cheating

[BlackPartridge]

The thought of my wife cheating on me arouses me.
Is it weird/abnormal?

 

[jays78]

The thought of my wife cheating on me arouses me.
Is it weird/abnormal?

not weird at all. It's hot to think of another man fucking fucking your wife, making her cum......having her come home to you with a pussy full of jizz.

 

[OpenMouth]

It wouldn't really be cheating if my wife did it, I tell her all the time it's ok if she wants to.

It'd be ironic if she did it and didn't tell me!

 

[sterculius]

I'm presently happily married to my second wife, but my first wife cheated on me on numerous occasions. This is the reason that we divorced, and while it did hurt me each time I found out that she was fucking other men, another part of me became very aroused at the thought of her infidelity. I would envision her in our bed and wonder exactly what it was that she did with them, what sort of sex acts did did she perform for them! The thought of my very sexy wife on her knees sucking on their cocks or possibly being fucked in her ass by them excited me no end and was, and occasionally still is, the source of intense masturbatory pleasure.

 

[BareBackRider2]

The thought of my wife cheating on me arouses me.
Is it weird/abnormal?

its impossible for my wife to cheat.

She has my full permission.

SHe's yet to use it.......or so she says.

 

[BlackPartridge]

I'm presently happily married to my second wife, but my first wife cheated on me on numerous occasions. This is the reason that we divorced, and while it did hurt me each time I found out that she was fucking other men, another part of me became very aroused at the thought of her infidelity. I would envision her in our bed and wonder exactly what it was that she did with them, what sort of sex acts did did she perform for them! The thought of my very sexy wife on her knees sucking on their cocks or possibly being fucked in her ass by them excited me no end and was, and occasionally still is, the source of intense masturbatory pleasure.

true. I too keep wondering what exactly she would do with them if given a chance.

 

[Justfantasies]

I've been married twice and the thought of her cheating was always an enormous turn.

My first wife actually did cheat on me and instead of being angry, I wanted to know all the juicy details.

 

[Clem99]

If my wife was to cheat, I would be extremely pissed off. If, on the other hand, she wanted to fuck another guy and told me about it, that would be more than fine. Don't hide it from me, don't keep secrets. Let's talk about it, heck - I'll even help her find a guy to fuck.

 

[MarriedMelissa]

I have heard from many men that this is a fantasy. Something they would love to watch, but cannot tell their wives. As a woman married for over 20 years, and someone who has been with many men (OK I am a cheater) I wish my husband would be good with this. Unfortunately, he is not. I have to be very discreet. If you find it exciting, you should have a chat with your wife. I suggest that you have a romantic night with her and role play first if you are nervous about bringing this up. BTW - if this is a "men's club" post, my apologies. Melissa

 

[Justfantasies]

I have heard from many men that this is a fantasy. Something they would love to watch, but cannot tell their wives. As a woman married for over 20 years, and someone who has been with many men (OK I am a cheater) I wish my husband would be good with this. Unfortunately, he is not. I have to be very discreet. If you find it exciting, you should have a chat with your wife. I suggest that you have a romantic night with her and role play first if you are nervous about bringing this up. BTW - if this is a "men's club" post, my apologies. Melissa

How often do you cheat and do you do it just for fun?

I think that a lot of guys are really into this and want to participate in some way. On occasions I have helped my wife dress for date and then want to know all the details when she comes home -- sometimes the next day.

However, I expect to be treated equally. So if I fuck somewhen else, it needs to be OK with my wife too.

 

[Lisa_soccermom8]

I have cheated on my husband a number of times but it does not mean I love him less. For me, I have certain needs that he can not provide. Unfortunately, I think the need comes from the feeling I get when I am cheating. The wives with husbands who allow them to be with others are fortunate as both same in the experiences.

 

[spacevampire]

The thought of my wife cheating on me arouses me.
Is it weird/abnormal?

Personally, I don't like the idea of my woman cheating on me without my knowing ahead of time. However, under the right conditions, I could certainly get off knowing she was with a certain man, particularly if I could watch.

I always wanted to watch my woman in a consensual rough sex situation with one or two men, followed by me making love to her the next night to remind her of the difference between "making love" and "getting fucked". But then, after we "made love", I and one or both of the men would gang rape her with out her having known that was the plan. Nothing so violent that she would hate me or call the cops.

 

[Justfantasies]

I have cheated on my husband a number of times but it does not mean I love him less. For me, I have certain needs that he can not provide. Unfortunately, I think the need comes from the feeling I get when I am cheating. The wives with husbands who allow them to be with others are fortunate as both same in the experiences.

How do you feel when you cheat -- do you feel sexier, more feminine?

 

[alittlecrazy1]

Normal. You're just not possessive. I would love my wife to cheat on me with a woman; does that still count?

 

[KINKYCanada]

I'm presently happily married to my second wife, but my first wife cheated on me on numerous occasions. This is the reason that we divorced, and while it did hurt me each time I found out that she was fucking other men, another part of me became very aroused at the thought of her infidelity. I would envision her in our bed and wonder exactly what it was that she did with them, what sort of sex acts did did she perform for them! The thought of my very sexy wife on her knees sucking on their cocks or possibly being fucked in her ass by them excited me no end and was, and occasionally still is, the source of intense masturbatory pleasure.

You hit the nail on the head! I am in an open relationship and though the road was a rough one and we rarely practice it anymore when we hit the pinnacle we were having the hottest sex of our lives.

Odd? maybe but it all comes down to point of view and moral compass. What I find hot and normal some friends find disturbing and sick! Their view vs my view!

Warning! Like my friend said his ended in divorce, as did a number of my friends who were in the lifestyle! It's not an easy one and plays on very deep seated emotions and can have very devastating effects on a marriage.


Is she meeting him with out my knowledge?

Will she leave me for him?

Is she thinking of him while I fuck her?

Is she seeing him for dates other then sex?

Is she still happy with my love making?

Same goes for you and anyone you might be sleeping with.

Tread lightly my friend and communication is paramount!

KC

 

[Freya69]

If it is truly cheating the guy will probably never know. In 40 years, I cheated twice and my hubby never knew until I told him after he confessed to a few flings. Actually I knew about a couple of his. In my case it was not a planned thing. The first was a guy that was going through a tough divorce and I was trying to talk him through it and thought a romp in the hay might perk him up. The second was while traveling on business. Got drunk one night and the need for a man overrode good sense. The sex was pretty good, the hangover was not.

 

[screwher]

My wife

The thought of my wife cheating on me arouses me.
Is it weird/abnormal?

Maybe it society's eyes it might be considered "weird" or "abnormal" but who gives a flying fuck about society thinks. Personally I'd love for my wife to drop her panties again for another man. So hot !!

 

[BlackPartridge]

Maybe it society's eyes it might be considered "weird" or "abnormal" but who gives a flying fuck about society thinks. Personally I'd love for my wife to drop her panties again for another man. So hot !!

True. Chat on yahoo? Skype? About her.

 

[MyRubiLips]

The thought of my wife cheating on me arouses me.
Is it weird/abnormal?

I Have Found the Cuckold Kink Lately...

 

[Jake1945]

I have heard from many men that this is a fantasy. Something they would love to watch, but cannot tell their wives. As a woman married for over 20 years, and someone who has been with many men (OK I am a cheater) I wish my husband would be good with this. Unfortunately, he is not. I have to be very discreet. If you find it exciting, you should have a chat with your wife. I suggest that you have a romantic night with her and role play first if you are nervous about bringing this up. BTW - if this is a "men's club" post, my apologies. Melissa

I wonder if part of the appeal is that it is cheating and would not be so much fun if you had permission. Sort of the forbidden fruit thing. Or maybe you are just one of those people that crave a little variety. While it could be a problem if hubby catches you, overall it is probably good for you.

 

[BareBackRider2]

I have cheated on my husband a number of times but it does not mean I love him less. For me, I have certain needs that he can not provide. Unfortunately, I think the need comes from the feeling I get when I am cheating. The wives with husbands who allow them to be with others are fortunate as both same in the experiences.

Explain this to my wife please lol

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I have heard from many men that this is a fantasy. Something they would love to watch, but cannot tell their wives. As a woman married for over 20 years, and someone who has been with many men (OK I am a cheater) I wish my husband would be good with this. Unfortunately, he is not. I have to be very discreet. If you find it exciting, you should have a chat with your wife. I suggest that you have a romantic night with her and role play first if you are nervous about bringing this up. BTW - if this is a "men's club" post, my apologies. Melissa

I am curious about if your husband came out and admitted cheating, too...how would you react? Just wondering.

Personally, I have an open marriage, and by that, I mean, truly open. I can fool around and so can my wife. I could never live with a double standard where she can fool around and I couldn't. But other men don't mind and they have the right to live that way if pleases them.

 

[WonderPonder]

It's all I think about with my wife and her co worker as they work closely together and travel during the day together often.

 

[Lord_Nibiru]

something I literally have no idea how to feel about. some people who cheat deserve as much love as they do criticism, but equally I can't think of anything more nasty than choosing to shag another instead of being honest that things aren't working.

then again, as a fetish who knows - I imagine it creates all kinds of awesome excitement, not my thing tho. mind you I'm single so thinking about it...ignore my post altogether

 

[Dreamer110]

Now if she cheated that's a whole different thing. But in our case it was with my knowledge.