I'm a mature married man who found out years ago that his loving wife had cheated regularly while traveling on business. At least three coworkers of hers, one was a tall, good-looking single stud, ex college football player with a huge cock and (apparently) incredible sexual skills who she saw 3-5 times a year for 10 years before I found out. l was shocked, hurt, very angry at first, but we stayed together and over time her cheating became an intense turn-on for me. Love to connect with other cheated-on husbands and boyfriends who have experienced this and anyone else who's turned on by wives and girlfriends who are bold enough to go out and get what they want or need sexually and enjoys chatting about female infidelity and cuckoldry.
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Justfantasies
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I have been turned on by "cheating" since my earliest relationships and have done a bit of cheating too. One girlfriend that I adored would take little breaks from me -- sometimes a vacation or sometimes just a night and have little affairs along the way. I didn't know about it until much later, but it was sure a turn on when she "confessed" and she knew it
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nothing to do with cuckoldry. My second wife traveled a lot, and one time came home and fucked and rode me like a rented mule. Best sex in years. She then admitted that she had cheated on me. I thought about it, and realized that her libido had been renewed by her being with another man. So I told her if that is what it takes for her to come back like that, I gave her a standing hall pass when on the road. She always came home horny, so I guess it worked.
My wife travels every two weeks to fuck her bf. She says she is visiting her sister. We share find a friend app so I clearly see where she goes. When she comes home she immediately washes her clothes and showers. I have confronted her but she denies. After I approached her she turned off her find a friend app. I even said it was okay but she continues to deny.
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I've been cheated on by a few of my girlfriends and my wife. I think that maybe the way it started facilitated my obsession with sluts and cuckoldry.
I was fairly naive when my first girlfriend cheated on me. When I caught her she unapologetic and just said she didn't want to be tied down. I kept seeing her exclusively while she dated other guys until a few months later she dumped me because she did want to be exclusive with some other dude. I think it was that few months of being her loyal cuckold that changed something in me. If she was a long-term love of my life it might have been more difficult. And there is no question that it did hurt when she cheated. But just the shear sexuality of her and her desire to seek what she wanted was a big turn son.
After that I was always drawn to slutty women, including my wife. When she cheated she confessed right away and showed real remorse. So, we decided to try an open relationship, which to no one's surprise worked out well for her but not so much for me. It didn't take much after that for me to embrace the cuckold life.
I was fairly naive when my first girlfriend cheated on me. When I caught her she unapologetic and just said she didn't want to be tied down. I kept seeing her exclusively while she dated other guys until a few months later she dumped me because she did want to be exclusive with some other dude. I think it was that few months of being her loyal cuckold that changed something in me. If she was a long-term love of my life it might have been more difficult. And there is no question that it did hurt when she cheated. But just the shear sexuality of her and her desire to seek what she wanted was a big turn son.
After that I was always drawn to slutty women, including my wife. When she cheated she confessed right away and showed real remorse. So, we decided to try an open relationship, which to no one's surprise worked out well for her but not so much for me. It didn't take much after that for me to embrace the cuckold life.
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Eh. If you’re happy with it, then there’s nothing to be ashamed of. I’d probably have major trust issues with her in your shoes, but if you’re over that, then it’s probably best to just tell her how it turns you on when she fucks other men, so she can be free of any guilt.
I'd never downplay how traumatic it was, but we worked through it together and after a few years of processing and open, honest discussion I was able to forgive her and restore trust, which allowed me to get past the negative aspects of her betrayal and opened the door to focusing on the intense eroticism of her sexual (mis)conduct. No shame for me, no guilt for her. She knows very well how much it turns me on and we're able to enjoy it together. Counterintuitively, the whole experience has brought us closer and strengthened our relationship.
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That’s great to hear!
Do you find anything interesting about her taste in other men?
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I think your next step is to track her down next time, confront her calmly there and then let her know you'll be seeking other female company when she's at her "sister's" place. Fair is fair, man.
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lol, but then it’d be weird.
I suspect that running around with him “not knowing” is important for her.
It’s a two hour trip there. In the past I have fucked other women when my wife was giving me what I needed. We now have an active sex life even though is fucking others.
We've been together over 30 years from when she was 19. In our mid 20s I spent a lot of time overseas with my work over a 3 year period. About two years after that stopped I found out she had slept with a few different men during that period. A mix of one-offs, some with people we both knew, one with a man in his 60s, all without protection and a couple of times ended up taking the morning after pill as a precaution. We got over it and have actually made fun out of it over the years. Fast forward to now and after three kids and being a stay-at-home mum for years, she now meets a young lad regularly for sex and it has changed our sex life dramatically. All good fun.
My x would sometimes go out after work and not come home until some time after midnight. She would never admit fucking others but she wouldn’t let me near her pussy on those nights. One night while she was out I was sitting out back naked and started stroking just imagining what she was up to. I had an incredibly strong orgasm.
I love when my wife goes out for girls night. My imagination runs wild!
I couldn't stand not knowing. I'd be tempted to spy in some fashion so I'd know if she was actually getting fucked and by whom.
My wife will send me teasers.
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I have often had fantasies of returning from work and finding Cindy, her skirt rolled up, being fuckec by another man
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Me cucked her fucked
I’ve often had that image in my head as I pulled in the driveway after work. My wife was smitten with a younger coworker a while back. She worked 4 minutes from our house. I would imagine her kneeling on the couch with him pounding her from behind.
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Exciting thoughts
Worked for me.
