Circumsized or Not... which is preferable.

[Guest]

I'm NOT, in porn pictures and movies they are ALWAYS circumsized or have a very noticeable penis-head (... at a loss for the appropriate term) ... Do you girls prefer it that way, is it a personal thing or is it vastly preferable, or does it not matter at all. Does anyone prefer the covered look?

It's been playing on my mind for a while. So, thoughts on this would be useful and enlightening. Ta.

 

[cymbidia]

Take a cruise through these two threads…

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=28635&highlight=circumcision

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=27282&highlight=circumcision

… and then we’ll talk some more.

 

[MysteryJKR]

Boooo on this thread cuz its been done many times and I as well am not, but ive read many women in here say they prefer it cut, or say its sick looking when its not and all this and that. yes there are some that dont care, but the majority lean towards the cut, I havent seen one person say yea to the uncut, only answer close was the "i dont care, feels the same going in" answer.

So yea. The way I feel about it. is that im not gonna be sleeping with someone I dont care a lot about. Id have to feel comfy and trust them completely. Anything sexual is a big step even if your in high school and just fooling around. Ya cant take that stuff back so in my eyes if the girl is gonna groan at ya because your uncut than thats just crap. be happy with what ya got. dont ask around about who prefers what. Just live your life and get the cards that are delt to you when ya get em. Youll be fine.

 

[cymbidia]

I can't imagine a situation where she'll take one look at your uncut cock and then run away screaming.

Quite frankly, it's the man we're sliding into intimacy with, not the cock, you know? As long as you know what to do with what you have, who cares about a little bit more or less skin? (And, for the record, "what you have" includes your hands and mouth and lips and teeth and tongue and toes and that all-important brain, the real sex organ, and is *not* limited to your cock. Okay?)

This whole circumcision thing is a total non-issue for most women, you know. You guys keep this one alive.

 

[MysteryJKR]

cymbidia

You got it. lol as always.

 

[Guest]

MHO...

I think uncut penises are very sexy!! There is nothing wrong with them at all! And, unlike "popular thought", there are no health concerns if the man keeps himself washed up and groomed nicely.

I think that many men out there are circumsized because of that misconception of health issues over the years, and now it's more of keeping the boys "looking like daddy" instead of being "different".

If this thread gets more hits, then I have a question for men. (I'm sure it will not be the "easiest" to answer unless you are a man who was UNcut and then circumsized in adulthood...) Anyway, I am wondering if the head looses sensitivity when it is constantly exposed like that...? I have heard, before, that in (rather rare, still) female circumsizions (having the clitoral hood cut) the clit looses sensitivity after a while due to being constantly exposed. I think if my clit lost its sensitivity, I would just curl up and die. lol

 

[MysteryJKR]

Tiggy. (o:',

I think it would greatly suck and totally lose the sensitivity.

I seriously cant even imagine how it would feel if I was cut. The rubbing on clothes and stuff would just annoy the crud outa me. & once it stops anoyying me it wont be as sensitive and that cant be good. I want all that feeling.

 

[Guest]

I want all that feeling.

I hear ya there! I could never cut away my hood on purpose!

 

[Morden]

well as a cut man and having heard many horror stories. I am happy. I can recieve good pleasure from my wonderful piece and I can give good pleasure. The key to it Tiggs is that as disgusting as it sounds there are a lot of slobbs in the world. so I am not even going to say any more about that whole thing.

 

[Guest]

Well, if a man keeps his body clean, then there is NO problems with being uncut. I don't believe that every man out there is a slob just because they are male. lol

 

[Morden]

oh no not everyone. But there quite a few. Personally I like not having to worry about it. I couple good quick soapy strokes if I am in a hurry and its good as new <wink>

 

[Guest]

Morden...

You just like strokin' it in the shower. 'Nuff said.

 

[Morden]

Well of course what man doesn't

 

[Guest]

 

[cymbidia]

Well of course what man doesn't

Uh, i think that could be "well of course, who doesn't?" pretty easily.

You guys have no claim of ownership on solitary shower pleasures. Hot water, slippery soap, and our own knowledgeable fingers are something we all have in the shower.

 

[BlondGirl]

I am one of those women who prefers an uncut lover.

As far as the cleanlines routine--I have a son that I left the way God intended and have told him that if he wants someone slicing off the end of his penis, he is welcome to arrange that himself when he is an adult. He says NOOOOOOOOOOO! That it is very sensesitive and he is very attached to that part of his body. He is now 9 and I don't bother him about his hygiene any more but after his foreskin loosened enough to be retracted (around age 4 for the average male), I would threaten him that if he did not clean himself properly, that I would. I told him how--made him demonstrate that to me a couple of times to prove that he actually knew how and left it with the threat.
We are social nudists and my son has seen every varity of penis out there in its soft state. He states he is very happy with his!

Now, I have a question. Being female, I am (of course) experienced in witnessing the growth process of your average female. But with males, I have no clue. When my son was born--his penis was huge for his little body. (His father was well above average in length and girth too, so I did not give it a second thought.) Now that he is 9, it is not much bigger than it was when he was born. Does the penis go through a stage like breasts do where it is just there and then in 2 or 3 years it is saying hello to the world? (I am not referring to errection--I have not seen my son erect outside of his infancy and really prefer not to. I am just curious.)

 

[cymbidia]

growth and development of adolescent boys

BG, are you asking about a boy’s “normal” growth and development at puberty? If so, I know something about that, having taught it for years.

Like girls, boys go through puberty. It refers to the time in their lives when the testes, and the prostate and seminal vesicles suddenly enlarge. It’s also when the kid suddenly shoots up taller than you.

The changes that occur during puberty are a result of raging hormones, as we all know. As the kid comes into puberty, a gland in the brain called the pituitary gland increases the secretion of a hormone called follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH). This hormone kick-starts the most of the changes that then occur in the body of the adolescent. In girls, for example, FSH activates the ovaries to start producing estrogen. In boys, FSH causes sperm to develop.

In boys, it is difficult to know exactly when puberty is coming. There are changes that occur, but they occur gradually over a period of time rather than as a single event. While each male adolescent is different, the following are average ages when puberty changes may occur:

· beginning of puberty: 9.5 to 14 years of age

· first obvious pubertal change: enlargement of the testicles: 10 to 14 years of age

· penis enlargement begins approximately one year after the testicles begin enlarging

· appearance of pubic hair: 13.5 years of age

· hair under the arms, on the face, voice change, and acne: 15 years of age

· nocturnal emissions (or wet dreams): 14 years of age

In boys, the first thing that happens is usually the enlargement of the scrotum and testes. At this point, the penis is still child-sized. However, as the testes and scrotum continue to enlarge, the penis begins to get longer. As puberty continues, the penis will continue to grow in both girth and length.

Pubic hair development is pretty much the same for boys and girls. The first little sprouts are long and soft, and grow only in a small area around the genitals. This hair becomes darker and coarser as it continues to spread. It eventually looks like adult pubic hair.

Boys might also go through these changes during the process of puberty:

His body size will grow very rapidly, with his feet, arms, legs, and hands sometimes seeming to grow faster than the rest of the body. This may cause him to experience a time of feeling clumsy.
Some boys get some swelling in the area of their breasts as a result of the hormonal changes. This is common among teenage boys and is usually a temporary condition. Consult your doc if it becomes a concern for you or him.

Voices crack as the voice changes to a deeper, adult tone. It’s a temp condition and will go away with time.

Boys will start to get hair all over, not only on his genitals. This hair will come in on his face, under his arms, and on his legs.

As the hormonal load increases, most adolescents have an increase in oily skin and sweating. This is normal. It is important to wash daily, including the face, and keep one’s hands off one’s face. (Your hands are the dirtiest part of your body, including down there around your anus, did you know that? Think about what you do with your hands, what you touch, where those hands go. Kids need to learn to keep those dirty hands off their faces so they don’t transfer all kinds and sorts of microbes to their hormone-induced oily faces.) It’s at this time that acne most commonly develops.

As the penis enlarges, the guy’ll begin to experience erections. This might happen when he fantasizes about sexual things, or for no reason at all. It’s normal.

During puberty, his body also begins producing sperm. At some point, semen (composed of sperm and other bodily fluids) will be released during an erection. Sometimes, this happens while he’s sleeping; then it’s called a nocturnal emission or "wet dream”. Again, totally normal.

Once puberty is over, the 'child' is reproductively viable and is physically an adult.

 

[Guest]

Although most males masturbate before they start having wet dreams, and thus... never have them. At least I know I never did in my growing up.

 

[Expat]

Experienced it both ways

Before my adulthood, my penis had a full hood over it. About the time I reached adulthood (around 18y.o.) my hood began to retract due to the excessive masturbation (OK, so I was an extremely horny kid!), wearing boxers, and a little of penis growth. I can tell you first hand that there were noticable loss of sensitivity. I can still cum and all, but the feeling was never the same again. But hey, that just means I can last a lot longer in bed!