Chat about cheating . . .

my fiancée and I have been together, off and on for 8 years, she is bi, was married, when we became “intimate” frequently.

I became hyper focused on pleasing her, and she has a serious, sexy voyeur kink. She loves watching me. Then she began enjoying watching me in public, dressed in whatever she selected.

The venues were bars, restaurant bars, dance e clubs, and even strip clubs. She loved to watch me interact with others, let the grope me, kiss me, until she can’t take it any longer, then grab my wrist and rustle me away and fuck me the second the door closed in our home.

The it got a bit more depraved, when she welcomed her friends in our home, and offer me to them, to fuck me, but she wanted to watch.

Initially, I was stunned she would go that far to make me please her. I submitted to her wishes, however when she saw me enjoying it more than when she was with me it became awkward.

She became very jealous, and she almost completely stopped me from doing it.

Now shen she is away on business, I still see occasionally, a couple of her friends, individually while she is gone, and each night I am away from home, I try to hook up with complete strangers, in my hotel room. One night stands (or more) has become normal for me because I have been so turned on with this lifestyle.

I love this topic, thank you for sharing.
 
One of my wife’s “cheating” episodes was less dramatic. I was away and my wife and her next door neighbor, a friend of hers, a chubby blonde and the chubby blondes balding and chubby boyfriend, convinced my wife to go skinny dipping with them in the nearby river. The neighbors boyfriend has been lusting after my wife for years. My wife (drinking of course) though that “he probably wouldn’t even look”. She told me about the day when I got home. Ok, I though this was hot from the start. She didn’t fuck him, doesn’t remember him touching her, but, the guy had wondered for years and finally got his look. Guy is still a facebook friend of hers….
Hi there again, sounds like your wife still attracts a lot of attention. Did you ever get more information from her about that initially affair?

The fact you found it hot maybe your "compensation" for the attention she gets. Maybe deep down that's your desire perhaps after that first incidence.
 
In my case finding out that my wife cheated on me with a man for almost two years without me knowing, and me being excited and not bothered when I found out was like a switch being flipped on me.

But I'm sure the things like having ex-girlfriends complained about my performance in bed several times during our relationships, then afterwards some had cheating/broken up with me to be with other men, and the fact that I became curious after getting married about the hotwife and bull lifestyle certainly contributed to my acceptance.

Since I talked to her after finding out that she cheated on me she has been a hotwife for almost 7 years.
I love knowing or seeing her getting fucked in ways I never could.
 
In my case finding out that my wife cheated on me with a man for almost two years without me knowing, and me being excited and not bothered when I found out was like a switch being flipped on me.
That switch-flipping seems to be a common theme. For me, it didn't happen that way. It started as a slow burn, way back in high school, when a date ditched me for another guy, and I went home angry, went to bed, and then discovered how aroused I was. It grew from there-- slowly.
 
I know with my 2nd girlfriend I was jealous every time one of friends was talking to her and even during parties where they would dance with her probably because they envied me and they sort of wanted to know what she was like, specifically in bed.

That's many years ago since one of my close friend ended up having an affair with her. It devastated me for a very long time.

These days I get very aroused thinking about those times and often jerk one off with those images.
 
After decades of not wearing any makeup my wife has taken to using makeup again. As she has had two affairs in the past, this sudden change caught my attention. Does she just want to look better to feel good about herself or is she going to an effort to look good for some one else. I’ll start paying more attention to her activities now to see if any patterns develop. It might be nothing or it might be “Here we go again!”
 
Keep tabs on her worn panties.
Panties, any increase in shopping excursions, keep an eye on her credit card charges, see if she withdraws cash more often. I’ll probably think of more and I’ll document all I find this time.
 
Panties, any increase in shopping excursions, keep an eye on her credit card charges, see if she withdraws cash more often. I’ll probably think of more and I’ll document all I find this time.
Thing is, most of those details, at least taken one by one, can be ambiguous. They'll create a tease in your mind, but they won't give you a certain answer. But cum stains? (or “clitty litter,” as a girl I once knew called it)— leave no room for doubt.
 
Thing is, most of those details, at least taken one by one, can be ambiguous. They'll create a tease in your mind, but they won't give you a certain answer. But cum stains? (or “clitty litter,” as a girl I once knew called it)— leave no room for doubt.
If I find some cum stains in her panties I wonder if I will be able to resist adding a bit more to the evidence?
 
That switch-flipping seems to be a common theme. For me, it didn't happen that way. It started as a slow burn, way back in high school, when a date ditched me for another guy, and I went home angry, went to bed, and then discovered how aroused I was. It grew from there-- slowly.
Did you then jack off or how did you get off, if you did?
 
Did you then jack off or how did you get off, if you did?
Of course I jacked off. And I don't remember well, but I imagine, knowing me, that I jacked off a good many other nights thinking about her too.

A few months later, a second date did the same thing to me, this time with a friend of mine. This time both the sense of humiliation, and of arousal at that humiliation, were on a much clearer and more conscious level. It was a long time before someone actually cheated on me again after that, but from then onward, I fantasized about it or other forms of humiliation all the time
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My wife and I have had a monogamous marriage for “most” of our years together. During 2005, she reconnected with a teenage crush for a brief time, and as far as I know, only moved as far as heavy making out and ??. I was mad when she confessed, thinking about our children, and the fact that I was out by myself on one occasion when she was with him and I didn’t have a clue.

Fast forward to now, and I’m encouraging her to cheat on me, I am so rock hard and aroused at the fact. I want her to bring me home a wet sloppy pussy to clean up. I want her to be fucked by another hardon.

I don’t understand what changed in me, but it did. I went from pissed off and mad to so aroused and curious. No idea why.

That’s where I’m at currently, anyway.
 
During 2005, she reconnected with a teenage crush for a brief time, and as far as I know, only moved as far as heavy making out and ??.
Uh-huh
Fast forward to now, and I’m encouraging her to cheat on me, I am so rock hard and aroused at the fact. I want her to bring me home a wet sloppy pussy to clean up. I want her to be fucked by another hardon.
I hope she jumps on it.
 
My wife and I have had a monogamous marriage for “most” of our years together. During 2005, she reconnected with a teenage crush for a brief time, and as far as I know, only moved as far as heavy making out and ??. I was mad when she confessed, thinking about our children, and the fact that I was out by myself on one occasion when she was with him and I didn’t have a clue.

Fast forward to now, and I’m encouraging her to cheat on me, I am so rock hard and aroused at the fact. I want her to bring me home a wet sloppy pussy to clean up. I want her to be fucked by another hardon.

I don’t understand what changed in me, but it did. I went from pissed off and mad to so aroused and curious. No idea why.

That’s where I’m at currently, anyway.
Years ago my x cheated on me. It crushed me. One night while she was out I became aroused at the thought of what she might be up to. If I had the nerve and confidence to talk to her about we probably could have worked something out but soon after she left. The past 25 years I’ve been fantasizing about my current wife fucking other men.
Go figure.
 
I'm turned on by the thought of her giving her body to another man. I think about her lips wrapped around his dick.She takes pride in her blow jobs. She told me that when another woman is giving him head, she wants him to think about how good she made him feel when she sucked him off. I like thinking about her spreading he legs for him, taking his cock nice and deep. I know how much she creams when she's exited. I imagine her cum all over his cock. Nice and sloppy.
 
Years ago my x cheated on me. It crushed me. One night while she was out I became aroused at the thought of what she might be up to. If I had the nerve and confidence to talk to her about we probably could have worked something out but soon after she left. The past 25 years I’ve been fantasizing about my current wife fucking other men.
Go figure.
Wow, can I ever relate to you, I have very similar thoughts, except my ex had a ton of non sexual related baggage I couldn’t handle.

I’m in the same mindset of my wife now, I really want her to cheat on me pretty badly…
 
my fiancée and I have been together, off and on for 8 years, she is bi, was married, when we became “intimate” frequently.

I became hyper focused on pleasing her, and she has a serious, sexy voyeur kink. She loves watching me. Then she began enjoying watching me in public, dressed in whatever she selected.

The venues were bars, restaurant bars, dance e clubs, and even strip clubs. She loved to watch me interact with others, let the grope me, kiss me, until she can’t take it any longer, then grab my wrist and rustle me away and fuck me the second the door closed in our home.

The it got a bit more depraved, when she welcomed her friends in our home, and offer me to them, to fuck me, but she wanted to watch.

Initially, I was stunned she would go that far to make me please her. I submitted to her wishes, however when she saw me enjoying it more than when she was with me it became awkward.

She became very jealous, and she almost completely stopped me from doing it.

Now shen she is away on business, I still see occasionally, a couple of her friends, individually while she is gone, and each night I am away from home, I try to hook up with complete strangers, in my hotel room. One night stands (or more) has become normal for me because I have been so turned on with this lifestyle.

I love this topic, thank you for sharing.
Fuckkk 🥵
 
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