Chat about cheating . . .

[JordynRose]

my fiancée and I have been together, off and on for 8 years, she is bi, was married, when we became “intimate” frequently.

I became hyper focused on pleasing her, and she has a serious, sexy voyeur kink. She loves watching me. Then she began enjoying watching me in public, dressed in whatever she selected.

The venues were bars, restaurant bars, dance e clubs, and even strip clubs. She loved to watch me interact with others, let the grope me, kiss me, until she can’t take it any longer, then grab my wrist and rustle me away and fuck me the second the door closed in our home.

The it got a bit more depraved, when she welcomed her friends in our home, and offer me to them, to fuck me, but she wanted to watch.

Initially, I was stunned she would go that far to make me please her. I submitted to her wishes, however when she saw me enjoying it more than when she was with me it became awkward.

She became very jealous, and she almost completely stopped me from doing it.

Now shen she is away on business, I still see occasionally, a couple of her friends, individually while she is gone, and each night I am away from home, I try to hook up with complete strangers, in my hotel room. One night stands (or more) has become normal for me because I have been so turned on with this lifestyle.

I love this topic, thank you for sharing.

 

[Nellie60]

One of my wife’s “cheating” episodes was less dramatic. I was away and my wife and her next door neighbor, a friend of hers, a chubby blonde and the chubby blondes balding and chubby boyfriend, convinced my wife to go skinny dipping with them in the nearby river. The neighbors boyfriend has been lusting after my wife for years. My wife (drinking of course) though that “he probably wouldn’t even look”. She told me about the day when I got home. Ok, I though this was hot from the start. She didn’t fuck him, doesn’t remember him touching her, but, the guy had wondered for years and finally got his look. Guy is still a facebook friend of hers….

Hi there again, sounds like your wife still attracts a lot of attention. Did you ever get more information from her about that initially affair?

The fact you found it hot maybe your "compensation" for the attention she gets. Maybe deep down that's your desire perhaps after that first incidence.

 

[liqueur]

I love this topic, thank you for sharing.

And thank you!

 

[SmallHubby7897]

In my case finding out that my wife cheated on me with a man for almost two years without me knowing, and me being excited and not bothered when I found out was like a switch being flipped on me.

But I'm sure the things like having ex-girlfriends complained about my performance in bed several times during our relationships, then afterwards some had cheating/broken up with me to be with other men, and the fact that I became curious after getting married about the hotwife and bull lifestyle certainly contributed to my acceptance.

Since I talked to her after finding out that she cheated on me she has been a hotwife for almost 7 years.
I love knowing or seeing her getting fucked in ways I never could.

 

[liqueur]

In my case finding out that my wife cheated on me with a man for almost two years without me knowing, and me being excited and not bothered when I found out was like a switch being flipped on me.

That switch-flipping seems to be a common theme. For me, it didn't happen that way. It started as a slow burn, way back in high school, when a date ditched me for another guy, and I went home angry, went to bed, and then discovered how aroused I was. It grew from there-- slowly.

 

[Nellie60]

I know with my 2nd girlfriend I was jealous every time one of friends was talking to her and even during parties where they would dance with her probably because they envied me and they sort of wanted to know what she was like, specifically in bed.

That's many years ago since one of my close friend ended up having an affair with her. It devastated me for a very long time.

These days I get very aroused thinking about those times and often jerk one off with those images.