Clit/Pussy Spanking Discussion Thread
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I've never experienced this type of thing. It does intrigue me though, in a lot of ways. Looks very exotic. 
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Yes I know that's why I like to do it
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Turns me on so much! Love a spanking session that travels a bit 
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Same for me. Pain per se does nothing for me, the opposite.
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A light intentional tap from a riding crop can be enjoyable and erotic but nothing harder than that
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So, the last time the WIFE and I were having sex, I was rubbing my dick up and down her clit. It was driving her wild so I started smacking her clit with the head of my dick. The more I smacked, the hotter she became. After a few minutes of this, she came really hard. Afterwards, she said that it was one of the most intense orgasms she has ever had.
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Well, no wonder. Bravo!
I think the part in bold is so underrated. Men should do it always.
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I actually do it quite often. She loves it of course.
Good for her, and for you. How do they say it, happy wife and all that jazz.
I'm not saying men don't do it though. But I think it should be done ALWAYS!
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when i'm in the mood to play, i love it
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I've never experienced this type of thing. It does intrigue me though, in a lot of ways. Looks very exotic.
I’d say from personal experience most women have very sensitive clits and if your going to whip them start out lightly especially if they have never done this before. Hell they may not of even had a man to be attentive to their clit at all before so it does make sense to do it this way.
Some have had many things done to them or may do them their self’s on occasion. Communicate if they will in fact communicate with you. Some may be scared too as they have met men who were not good at communicating them self’s. Communicating and having someone who will communicate back with you is of course the key to most things people may have with doing things they haven’t before. Communication is the key to most things and Not the thing we become most successful with the first time we try.
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My wife loves having her vulva spanked, either with my hand or using a leather paddle we bought. I think what gets her juices flowing is the sound that goes with the impact. The noisier it is, the wetter she gets.
I'll cup my palm a bit during hand-spanking to get the effect, which lessens the impact but gets her going. To spank her clit, I will use the tips of my fingers while it is nestled under the hood and between her labia. I doubt she feels much more than the "bump" of impact. Occasionally, I will use the fingers of my other hand to retract the hood and expose her clit more, which gives a much different result. She loves it if she's close to orgasm, but not before getting sufficiently warmed up.
The paddle is made from two pieces of leather, built for sensation play. The business side is smooth and thick enough to keep it from bending much. It will flex a bit if the strike is hard enough. The second piece of leather is a little more flexible and has a number of nickel size holes cut from it. It's a bit thinner and has a slightly softer finish. The two are stitched together at the handle, but separate after that. The effect is that the top piece flexes away at the apex of the back-stroke and strikes the back of the business side with a sharp *crack* when the paddle strikes - even for mild strokes. I alternate between caressing her pussy with the smooth, stiffer leather, spreading her labia to run the edge of the paddle against them, and quick, sharp, loud strikes. Sometimes I'll strike rapidly in succession with a series of staccato cracks or pull back her hood for a light, direct strike. The way that the paddle is constructed, the bark is worse than the bite and she seems to love it that way.
In either case, I can tell from her body language if I'm striking too hard. She won't say anything, but I can tell the difference between a gasp of pleasure and a wince of pain.
I'll cup my palm a bit during hand-spanking to get the effect, which lessens the impact but gets her going. To spank her clit, I will use the tips of my fingers while it is nestled under the hood and between her labia. I doubt she feels much more than the "bump" of impact. Occasionally, I will use the fingers of my other hand to retract the hood and expose her clit more, which gives a much different result. She loves it if she's close to orgasm, but not before getting sufficiently warmed up.
The paddle is made from two pieces of leather, built for sensation play. The business side is smooth and thick enough to keep it from bending much. It will flex a bit if the strike is hard enough. The second piece of leather is a little more flexible and has a number of nickel size holes cut from it. It's a bit thinner and has a slightly softer finish. The two are stitched together at the handle, but separate after that. The effect is that the top piece flexes away at the apex of the back-stroke and strikes the back of the business side with a sharp *crack* when the paddle strikes - even for mild strokes. I alternate between caressing her pussy with the smooth, stiffer leather, spreading her labia to run the edge of the paddle against them, and quick, sharp, loud strikes. Sometimes I'll strike rapidly in succession with a series of staccato cracks or pull back her hood for a light, direct strike. The way that the paddle is constructed, the bark is worse than the bite and she seems to love it that way.
In either case, I can tell from her body language if I'm striking too hard. She won't say anything, but I can tell the difference between a gasp of pleasure and a wince of pain.
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Your wife is so lucky! I’m happy for her!
I’m poly and my Master spanked my pussy for the first time the last time we were together before the pandemic. I’m going to share your strategy with him for next time. He loved the sounds I made from it but mentioned wanting to make sure my clit was exposed/spread enough for intense, direct contact. I’ve always loved having my pussy spanked but I never suggest it to male partners because find it hottest when it’s their idea.CharleeDarke
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Wowww
Wow. Your wife is so lucky! I’m happy for her! I’m poly and my Master spanked my pussy for the first time the last time we were together before the pandemic. I’m going to share your strategy with him for next time. He loved the sounds I made from it but mentioned wanting to make sure my clit was exposed/spread enough for intense, direct contact. I’ve always loved having my pussy spanked but I never suggest it to male partners because find it hottest when it’s their idea.
Wow. Your wife is so lucky! I’m happy for her!
I’m poly and my Master spanked my pussy for the first time the last time we were together before the pandemic. I’m going to share your strategy with him for next time. He loved the sounds I made from it but mentioned wanting to make sure my clit was exposed/spread enough for intense, direct contact. I’ve always loved having my pussy spanked but I never suggest it to male partners because find it hottest when it’s their idea.Wow. Your wife is so lucky! I’m happy for her!
Sounds like a good reason to wait for the pandemic to end
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I mean this! Honestly, whether it is spanking or whatever, I do hate suggestions. I love it when it's his idea. It's an exploration for him and me. Suggestions makes me feel like a teacher, and I quit teaching when I was 25 years old.
Totally agree.. what's the fun if you have to instruct.. experiment, read the feedback from the body and experiment again..
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Thank you.
Don't get me wrong. There are times when I say do this or do that. I guess it is part of the play, excitement, talking etc., when I want more. But do this and do that because I'm missing something and he isn't reading my body and reaction. That actually kinda frustrates me.
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I prefer licking the clit rather than spanking it. Such a beautiful part of the female anatomy should be pampered with loving care and not mistreated...
Wow. Your wife is so lucky! I’m happy for her!
I prefer licking the clit rather than spanking it. Such a beautiful part of the female anatomy should be pampered with loving care and not mistreated...
I think of being submissive and worshiping my wife's pussy. Getting on my knees, kissing it and begging my wife to have her pussy. Maybe she needs a real man to spank her pussy, and get her off. I'm the man who would kiss and lick it clean after her lover fucked and spanked it good.
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I only let people who have a clit spank mine. It’s painful and enjoyable from a talented person but it needs an expert hand.
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I couldn't agree more.
Being a Dom is work, and this is a lot of it. Effective punishment requires getting inside of your sub's head, knowing what they want, and then - deciding whether to give them what THEY want, or what YOU want.
It is very similar, in this regard, to knowing how to buy a gift for someone, or of showing affection in different ways. There are times when doing the dishes is as appreciated as buying flowers. You need to know your partner, and a Dom/Sub relationship is still a partnership. It is give and take, for sure.
And that includes sexually.
My partners have known that I know how depraved and "different" they were, even though they hid it from the world. That is a level of intimacy that goes beyond "kissing in public."
My partners also knew that I was routinely thinking about ways to punish them that would hurt them... but also drive them over the edge. New ways to bind them, or not bind them. New ways to spank them. New ways to clamp them.
Or... old ways. I still eat steak about once a week. Just because I've tried it and liked it means that I'm bored with it.
Nothing like a simple "hands behind your back, get on your knees, here come some nipple clamps, now open up and say 'ahhhhh.'"
Nice way to end the day
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I totally agree
