doing it I have a submissive that I have relationships with nipple Clips dildos vibrators tying her down blindfolding her she likes to be teased as well as spanked have one ever nipples pulled twisted humiliated verbally taking anally and vaginally having your mouth fucked not having her suck my cock but actually fucking her mouth she knows she deserves it she know she wants it she knows she loves every second of it even sometimes when I'm a little easy on her she feels like she's been cheated she wants it to go on for hours and hours not having any control once the doors closed and she is still inside with me we Act safely and respectfully in public but when she takes my hand and leads me into her bedroom the roles have suddenly changed and she fully understands them
AnnieLit
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I think you are confusing a few things here.
In any bdsm play you usually have a safe word (I use traffic light colors), because "no" or "stop" from a sub very rarely means a real absolute no. But this has nothing to do with cnc.
Taken by force... Again, to me any bdsm play is rather physical, so yes, I am taken by force, but this is not a CNC because there is no NC part.
For me, I think, cnc can be only with 100% trust and NO safe word. Which means that I need to trust him not only to stop and not do anything to harm me, but to be able to recognize when something is very wrong and stop on his own. I don't think I will ever be able to trust anybody this much - people are not mind-reader.
Also, to create the NC part, some of the activities would have to be things that are pretty darn close to my hard limits, not just the regular rough play.
In any bdsm play you usually have a safe word (I use traffic light colors), because "no" or "stop" from a sub very rarely means a real absolute no. But this has nothing to do with cnc.
Taken by force... Again, to me any bdsm play is rather physical, so yes, I am taken by force, but this is not a CNC because there is no NC part.
For me, I think, cnc can be only with 100% trust and NO safe word. Which means that I need to trust him not only to stop and not do anything to harm me, but to be able to recognize when something is very wrong and stop on his own. I don't think I will ever be able to trust anybody this much - people are not mind-reader.
Also, to create the NC part, some of the activities would have to be things that are pretty darn close to my hard limits, not just the regular rough play.
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I sort of agree with AnnieLit re CNC...
But in BDSM play, I consent to being humiliated and abused, by my mistress, but make believe I don't consent.
I have a pro mistress I've been seeing for years so the woman knows me very well, what I like, how hard, how much, and the nasty things she makes me do...but I have made it clear, I want her in charge. In reality of course, I enjoy the pain and doing the nasty things she forces me to do so much I pay her for this.
I want to respect and fear her, so she pushes the envelope. I don't use a safe word, I beg for mercy, and it's up to her to decide when I'm begging, if she should ignore my pleas or not.
She uses a riding cop and needles, and she hurts me. Some times too much, but that is what I want, but make believe it isn't.
But in BDSM play, I consent to being humiliated and abused, by my mistress, but make believe I don't consent.
I have a pro mistress I've been seeing for years so the woman knows me very well, what I like, how hard, how much, and the nasty things she makes me do...but I have made it clear, I want her in charge. In reality of course, I enjoy the pain and doing the nasty things she forces me to do so much I pay her for this.
I want to respect and fear her, so she pushes the envelope. I don't use a safe word, I beg for mercy, and it's up to her to decide when I'm begging, if she should ignore my pleas or not.
She uses a riding cop and needles, and she hurts me. Some times too much, but that is what I want, but make believe it isn't.
