Hey Sheath thanks for asking. things are going slowly for me. i still cry at night. it has only been a week since i found out that i had been lied to for 2 years but me and hubby have been talking alot. somethings he says ihave already been over and over again but i can't help it. he has been very patient and understanding but at the same time he wants me to hurry up and forget so that he can forget.. i am dealing with it better right now than i was a week ago when i first found out, maybe because somewhere in the back of my mind i had always thought something had gone on that he hadn't told me about but no where in my mind did i think they went all the way, like i told him i thought at most she gave him a blow job. so anyway i am still waiting to go see my therpist in the mean time i have been searching the net for marriage help on the net. how to improve the relationship besides just sex. he said that we have really improved the relationship 2 years ago and he thinks things are perfect now but i want to make sure that we never go down that road again. even though he says we are much much better now since the first thing happend we both agree that there is room for improvement, just as being more polite with each other instead of just saying get me a glass of tea, or bring me this. and we do special things for each other we now take a moment and think and then respond like he likes to play with poser 5 or bryce on the computer and last week he made me some angels and put it on my desktop, well the were naked and i didn't think before i spoke and said "THEY ARE NAKED, Sean (my 7 year old) can't see that. but i didn't think when i should have said sweety how long did it take to make this, why are they naked i like this about it i like that about it but can you put some clothes on them. you know what i am getting out. so anyway that is what we are working on now besides the cheating thing, i kind of put that on the back burner untill i see my shrink.
so anyway thank you for asking!!!
so anyway thank you for asking!!!
