Cmnf / Cfnm

Yay! Went to a CM/nf event at the weekend. So. damn. Hot! :devil:
All the men were dressed very smartly and all the women were naked - maybe with a collar or a little jewellery, but nothing else :eek:
For some women, they come to overcome being naked in front of others. For others, like me (hehe), we enjoy being naked and admired ;) Plus I enjoyed admiring everyone else, both the smartly dressed and the naked.

And I loved kneeling with other subs as we ate supper whilst our Doms stood at the bar, chatting and eating and towering above us. That felt so right.

The organisers of the event vet who comes and ensure that the ambience is one of a relaxed afternoon and everyone is expected to behave properly.
Unless, of course, you wish to play, in which case there is a bdsm play area, a few private bedrooms and a big public play area with a hot tub and beds.

We had a fantastic time. Met some people we knew, made a few new friends. Got up to all sorts of mischief. :D
 
Yay! Went to a CM/nf event at the weekend. So. damn. Hot! :devil:
All the men were dressed very smartly and all the women were naked - maybe with a collar or a little jewellery, but nothing else :eek:
For some women, they come to overcome being naked in front of others. For others, like me (hehe), we enjoy being naked and admired ;) Plus I enjoyed admiring everyone else, both the smartly dressed and the naked.

And I loved kneeling with other subs as we ate supper whilst our Doms stood at the bar, chatting and eating and towering above us. That felt so right.

The organisers of the event vet who comes and ensure that the ambience is one of a relaxed afternoon and everyone is expected to behave properly.
Unless, of course, you wish to play, in which case there is a bdsm play area, a few private bedrooms and a big public play area with a hot tub and beds.

We had a fantastic time. Met some people we knew, made a few new friends. Got up to all sorts of mischief. :D

That sounds like all kinds of yummy.
 
Yay! Went to a CM/nf event at the weekend. So. damn. Hot! :devil:
All the men were dressed very smartly and all the women were naked - maybe with a collar or a little jewellery, but nothing else :eek:
For some women, they come to overcome being naked in front of others. For others, like me (hehe), we enjoy being naked and admired ;) Plus I enjoyed admiring everyone else, both the smartly dressed and the naked.

And I loved kneeling with other subs as we ate supper whilst our Doms stood at the bar, chatting and eating and towering above us. That felt so right.

The organisers of the event vet who comes and ensure that the ambience is one of a relaxed afternoon and everyone is expected to behave properly.
Unless, of course, you wish to play, in which case there is a bdsm play area, a few private bedrooms and a big public play area with a hot tub and beds.

We had a fantastic time. Met some people we knew, made a few new friends. Got up to all sorts of mischief. :D

I've got to start getting out more and meeting new people! :heart:
 
I always wondered how much of a real (not just porn thing) CFNM/CMNF was. All but one poster on the tread (mostly women) really seem to love the idea and practice of CMNF. Only one person so far, a guy liked the reverse.

ON a couple of the CFNM threads that were started, there was not much interest...so I am thinking CFNM is just really a porn thing while CMNF is something women enjoy.

Anyone agree, disagree have any thoughts? Just curious.
 
Yay! Went to a CM/nf event at the weekend. So. damn. Hot! :devil:
All the men were dressed very smartly and all the women were naked - maybe with a collar or a little jewellery, but nothing else :eek:
For some women, they come to overcome being naked in front of others. For others, like me (hehe), we enjoy being naked and admired ;) Plus I enjoyed admiring everyone else, both the smartly dressed and the naked.

And I loved kneeling with other subs as we ate supper whilst our Doms stood at the bar, chatting and eating and towering above us. That felt so right.

The organisers of the event vet who comes and ensure that the ambience is one of a relaxed afternoon and everyone is expected to behave properly.
Unless, of course, you wish to play, in which case there is a bdsm play area, a few private bedrooms and a big public play area with a hot tub and beds.

We had a fantastic time. Met some people we knew, made a few new friends. Got up to all sorts of mischief. :D

That sounds fantastic! I'm glad you had such a good time!

I've got to start getting out more and meeting new people! :heart:

Yes, me too. We need to attend something if I come up to Vegas... then I won't be afraid of showing up there alone!!

I always wondered how much of a real (not just porn thing) CFNM/CMNF was. All but one poster on the tread (mostly women) really seem to love the idea and practice of CMNF. Only one person so far, a guy liked the reverse.

ON a couple of the CFNM threads that were started, there was not much interest...so I am thinking CFNM is just really a porn thing while CMNF is something women enjoy.

Anyone agree, disagree have any thoughts? Just curious.

Maybe it depends on what side of the slash people are on, but I don't think these things are only BDSM... maybe just an exhibitionist fetish, too.
 
I always wondered how much of a real (not just porn thing) CFNM/CMNF was. All but one poster on the tread (mostly women) really seem to love the idea and practice of CMNF. Only one person so far, a guy liked the reverse.

ON a couple of the CFNM threads that were started, there was not much interest...so I am thinking CFNM is just really a porn thing while CMNF is something women enjoy.

Anyone agree, disagree have any thoughts? Just curious.


I think it's the numbers. There are far less male submissives / female Dominants here. Virtually all the threads skew toward submissive women / Dominant men.
 
Yay! Went to a CM/nf event at the weekend. So. damn. Hot! :devil:

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We had a fantastic time. Met some people we knew, made a few new friends. Got up to all sorts of mischief. :D

That is awesome! I don't know that our community has had an event based around Clothed/naked of either gender. It sounds fun. Glad you had a good time.
 
I think you are probably right. I really enjoy your GentleFemDom thread but I do notice that other than you and occasionally Wild Honey, the posts are mostly by men. I have to confess that I am not sure whether one of the posters Yukonnights is male or female :eek:
 
I think you are probably right. I really enjoy your GentleFemDom thread but I do notice that other than you and occasionally Wild Honey, the posts are mostly by men. I have to confess that I am not sure whether one of the posters Yukonnights is male or female :eek:

yukonnights is a man. :)

Try not to assume too much about the numbers based on the posts you see. There are dominant women (or switches) around who lurk or simply choose not to post, in the same way that many men with an interest in male submission prefer to watch from a distance.

I had someone comment to me the other day that most people in general lean submissive, or have a submissive side, and while I don't know that I agree, it was a thought-provoking point to have made. It does often seem as though there is a shortage of dominants of either gender, but that may just be my limited perception.

With regards to CF/nm events, I think I have mentioned before that California has a ladies' tea society in which the servers (both genders) are always naked. You can read more about it on their site at twistedteas.org

Lucy, your dinner sounds wonderful. :heart: did you have cushions on which to kneel while you ate?
 
just roaming around and stumbled on this thread.

i would be the naked male, but i think i would want it to be a small group of women - friends, or friends of friends, that type of thing.

maybe after a few times, i'd be more adventurous...
 
yukonnights is a man. :)

Try not to assume too much about the numbers based on the posts you see. There are dominant women (or switches) around who lurk or simply choose not to post, in the same way that many men with an interest in male submission prefer to watch from a distance.

I had someone comment to me the other day that most people in general lean submissive, or have a submissive side, and while I don't know that I agree, it was a thought-provoking point to have made. It does often seem as though there is a shortage of dominants of either gender, but that may just be my limited perception.

With regards to CF/nm events, I think I have mentioned before that California has a ladies' tea society in which the servers (both genders) are always naked. You can read more about it on their site at twistedteas.org

Lucy, your dinner sounds wonderful. :heart: did you have cushions on which to kneel while you ate?
Thanks Honey. I know that I have a submissive side. Normally, I want to be in control with most everything but at the same time I like the idea of letting go completely and letting a woman take over control. I did a little Dom roleplay here and I did enjoy that too. So I guess I would be considered a switch?

I looked up that tea website too. Very interesting. to bad it is on the other coast from me.
 
yukonnights is a man. :)

Try not to assume too much about the numbers based on the posts you see. There are dominant women (or switches) around who lurk or simply choose not to post, in the same way that many men with an interest in male submission prefer to watch from a distance.

I had someone comment to me the other day that most people in general lean submissive, or have a submissive side, and while I don't know that I agree, it was a thought-provoking point to have made. It does often seem as though there is a shortage of dominants of either gender, but that may just be my limited perception.

With regards to CF/nm events, I think I have mentioned before that California has a ladies' tea society in which the servers (both genders) are always naked. You can read more about it on their site at twistedteas.org

Lucy, your dinner sounds wonderful. :heart: did you have cushions on which to kneel while you ate?

No... but one lovely lady came prepared... with knee pads :D
My knees did get sore. But Master is kind and let me shift to different positions. And take my heels off occasionally (I really must find a comfortable pair of high heels. I know they exist!)

There was an official photographer there if couples wanted a memento of the day, hehehe.
 
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