Clothed sex.....

[Fellatio Lover]

Are there any of you that are into clothed sex? I'm not talking just bra and panties, but more like dresses, skirts, outfits you'd wear to a party, jewelry, etc. I consider myself a very tactile person and highly aroused visually!! I happen to like the look and feel of leather and latex. Are there any others out there that are into this realm of sexuality?

 

[Iriadne]

::raises hand::

This a definite part of my current relationship. We like the mental stimulation (appearance of spontaneity) and the physical practicality (because I tend to get very cold very quickly, even in warm weather) as well as the textural and visual aspects. There's this one particular velvet gown that is a never fail....

 

[Xenolan]

I love the idea. But not just any clothes; the part about it that turns me on is the nature of the outfit.

WEDDING DRESS

Pros: Very beautiful outfit, associations with honeymoon or virginal status.
Cons: Most are big and poofy, and I forsee physical difficulties. Also, not usually something a woman is willing to potentially stain.


CHEERLEADER

Pros: As an extra bonus, she can do a little cheer for you and jiggle her jugs.
Cons: She probably won't actually do that.


FRENCH MAID

Pros: Classic submissive, and reminiscent of numerous porn movies.
Cons: Few women can do an authentic French accent. Also, don't expect her to actually clean the house as part of the deal. On the other hand...
Pros: If you offer to clean the whole house as part of the deal, she may go for it. Then again...
Cons: You have to clean the whole house.


SCHOOLGIRL

Pros: Again, reminiscent of the Virgin in all of us. There's also the Britney Spears connection.
Cons: She may think you're some kind of perverted sexual predator if you suggest it. Along those same lines, make sure you really know a woman well before you suggest "Girl Scout".


DOMANITRIX

Pros: Black leather is just plan sexy.
Cons: She may like it too much.


SECRETARY

Pros: You might not even have to ask for this one, if she happens to wear businesslike attire to work anyway. Just tell her, as soon as she gets home, that you can't wait!
Cons: If you actually have an attractive secretary, you're setting yourself up for a jealous conflict.


PROM DRESS

Pros: Pretend you're a teenager again, only this time you won't be a fumbling idiot!
Cons: Let's be honest, not many women can still fit in their prom dress after a few years (and hey, we guys would probably need to let the tux out a little too).


YOUR CLOTHES

Pros: You don't have to spend money on buying anything special. Plus, there's just something strangely sexy about seeing her with your shirt draped loosely over her and your favorite cap perched jauntily on her head.
Cons: I don't think anyone has yet figured out how to have sex with a woman who's wearing pants.


HER REGULAR CLOTHES

Pros: None of that awkward, potentially embarassing conversation about persuading her to wear a weird outfit.
Cons: She'll wonder why you don't want to see her body. It's because she's fat, right? That's it, isn't it? You think she's FAT!!


On the whole, though, I like the idea of sex with the clothes still on. It suggests not only a role to play, but the idea of being so hot and horny that one doesn't want to take the time to disrobe.

 

[pleasteasme]

There is something to be said for partially clothed!

The sense of urgency, the passion...no time to get completely undressed...

 

[Munachi]

hm i sometimes have the phantasy of me being naked, and the guy i have sex with being almost completely clothed.

 

[Fellatio Lover]

I love the idea. But not just any clothes; the part about it that turns me on is the nature of the outfit.

WEDDING DRESS

Pros: Very beautiful outfit, associations with honeymoon or virginal status.
Cons: Most are big and poofy, and I forsee physical difficulties. Also, not usually something a woman is willing to potentially stain.


CHEERLEADER

Pros: As an extra bonus, she can do a little cheer for you and jiggle her jugs.
Cons: She probably won't actually do that.


FRENCH MAID

Pros: Classic submissive, and reminiscent of numerous porn movies.
Cons: Few women can do an authentic French accent. Also, don't expect her to actually clean the house as part of the deal. On the other hand...
Pros: If you offer to clean the whole house as part of the deal, she may go for it. Then again...
Cons: You have to clean the whole house.


SCHOOLGIRL

Pros: Again, reminiscent of the Virgin in all of us. There's also the Britney Spears connection.
Cons: She may think you're some kind of perverted sexual predator if you suggest it. Along those same lines, make sure you really know a woman well before you suggest "Girl Scout".


DOMANITRIX

Pros: Black leather is just plan sexy.
Cons: She may like it too much.


SECRETARY

Pros: You might not even have to ask for this one, if she happens to wear businesslike attire to work anyway. Just tell her, as soon as she gets home, that you can't wait!
Cons: If you actually have an attractive secretary, you're setting yourself up for a jealous conflict.


PROM DRESS

Pros: Pretend you're a teenager again, only this time you won't be a fumbling idiot!
Cons: Let's be honest, not many women can still fit in their prom dress after a few years (and hey, we guys would probably need to let the tux out a little too).


YOUR CLOTHES

Pros: You don't have to spend money on buying anything special. Plus, there's just something strangely sexy about seeing her with your shirt draped loosely over her and your favorite cap perched jauntily on her head.
Cons: I don't think anyone has yet figured out how to have sex with a woman who's wearing pants.


HER REGULAR CLOTHES

Pros: None of that awkward, potentially embarassing conversation about persuading her to wear a weird outfit.
Cons: She'll wonder why you don't want to see her body. It's because she's fat, right? That's it, isn't it? You think she's FAT!!


On the whole, though, I like the idea of sex with the clothes still on. It suggests not only a role to play, but the idea of being so hot and horny that one doesn't want to take the time to disrobe.

Xenolan,
You forgot to mention another option: The GLAMOROUS SOCIALITE....complete with a pearl necklace, earrings, maybe a bracelet over a pair of opera-length leather gloves and of course, a thick coating of lipstick!!!!!

 

[pleasteasme]

Xenolan,
You forgot to mention another option: The GLAMOROUS SOCIALITE....complete with a pearl necklace, earrings, maybe a bracelet over a pair of opera-length leather gloves and of course, a thick coating of lipstick!!!!!

and what of the naughty teacher? Conservatively dressed on the outside, hair tied back in a bun, glasses, business length skirt, blouse with maybe one button undone "too low" for modesty...and underneath something racey: A garter with silk stockings with a matching bra or corset, no panties. Hmmmm....

 

[londonaberdeen]

I love it

Sometimes when I get home I can't even wait to strip.

I've seen me greeting my SO and lift her skirt, unzip my trousers and take her where ever we stand.

She loves that "animal" lust.

 

[M's girl]

There is something to be said for partially clothed!

The sense of urgency, the passion...no time to get completely undressed...

Ditto!

 

[bobsgirl]

and what of the naughty teacher? Conservatively dressed on the outside, hair tied back in a bun, glasses, business length skirt, blouse with maybe one button undone "too low" for modesty...and underneath something racey: A garter with silk stockings with a matching bra or corset, no panties. Hmmmm....

I'm giggling here at the mental image of my sixth grade teacher in a corset and no panties.

 

[Moxon4]

Other things

Would include some kind of superheroine outfit, like the avatar above.

Having sex with some clothes on is fun, but I prefer feeling my naked body against hers, but it's fun to get in a quickie where I just lift up her skirt and put her against a wall

 

[pleasteasme]

I'm giggling here at the mental image of my sixth grade teacher in a corset and no panties.

I'm hoping your sixth grade teacher was not male...



I guess I indulge in my own "teacher" fantasy.

 

[bobsgirl]

I'm hoping your sixth grade teacher was not male...



I guess I indulge in my own "teacher" fantasy.

She was probably about 60 years old and very stout. She probably did have a bit of Domme in her because she was a real drill sergeant.

What made me laugh was the image of her in that get-up wearing the clunky thick-soled shoes she always wore.